A Father

by James Carnivale
(Montclair NJ)

When the state or any government agency is involved in family matters, all families loose there rights. We have given up our God given rights to raise our families to a state or government legislature. We have created a system that is unjust and destructive to families. There is only one way back to regaining our God given rights. Returning to the God of our Fathers, meaning our founding Fathers that trusted in God. There is no other way. We as a people will continue to suffer pain and injustice in our families, communities and nation because we have forsaken God Almighty and his word the Holy Bible. Look at our leaders and judges today. They are misfits and devoid of wisdom they are blind incapable of discerning right from wrong. There is no way out of this corrupt and evil legal system. Fathers turn your lives over to Jesus Christ the one in the Holy Bible! Start with one of the four Gospels. Matthew, Mark, Luke or John. This Jesus will deliver you personally from all your troubles including this present evil age. News Flash, the Lawyers will not help you. They will only help themselves to your money; the legal system they navigate in is corrupt.

This is my story, I was divorced about five years ago, and my wife of 13 years divorced me because it was too difficult for her. I tried to keep the marriage together because I didn't believe in divorce except for the reasons God allows. We also have three sons together. There were problems in our marriage most definitely. She chose the easy way to divorce. In the state of NJ you don't need a reason to divorce; this is a departure from God's word. So I left a nice home in an affluent neighborhood I gave this house to her because of the children. My mistake, I made plenty of them I was not in a clear frame of mind divorce is extremely emotional. Long story short in the course of time she remarried and her and her new husband now live in my old house. They have since expanded it and have three very nice cars in the drive way. They both work and do pretty well together. Unfortunately her new marriage of 3 years is showing signs of trouble. I have also remarried to a wonderful and beautiful woman. Thank you God! I still pay my X child support to the tune of about 2K monthly. This is my Question, Why should I pay my X anything at all? In my heart of hearts I don't believe I should pay her anything. She divorced me and gets financially rewarded through the courts. The state encourages divorce! So a woman can live with a man not married or married have a baby with him then say I don't want this man any more kick him out have another man move in and the first man must pay her child support. I say NO to that law and legal system.