A Great Father

by Tim
(Sand)

What if you don't make any money? I have been in sales my entire adult life and have "MORE" than supported my daughter. eg.... I was court ordered to pay $508.00 a month and I paid between $600.00 and $ 800.00 a month. Now that we have been in a recession for the past 2 years and I am behind in $upport, my daughter's mother calls me a "Dead Beat". That to me, is as bad as calling me "White Trash"!! My ex-wife is a sociopath. She will "LIE" if the the truth fits better. How do you deal with people that are "100 % NUTS"?? My ex-wife is bi-polar and a compulsive liar. I obviously can't afford an attorney AND I have to deal with a person that truthfully should be "committed"!!! What should/can I do?? Mara Lynne Groth-Sand-Hall is the meanest person I have ever met!! She needs a therapist! Her own family is scared of her and they refuse to stand up to her because of the VIOLENCE she "threatens" them all with!What if you don't make any money?

I have been in sales my entire adult life and have "MORE" than supported my daughter. eg....In the beginning I was court ordered to pay $508.00 a month and I paid between $600.00 and $ 800.00 a month. Now that we have been in a recession for the past 2 years and I am behind in $upport, my daughter's mother calls me a "Dead Beat". That to me, is as bad as calling me "White Trash"!! My ex-wife is a sociopath!! She will "LIE" if the truth fits better?!?! How do you deal with people that are "100 % NUTS"?? My ex-wife is bi-polar and a compulsive liar.

I obviously can't afford an attorney AND I have to deal with a person that truthfully should be "committed"!!! What should/can I do?? Mara Lynne Groth-Sand-Hall is the meanest person I have ever met!! She needs a therapist and a wing of the hospital with her "name" on it! Her own family is scared of her and they refuse to stand up to her because of the VIOLENCE she "threatens" them with?? Her own sister has story after story regarding her violence and lies! It is so sad my daughter has to go through this BS!! My ex has re-married a man in Chicago 3 Years ago and has put my daughter through "HELL" leaving this guy 3 TIMES AND MOVING BACK TO ARIZONA AND RETURNING TO CHICAGO WITH A CHILD!! My daughter was 9 at the time and is now 11!! This is not good for "ANYONE"!!!! Yet alone a CHILD!!!!!

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We need to protect our children
by: heather

I have a five yr old son. His father and I were together for 6yrs when I became pregnant. He began to cheat on me so I left him. Of course we got back together shortly after our son was born. Unfortunatly it was a mistake and we seperated again 3 yrs ago. I have never gone to court with my ex over anything. He has refused to pay child support but will give us money if I beg for it. Not much, maybe $100 here and there. I was recently laid off of work and asked him to pay me $400 a month. He was very upset but agreed to it. Of course he doesnt offer the money to me so everytime I see him I am forced to beg for it and then he says all I want is $$$.. This is fusterating for me since I do not interfere in there relationship, I never put him down or say anything negitive about him to my son, yet he acts like I am trying to take advantage of him. When I do the child support calculator it says he should be paying me over $950 a month, yet he complains about the $400 that just started in Oct of this year.He does spend almost every weekend with his dad and I hate to fight about it but I am done. It is time to get the court orderd support. And to all of you dads out there who are dealing with a crazy woman then it is your obligation to fight for your childrens rights and yours as well. It is not just about the money it is about doing right by the child and being bitter or negitive will only make things worse. My son is my life, as a mother I would NEVER lie to him about his dad or cause him to see me distressed over his dad or money. Kids are kids and it is up to us parents to protect them. If your child is with a bipolar liar maybe you need to fight for custody and get the woman to pay you child support.

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Looking for answers.
by: Peter Perez

My name is Peter Perez im from Mesa AZ. i have been paying child support for the last 13 years, not court orderd. 2 wonderful kids daughter 13 son 11. love them so much. there mother lucia is very unhappy with her life she is now been married to a fireman for a few yrs, and she has a good job and they have a wonderful life, i pay 300 a month, i have missed some payments due to job loss, but i have never gone one month with out giving her money. In 13 yrs i have only missed a few months 0f not paying her total 300, but my problem is she always harrases me no matter what, she threatens me to take me to court and i do my best to do what i can for my kids to her thats not good enough. i cant take no more i get depressed often now because of her always harassing me. My relationship with my kids has been going south because of her lies to them, she has claimed them for the last 13 yrs on her taxes only one time i claimed my daughter.I have tried to do the best i can to be a good father. but is money always the answer to a good father who knows! all i want is to be in my kids life. so to court we go. Why now is she taking me to court? im looking for answers so if anyone out there with some anwers about this or were do i find an answer plz e-mail me perezpeter1237@yahoo.com.

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It's Funny
by: rjamison331

It's funny that you wrote about the woman being bipolar and a liar, I'm having the same problem. To top it off the woman some how gave the child my last name, but what ever go on it does not matter to any state or court we must pay. It's a dogy dog world and when it come to this child support issue, they don't give a fuck. the system is robing us by using fsmily issues, if they would mind there business I bet all these woman traping off men with childrento make money would stop. You know another thing if these dum ass men with the money would fight these issues, it wouldn't trickle down to us small guys that can't afford to go through these matters.

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