ANGRY IN TEXAS
MY X AND I GOT DIVORCED ABOUT 3 YEARS AGO. HE STATED TO ME THAT ALL I WANTED TO DO WAS SCREW HIM. WHEN THE DIVORCED WAS FINALIZED I MADE THE DIVORCE SO THAT HE WOULD PAY ME THE CHILD SUPPORT, INSTEAD OF GOING THRU THE ATTORNEY GENERAL. THREE MONTHS LATER HE DECIDES THAT HE IS NOT GOING TO PAY ME THE CHILD SUPPORT ANY LONGER. I FILE WITH THE STATE THAT MONTH, BUT BEFORE I FILE I CALLED HIM TO REMIND HIM OF THE CHILD SUPPORT. HE TELLS ME THAT HE DECIDED THAT HE IS NOT GOING TO PAY ME ANY LONGER AND TOLD HIM IF HE WAS SURE THAT HE WAS GOING TO DO THAT. I THEN TOLD HIM HE WOULD HEARING FROM THE ATTORNEY GENERAL. IT HAS TAKEN THE ATTORNEY GENERAL 3 YEARS TO FILE A ORDER TO INFORCE. AFTER I GAVE THEM HIS ADDRESS. I CALLED ABOUT A YEAR AND FIRST THEY TOLD ME THAT HE NEEDED TO BE ABOUT 90 DAYS WITHOUT MAKING A PAYMENT. WHEN THAT HAPPEN, THEY THEN SAID THAT THEY NEEDED TO SEND HIM NOTICES FIRST. IN THE THREE YEAR SINCE THEN HE HAS ONLY MADE ABOUT 10 PAYMENTS. NEVER PAYING WHAT HE IS SUPPOSE TO PAY. WHEN MY ATTORNEY DECIDED TO FIND IN CONTEMPT OF COURT, HE DECIDE THEN TO HIRE AND ATTORNEY TO LOWER HIS CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENT. MADE A COUPLE OF PAYMENTS. I CALLED THE ATTORNEYS OFFICE AND THEY TOLD ME THAT I NEED TO CAL EVERY MONTH REGARDLESS IF HE PAYS OR NOT. I CALLED FOR ABOUT FOUR MONTHS AND FINALLY I GET A RESPONSE FROM THE ATTORNEY GENERAL. THEY SET UP A COURT DATE AND I SHOW UP HOPING THAT THEY WILL FINALLY INFORCE AND LOW AND BEHOLD HE GETS 7 MORE DAYS TO HIRE AN ATTORNEY TO REPRESENT HIM. HE TRIED GETTING A COURT APPOINTED ATTORNEY AND THE JUDGE DENIED HIM THAT. NOW I HAVE TO WAIT UNTIL THE NEXT COURT DATE TO SEE IF HIS ASS WILL FINALLY GO TO JAIL. I AM NOT ASKING TO MUCH FROM HIM, BUT ONLY HELP WITH THE EXPENSES OF TWO KIDS HE HELP FATHER. ALL HE WANTED WAS TO GET DIVORCED TO GET REMARRIED AND HE DOESN'T HAVE THE B*****S TO CONFRONT ME AND TELL ME DOUBTS THAT THEY ARE HIS KIDS. HIS WIFE HAS TO YELL IT IN THE PHONE TO MAKE MY 9 YEAR OLD SON HEAR THAT. I SAY TO ALL YOU PARENTS THAT HAVE THE KIDS AND TO THE ONES THAT DON'T AND ARE STRUGGLING WITH THE OTHER PARENTS BECAUSE AT LEAST ON PARENT IN THE BUNCH CAN BE RESPONSIBLE, WHILE THE OTHER WANTS TO CHEAT THE SYSTEM. THIS REALLY SUCKS FOR BOTH!!! I STRUGGLED, WHEN MY EX AND I SEPARATED I HAD A NEW BORN AND REGARDLESS OF HIS STUPIDITY I HAD TO TAKE CARE OF THE CHILD.
THEY COME FIRST (THE CHILD) NOT US. THE OTHER STUPID PARENT SHOULD THINK ABOUT THAT.