ANGRY IN TEXAS

MY X AND I GOT DIVORCED ABOUT 3 YEARS AGO. HE STATED TO ME THAT ALL I WANTED TO DO WAS SCREW HIM. WHEN THE DIVORCED WAS FINALIZED I MADE THE DIVORCE SO THAT HE WOULD PAY ME THE CHILD SUPPORT, INSTEAD OF GOING THRU THE ATTORNEY GENERAL. THREE MONTHS LATER HE DECIDES THAT HE IS NOT GOING TO PAY ME THE CHILD SUPPORT ANY LONGER. I FILE WITH THE STATE THAT MONTH, BUT BEFORE I FILE I CALLED HIM TO REMIND HIM OF THE CHILD SUPPORT. HE TELLS ME THAT HE DECIDED THAT HE IS NOT GOING TO PAY ME ANY LONGER AND TOLD HIM IF HE WAS SURE THAT HE WAS GOING TO DO THAT. I THEN TOLD HIM HE WOULD HEARING FROM THE ATTORNEY GENERAL. IT HAS TAKEN THE ATTORNEY GENERAL 3 YEARS TO FILE A ORDER TO INFORCE. AFTER I GAVE THEM HIS ADDRESS. I CALLED ABOUT A YEAR AND FIRST THEY TOLD ME THAT HE NEEDED TO BE ABOUT 90 DAYS WITHOUT MAKING A PAYMENT. WHEN THAT HAPPEN, THEY THEN SAID THAT THEY NEEDED TO SEND HIM NOTICES FIRST. IN THE THREE YEAR SINCE THEN HE HAS ONLY MADE ABOUT 10 PAYMENTS. NEVER PAYING WHAT HE IS SUPPOSE TO PAY. WHEN MY ATTORNEY DECIDED TO FIND IN CONTEMPT OF COURT, HE DECIDE THEN TO HIRE AND ATTORNEY TO LOWER HIS CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENT. MADE A COUPLE OF PAYMENTS. I CALLED THE ATTORNEYS OFFICE AND THEY TOLD ME THAT I NEED TO CAL EVERY MONTH REGARDLESS IF HE PAYS OR NOT. I CALLED FOR ABOUT FOUR MONTHS AND FINALLY I GET A RESPONSE FROM THE ATTORNEY GENERAL. THEY SET UP A COURT DATE AND I SHOW UP HOPING THAT THEY WILL FINALLY INFORCE AND LOW AND BEHOLD HE GETS 7 MORE DAYS TO HIRE AN ATTORNEY TO REPRESENT HIM. HE TRIED GETTING A COURT APPOINTED ATTORNEY AND THE JUDGE DENIED HIM THAT. NOW I HAVE TO WAIT UNTIL THE NEXT COURT DATE TO SEE IF HIS ASS WILL FINALLY GO TO JAIL. I AM NOT ASKING TO MUCH FROM HIM, BUT ONLY HELP WITH THE EXPENSES OF TWO KIDS HE HELP FATHER. ALL HE WANTED WAS TO GET DIVORCED TO GET REMARRIED AND HE DOESN'T HAVE THE B*****S TO CONFRONT ME AND TELL ME DOUBTS THAT THEY ARE HIS KIDS. HIS WIFE HAS TO YELL IT IN THE PHONE TO MAKE MY 9 YEAR OLD SON HEAR THAT. I SAY TO ALL YOU PARENTS THAT HAVE THE KIDS AND TO THE ONES THAT DON'T AND ARE STRUGGLING WITH THE OTHER PARENTS BECAUSE AT LEAST ON PARENT IN THE BUNCH CAN BE RESPONSIBLE, WHILE THE OTHER WANTS TO CHEAT THE SYSTEM. THIS REALLY SUCKS FOR BOTH!!! I STRUGGLED, WHEN MY EX AND I SEPARATED I HAD A NEW BORN AND REGARDLESS OF HIS STUPIDITY I HAD TO TAKE CARE OF THE CHILD.

THEY COME FIRST (THE CHILD) NOT US. THE OTHER STUPID PARENT SHOULD THINK ABOUT THAT.

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Its all about the benjamins.
by: Golddigger

I have to pay 1900 a month for child support. Mean while my x-wife moved back to her home state and lives in a 300K home. My son calls me needing money all the time. I tell him that I gave your mother money to buy you what you need. He tells me shes helping her sister pay for college???? Then my son calls back angry and pouting and now he hates me!!! Really, they have to take 1900 a month from me so my wife can live the good life and support her sister???? Then Im made out to be the bad guy? Yeah, we are all created equal NOT!

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You are an idiot.
by: Anonymous

Wow "point the finger at yourself" you have some issues. My ex hasn't paid child support in 1.5 years. I am taking him to court for this... but not because i want welfare. I make over 90K a year and provide for my kids. Just because I went to college and make a good living that doesn't let him off the hook (as he thinks). He hasn't seen the kids in over year either. He's convinced, somehow, this is all my fault. I have still live in the same city,state I lived in for the last 11 years. He is the one who moved all over the place and can't even seem to manage a phone call to his kids.
To all the fathers who think the woman is just being greedy you really need a smack in the head. Do you really think it doesn't cost anything to raise kids? ???

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Directed at "Point the Finger"
by: Anonymous

WOW!!! I am a responsible divorced father and I pay my child support on time, everytime for the sake of my child! Your comments sound like an uneducated dead beat dad's comments. What real father would not want to pay for and take care of their child? Just sayin...

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Wanting child support doesn't mean freeloader.
by: Anonymous

Child support doesn't equal welfare. If she had been on welfare she wouldn't have to ride the Attorney greneral's ass to get court dates, etc. Dads should pay regardless of income because they both are responsilbe for the childs financial needs. And yes they BOTH argreed to the sex so HE should not have the option of walking away from HIS financial responsibility. Stupid.

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point the finger at yourself
by: Anonymous

So why all the hostility? I think child support should be called free x support. Because usually i read about they x's not paying the child support and never do i read how the cusodial parent found a good paying job to support that child. Never do i read how independant that parent is without the help of another man or welfare. Welfare is probably the first turn they will take. No one can be independant while living off of tax payers money aka welfare system. And lastly, how many women point the fingers at men being dead beat dads, but never claim responsibility for their choices. If you didnt say yes to sex, then it would be called rape. I wish more people wouuld fess up to their choices and accept the responsiblity for the happy time they had. Dont point fingers without pointing it at yourself first.

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Damn!
by: Rjamison331

Damn there is something wrong, she has gave him chances. He's a Dummy and you should press him, and if he left you with a newborn. I agree with you and he's lucky not everyone get a chance like that. Press Him

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