Arrears of $80,000
by MARIA
(PHOENIX, AZ)
JUST WANTED TO SAY RE; 80,000.00 IN ARREARS CITY OF PHOENIX EMPLOYER NOR THE CS ENFORCEMENT HELP.
DON'T GET ME WRONG, ADRIAN AND MYSELF, I LIKE TO THINK, REMAINED FRIENDS THROUGH THE 18 YEARS. OUR CHILDREN ARE BOTH 18 NOW, ONE IS STILL IN SCHOOL GRADUATING THS YEAR AND THE OTHER GRADUATED LAST YEAR AND IS PREPARING TO GO TO COLLEGE. I DON'T WANT TO TALK GARBAGE ABOUT MY EX, THAT IS NOT WHY I WANT MY STORIES POSTED. I WANT MY STORY OUT BECAUSE I HAVE BEEN DEALING WITH THIS WHOLE DES CS FOR 18 YEARS AND THEY DO NOT OFFER ANY PRODUCTIVE CONSULTATION OR HELP. I HAVE DONE MY HOMEWORK REVIEWED MY RIGHTS AND THOSE OF ADRIANS. WHAT I ALSO REVIEWED IS THE LAWS ABOUT EMPLOYER WITHOLDING AND WHAT CAN HAPPEN IF THE EMPLOER FAILS TO COMPLY. CITY OF PHOENIX GOT AWAY THIS YEAR WITH NOT WITHOLDING 4700.00 MOST OF THIS IS WHEN WE WERE WAITING FOR COURT DATE, THEY WERE ASKED WHY THEY DIDN'T COMPLY THEY HAD NO REASONS FOR NOT WITHOLDING.EXACT WORDS OOOOOPS............. CONTEMPT.........AGAIN IN DEC. XMAS TIME JUST DECIDED TO MAKE IT EASIER FOR ADRIAN AND NOT SEND 1/2 OF THE ORDERED SUPPORT. I GET NO ANSWERS NO HELP NO ASSISTANCE WITH REGARDS AS TO WHY SANCTION ARE NOT TAKEN UPON ADRIANS EMPLOYER. I AM SURE I AM NOT THE ONLY ONE THIS HAPPENED TO IT PROBABLY HAPPENS TO MOSTLY ALL THE SINGLE MOMS OR DADS JUST TRYING TO SURVIVE WITH CHILDREN. THE SYSTEM IS NO HELP AND THAT IS BECAUSE THE PEOPLE WORKING DO NOT WANT TO DO THEIR JOB COULD CARE LESS AS IF YOU GET YOUR MONIES OWED. I STILL CARE VERY MUCH FOR ADRIAN AND I DO NOT WANT TO PUT HIM DOWN, NOT AT ALL. HE IS A GOOD PERSON AND HIS FAMILY ARE VERY GOOD PEOPLE, I LOVE HIS FAMILY TILL THIS DAY. HE JUST NEEDS TO BE MADE TO FOLLOW THE COURT ORDER AND CUT THE CRAP AND BE THE MAN I KNOW HE IS. HE PUTS ME DOWN ALL THE TIME AND THAT IS OKAY, IT IS BECAUSE I GOT HIM WHERE IT HURTS...........WALLET! I JUST WANT TO REMAIN FRIENDS ANDLET'S GROW UP AND SIT DOWN STOP THE GAMES AND WORK SOMETHING OUT...MEDIATOR PRESENT ALSO. JUST WANTED EVERYONE TO KNOW MY WHOLE SITUATION AND I AM NOT HATING ON THE MAN, EMPLOYER, CS...........JUST WANT SOMEONE TO SETTLE THIS NON-COMPLIANCE BULL---- AND WE CAN ALL BE HAPPY. HOPEFULLY MAKE A CHANGE SOMEWHERE SO OTHERS ARE NOT LOST IN THE SYSTEM TOO.... 18 YERS LOST I8N THE SYSTEM LEADS TO MUCH UNHAPPINESS AND LIFE IS TOO SHORT FOR THAT..........TOO LATE MY GIRLS ARE ALREADY 18 WHERE DID THE YEARS GO...............FIGHTING CHILD SUPPORT!
