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AZ Child Support didn't care about me or my children.

by Tracy Douglas
(Arizona Phoenix)

I had three children. I had to give one of them up because I never received one single court ordered payment until , of course , my husband (we're still legally married) became incarcerated for two years. The support order was promptly modified in his favor. And so for two yrs, I recieved 13.00 per month for two children. When he was released? The payments stopped. However, the modified support amount stayed the same. By this time, my children and I had become homeless. I briefly reunited with my husband and became pregnant with our third. He promised us that he would be there for us and for the new baby. He lied. After one yr. I had to give my son over to my parents to raise. They raised him as their son. My mom even tried to make him call me Aunt Tracy. She had control over my heart saying that she would eventually adopt him. Instead, she collected welfare on him and I soon found myself oweing support as well as being owed. If I had even recieved half of the original support amount Things may have been different. If the original amount had been reinstated as quickly as it had modified to practically nothing(13.00) Who knows where I would be or what I could have done for my children. Arizona says that I am not owed one red cent but that I now owe over 28,000.00 dollars for my son. But I have two grown daughters now with kids of their own who were completely brushed under the rug by the Az child support enforcement. I struggled all of my life to keep my daughters safe and warm. I wasn't always able to do that. We were homeless alot , living with people , struggling every day.

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by: Anonymous

I am confused by your story: You said you have 3 children but had to give one of them up because you didn’t receive support. Are you saying you had to give the child you weren’t receiving support for up? If you were unable to care for your children why did you not seek alternative living arrangements for all of them instead of just the one you didn’t receive support for? I do not receive support for my child either but I struggled to make sure we were always taken care of and had family support as well. It sound like your ex and your mother screwed you over but I'm still trying to figure out why you had to give up your one child because of no child support.

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You are right
by: Larry S.

Your ex is an asshole giving us real men a bad name and because of asses like that, us real men get treated like we are the deadbeat dads. The system is defenately screwed up. I get screwed by the system because I cared about my child and you get screwed by the system because your ex doesn't care about his children. They almost never get the real deadbeat dads because they have no steady jobs, no steady home and they just don't care about there kids. So they go after the ones that have a steady job, steady home and care about there kids and make them out to be the deadbeat dads. I just don't understand the system. Good luck and from one man who does care about our children, I am sorry for your pain and suffering you had to go through to raise your children.

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