I pay 100% of the financial obligation for child support for my son Jordan Stuart Mills. While my ex-wife pays 0%. She has since re-married husband # 2 and has 2 children by him, then divorced and re-married husband # 3 and has 1 child by him. Ever since she re-married husband # 3 I have been totally alienated from my son. I call but no answer or return phone calls. I have not talk to or seen my son in over 2 years, but pay $800/month child support. This leaves me with $374/wk take home. My son and I had a good relationship before her 3rd marriage. Niow I am being driven into poverty and can not contact my son. His phone is now disconnected along with her phone and her husbands phone, but yet I am still being made to pay $800/mo. I miss and love my son very much, but have been alienated. This is the greatest pain I have vere known. Is there any advise or help for dads like me?
I have a friend in S.C. who is trying to raise her son in a sane home life paying for everything while the father of her son pays nothing and never has since they split over 4 years ago. He has no job or income but smokes pot and lives off his mother in Costa Rica. Now he's trying to get full custody!!! If he really cared about his sons mental health and emotional stability he'd move back to S.C., get a job, and work out a joint custody peacefully. This guy is a master manipulator and bullies people and lies. We here is C.R. know the whole story and the mother had to return to the states because they all were here illegally and the boy needed a better education as he is a very bright young man. He's involved with little league up there, church groups, and is doing very well in school. The boy wasn't getting educated properly and when he stayed with his father on the beaches of Costa Rica he did poorly in school and was more of the adult then the father. He even was told by his father to hold his pot for him! Any ideas?
