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Change Is Coming for Custodial Parents - Texas Single Parents Coalition

by Sylvia Fenstermacher
(Austin, TX)


I raised two kids, working two jobs for almost 10 years, 7 days a week. My kids are grown now, my ex became disabled and owed over $100,000 in child support when he passed away in 2007. Now I have a 3 year old grandson and his father is already behind by $8000. We all know what the AG's office has done about that and thousands of others, that's right NOTHING!!! I got lucky and landed a job in a lobby firm which I worked for almost 20 years.

It may be too late for me and my children, but not for my grandson or any other child out there. I am now self-employed (Legislative Data Services) working with lobbyists, legislators and political action committees on campaign finance, non profit filings, and sending out invitations for fundraisers; etc...however, I am in the process of using the tools I learned employed at the lobby firm. I have been meeting with legislators and will continue to do so during the interim to encourage another Sunset Review of the AG's Office.

According to their last report they did not meet all the recommendations or actions required under their last review. The AG's Office received $27,300,000 in appropriations this legislative session for child support enforcement, its time for them to stop making excuses and start doing their job. During the last session I testified on bills dealing with Net Resources, Earnings and Disposable Earnings. If you are a custodial parent and the non-custodial parent works in the restaurant/bar service industry I have big news for you, "tips" are included as garnishable wages.

I managed to get an AG's Opinion clarifiying this. Call the Texas AG's office and ask for a copy, ask for Louisa McGee, Kathy McMichael or Alicia Keys and get your child support. Or you can hire an attorney because Sec. 158.206 says the employer becomes liable to you if they fail to collect, it also awards attorney fees and court costs. The are also liable for a $200 fine per pay period for failure to collect which goes toward child support enforcement. Go to the AG's website and go to the employer section, they receive a booklet on this and still they fail to collect "tips". My grandsons case is going to the Domestion Relations Office in Travis County for enforcement and is no longer with the AG's office. They all know grandma is on her way. Check your county for an office like this if you are not getting anywhere with the AG's office. Contact your legislator about the Sunset Process.

As a child I used to play in the halls of the Capitol Building growing up in the State of Nebraska, I moved to Texas in 1986, when I was 26, now I am 48 and know I am in the right place at the right time. Change is long overdue.


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Change Is Coming for Custodial Parents - Texas Single Parents Coalition

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Feb 19, 2010
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I dont get it
by: Step DAD (Father)

I have a daughter from a previous wife, I have paid CS since the day I left she had it increased and I have no issues with it at all. My current wife has 2 beautiful girls I love dearly and wouldnt trade for anything! Her Ex on the other hand is a typical dead beat in my book from the day we met he was paying 400 a month for both girls on a 32,000 a year salary granted she agreed to it. We went back to court this last year as circumstances changed where he didnt have them every other day according to the previous decree, (his mom had them in reality)and she is a whole different story.So we asked him to sign the paper work we had drawn up stating they had joint custody but she was the primary and he paid the same support, we would claim the taxes and nothing else to be changed he fought us over it so we hired an attorney 4K later we had the modification and his cp increased by 100 dollars a month and he carrys insurance which I have carried since 2006!And hes behind on medical and CP over 2k.
6 Months later he still does not have insurance and is not reimbursing us half the premium as before not to mention has filled for a modification because he quit his 30k plus a year job and took a lower paying one because he and his girlfriend had a baby and want to save daycare expenses! I would say it was a great effort accept they flat out told us they were looking for ways to decrease the child support they pay us his girlfriend checked into filling for child support on him for the new baby just so my wife and I would get less child support. I cant believe some of the things people do to avoid responsability to there children. Honestly we could survive without his child support but it is the principal of it all I was raised in a split family my father paid support religiously he was self employeed and could have done shady things to decrease or avoid it but he had true character. So bottom line is dead beats keep one thing in mind your messing with the quality of life of your children the money you dont think you need to pay might be what keeps them from being a cheerleader or playing in sports might even leave them with some jacked up teeth. these are your children they deserve your financial support!

Nov 02, 2009
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I applaud all the fathers that pay their cs
by: Jacqueline

I applaud all the fathers and mothers who pay their cs. I don't understand how some of these women get over so well on the system. I was overpaid and got in trouble now I have a record and it is hard for me to find a descent job to care for my children. This recession has almost killed my spirits and it hurts my soul that I cant find a job to support my children since their dad wont. I have gone back to school to get my degree and pray that I can get a job with that. I live in a small town with narrowed minded people, they only look at what the papers says about me. So what do I do, yes I do empathize with the dads but I too have a serious problem. All I can say is pray and be thankful that you can pay and take care of your children. Your children will come to you in the end because you are GREAT PARENTS, and when they are older and will see it that the problems were not all your fault.
God Bless you for being the GREAT PARENTS that you are.

Oct 29, 2009
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bust dead beat moms
by: Anonymous

My husband and I both work. We can't hardly pay our bills, but the AG is going to make sure his skanky ex gets her money. His ex and her husband dont work because they know how to work the system, they bring in $3600.00 a month. Thats more than we do working full time jobs. We have a hard time just getting visitation, but she can make 1 phone call and we have to go back to court to give her more money. The kids look like crap when we do see them so obviously that money is not going to them. Also, why don't people getting cs have to prove where the money is going, claim it as income, or take a freaking drug test. We do to make it for them...our system is totally screwed up!

Oct 24, 2009
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fair child support
by: Anonymous

so why does a disabled person get 100,000 in back child support? because they didn't lower it to a level he could pay. so tired of the bitchy women who think they are owed something because there hurt so they use there children as pawns!

Oct 12, 2009
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Step mother of 2
by: Anonymous

I agree with every bit of what all the dads and stepmoms said!!!!!!!
Do something Texas!!! You said CHANGE then CHANGE it!!

Oct 05, 2009
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Self employed
by: Anonymous

My ex husband is supposed to be paying me child support in the amount of 1100,.00 for two of our children. The oldest lives with him.
In our agreement I allowed him to stay in our house until the youngest graduated in exchange for my child support for the oldest. Now he has allowed the house to fall into total disrepair, abandoned it and owes me more than 6000.00 in back child support and (lol) has decided to go to the AG for me to pay him support for our oldest. Due to the fact that he is self employed I am unable to have his wages garnished and I am struggling desperately to pay just the day to day cost of raising my sons. I call the AG's office on a regular basis and the only thing that has been done so far is a freeze on his accounts. I have seen none of the money from that and the AG's office will tell me nothing of the next step except that it is in the enforcement process. I am so frustrated. At this rate I will have to move into my mothers small house to be able to live and my sons will contitnue to "enjoy" time with thier father who seems to have the money for laser tag, roller skating, new video games, etc>!
What other recourse is available to me?

Oct 02, 2009
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change needs to come on both side not just one
by: Erick

how about the dad's there are paying child support but the mom is not working and on medicade and other goverment help. I am going to school with 4.0 gpa and work for the future of my son, do everthing possible. and she does nothing but leach off hard working women like yourself fighting for the moms that are making a effort. you are right the laws should get tough on dead beat dads but also on dead beat moms. holding them liable because at the end of the day we are fighting for the childern and not for benifit of gain.

Sep 22, 2009
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What Change... only for the mothers of the children...
by: Anonymous

I got divorced in 2004 and had been paying my ex's house note, auto insurance and had my 2kids on medical, dental and vision insurance... we were seperated for 2 yrs and my ex tried to get me for back pay and luckily i had a good lawyer and good judge to tell her no that i had paid my part and more but i didnt get credit for.. i ended up paying 967.11 a month for 2 kids and i already had another... i had another child in 2006 and continued to pay the same amount making less a month i just had my 3rd child and i went to the AOG office but because my ex didnt agree to the lower child support of 737 at that time nothing was done.. but if i would have gone up then the AOG would have gone after me... i finally had to borrow money to hire a lawyer and take her to court... i was making less than 3k a month paying 967.11 with 3 kids already... tell me how is that fair? plus paying 180.55 in insurance... then to top it off when we went to the court hearing i didnt get no retroactive child support.. so she walked away with 1250 that i overpaid... but if i would have owed her 1250 they would have quickly took me for that... i think the AOG of houston are idiots who just manipulate and screw over hard working dads that bust their butt to make a decent living... so tell me what change? and to top it off she hid my kids from denied me visitation and when i would call to report her nothing was done... i have the reports but what.... so im paying and not having rights to see my kids and what does the AOG do... not a thing... just sits back and keeps screwing hard working dads....

Jul 08, 2009
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CS System sucks
by: Anonymous

I'm a excellent father who has two children with two different women however one does not live with their mom, the child lives with my mother due to my job, I do pay support to her and the CS did not give me any credit for taking care of him and now I'm paying double of what I'm suppose to be paying. To top that off I don't have any rights to my child! Talk about injustice!

Jul 02, 2009
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Change isn't coming...It's a facade!
by: Non-existant species

AMEN anonomous! My fiance hasn't seen his kids in 2 years! She continually moves and doesn't give him a forwarding address or numbers! The difference is that he owes back child support for the failure of FSR. He started receiving checks from Ohio that were in his name.We'd been praying that since the economy was so bad that we'd get a break. Most of his paychecks went to child support, so when he got the checks he presumed they were overpayment.NOW FSR is saying he owes that money to his ex because she never received the money! Here's the catch (and of course they won't admit they're at fault)...it is a child support law that the non-custodial parent CANNOT receive out-of-state checks from FSR and that they are bound by the law to send the checks to FSR where non-custodial parent resides.My question is this- if they (FSR) made the legal mistake, then why is he in jail and FSR not being held accountable for their failure to obey their own laws?! AND when did the money you send become more important than the relationship between a father and his kids? I'm angry as HE** that they want the money then lock men up so that they CANNOT PAY! This is why when someone asks me my political views I respond by saying,"Can I get another choice or vote for None of the Above!" Our leaders don't hear us because they have good jobs and we are just statistics!

Jul 02, 2009
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I agree with any other tips!
by: Stepmother of 3

Yes I believe in the IDEA of child support fully. When it is USED FOR THE CHILD!!!! So what is the state of Texas & the AG going to do as far as with the responsiblitys of the CUSTODIAL PARENT? Mojority of Custodial Parents that I know from MY HOME STATE OF NEBRASKA work their butt off and get a small amont of child support like 150-250 a month, while in the GREAT F**KING STATE OF TEXAS my husband payes 1500 a month in child support to the mother and grand parents of his 3 children, while the mother of his oldest son collects CS, food stamps,SSI for her other son by another man, the state of TEXAS also pays for her van,& insurance. She claims she can't work because of her disabled son BS he goes to school 8hrs a day for 10 months a yr, then during the summer my sister in law takes care of him. All the child support system in the state of Texas does is REWARD UNEMPLOYED CUSTODIAL PARENTS, while the NON CUSTODIAL PARENT BUST THEIR BUTT TO PAY CS, and might see there children 1-2 weeks out of a year... that is how many days my husband and I have seen the kids so far in the year 2009. After CS, insurance, taxes and our utility bills we maybe see $75 a week, that doesn't even put gas in our vehicles. We even took the oldest son to the denist after his mother let him sit with an abseted tooth for a month, she said she couldn't afford it! BS the child is insured and you recevie 841 dollers a month in child support. We ended up paying what insurance didn't cover $160 and she said she didn't have 80 to pay her half. SO MY QUESTION IS WHEN IS THE STATE OF TEXAS AND THE ANTI MEN AG GOING TO STOP LETTING WOMEN LIKE THIS SCREW THE SYSTEM????????

Jun 30, 2009
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Do you have any other tips?
by: Anonymous

Do you have any tips for fathers that pay child support but don't get visitation with their children? I personally think the child support system is wrong for all those involved and certainly the child. If I had children I wouldn't ever go through child support because they do more harm than good. For instance they reward women for their bad behavior by allowing them to quit their jobs, collect food stamps, assisted housing, and child support. All the while if the man quits his job he has his license suspended, he goes to jail, and his credit is in ruins, he gets behind in child support and they tax interest onto that. And the worst part is the child looses that much needed relationship with his/her father. Are you doing anything to revise these laws? I don't think a woman should receive child support if she is unwilling to allow visitation. I don't think she should receive child support if she doesn't have a job - unless she was a housewife. I don't think lazy, vindictive behavior should be rewarded. Have you thought about these things? How are you trying to change them?

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