What my husband is currently experiencing - another side of the story 
My husband is currently behind in child support to his ex. #1 He has NEVER been behind before until he lost his job and became very ill. I needed this ...

"Black Men targeted!"  
For the last 4years I've been putting things in perspective. 2 of those years I was recovering from being layed off from Chrysler manufacturing corp. Trying ...

Mary in Newport News Virginia 
The division of child support enforcement is a joke here. My ex-husband was ordered to pay a pathetic $240.00/month for TWO kids. He has yet to pay anything ...

Md child support enforcement is a joke! 
I have an 11 yr old son, whom is disabled. At present I am owed in excess of 23,000.00 back child support. The father of my son has another child from ...

No support hurts the kids 
I work very hard & live check to check. I supported my first child without help. DHR got involved but I never got anything. That child is 20 now & that ...

How dump is this 
My child is now 20 years old and I am still paying back child support and thats ok I understand that but like so many people these days I was laid off ...

Stupid child support LAWS!!!! 
My fiancee and I have 3 children together and seperated 3 years ago when he got married and had a child with her.He joined the army she spent his money ...

Unfair Laws of Child Support  
I have three grown children. I have always wanted to support my children,even though the mothers of my children never got married. But because child support ...

Still getting nowhere with child support 
My ex-husband, Patrick W Gleason, resides at 4359 N Capistrano Drive,Dallas,Texas.

He owes 63,600.00 in back pay child support and has been court ...

Father With No Rights 
Once I discovered that I had fathered a child through the trickery of a female acquaintance, I tried my best to make the best of the situation. She talked ...

Dead Beat Dad In Alabama 
I have two boys I never married their dad but he is on their birth certificate and they have his last name. We meet when we were young and partied alot ...

SSI/SSD for child support owed 
Can you tell me when your ex is now disable, how in the hell do you get the money owed from the child support that was owed to his kids. For one let you ...

on my own 
It took me 2 years for AG in Texas to believe that my ex did not live at my address. (as that is the address he keeps giving out) He has moved to Oklahoma ...

Deadbeat father quits another job, and stops paying child support 
Again the father of my girls has quit his job. He worked for maybe five months, quit and ran back to his mom. As far as I know he is still there, living ...

Texas Laws and suffering children 
My daughter is now 8 years and has had a mental break down. I made her angry by refusing to marry him when I was 3 months pregnant. He left and never heard ...

Unattachable Income??? 
Hi,
My childrens father is over $10,000 in arrears on his support, with no payments in well over a year and a half. Being a nice person I didnt want ...

Child Support isn't nothing but BS!!!!!! 
I am currently owed about $20,000.00 in child support. I have not recieved a dime in over 2 yrs now. And has anything been done about it? No! The only ...

Stop the blamin 
I asked my child's father to pay a fraction of wht we both knew cs would require. He cheap scaped me down fifty bucks, and then refused to pay that. After ...

Outside the law: Derelict Dads of the Department of Defense 
Like a vast number of expats in Korea, I came here with the promise of new uncharted experiences and the hope to travel the world. I came to teach English,...

Father's Rights 
I am a 34yr old single mom who has been dating a man for 4yrs. Two years ago he lost his job after 9yrs of paying 750.00 each month in childsupport for ...

Oneof manysinglemothers 
My child support journey has been a very difficult one. Once my daughter's father was ordered to pay support he up and moved out of the state. He was only ...

What Child Support!!!???? 
In 1984 I divorced my husband and tried to collect child support for our 2 boys ages 3 and 4. I begged I pleaded, I gave them addresses of his work, home ...

Hoping this falls into the hands of someone who can help. 
I have decided to write this letter out of my concern of the faults in the Wisconsin Child Support system. I am probably not the first person to have ...

Custodial Parent/Mother 
The laws in Florida suck! I have been divorced for 7 years and have been in and out of court, wasting my time and money. I can no longer afford an attorney,...

Upset 
I think more research needs to go into the application for state assistance since after you file for state assistance the child support agency gets involved....

My Son Is Old Enough! 
I am frustrated with this entire thing for several reasons.

1. the mother of my son, when he was born told me he was not mine. I caught her cheating ...

we need help 
crooked government officials, deputy sheriffs, and judges. we were told by a judge that we had to have a contempt, custody, and child support hearing ...

Deadbeat Mother, with no help from the system 
For the past four years it has been a non stop battle between my ex wife and I about child support. My ex wife is ordered to pay me weekly child support ...

Intercepting tax refunds or NO compliance with employer........ 
How does the IRS miss this one. My daughters father has not paid child support in over a year. He has made very decent money at his current position working ...

To the author of...TO YOU MOTHER'S FROM A MOTHER 
I am sorry that you are disabled and struggling to raise your child.

However, it seems to me that you are very prideful and are dragging you child ...

Mommy Forgotten 
My daughters father and I had a tumultuous relationship. Sad to say, it all ended in violence and with a protection order against my ex. This happened ...

NEED NEW LAWS  
I have reported this fraud to the general attorney and have yet to see anything done, here we have child support fighting for the childrens father to support ...

fighting a corrupt system 
Way back in 1978 we got divorced, we had two kids, I was in the military and stationed out of state, She was granted full custody, I was not allowed visitation,...

Dying of Cancer and Child Support Officers Rude and Won't Help 
Lake County California Child Support Workers are a group of women who have no respect for families or helping children. They care about their paychecks ...

Laws? 
I want to know how us taxpayers pay for housing, food stamps, etc. I know a couple who has lived in public housing both working for an airlines get public ...

Mother 
My experience has been one that is unjust. My son who is 21 has never received more than 220 a month and required insurance coverage since the age of two....

REVISED: PART 2: WOMEN ARE TREATED LIKE SECOND CLASS CITIZENS 
We mothers not only want the Fathers involve but we also want the most calm and stress free environment we can Provide for our Children and by their ...

The institutonalizing of conflicting interests... 
People are so uninformed these days and they fail to see things for what they really are. The child support agency is a person and support for that ...

No support 
I went to DHS about Aug of 08 to request child support from my son's father. The paternity test was taken and then his dad decided he wanted visitation ...

Women treated like 2nd class citizens in Child Support Court IL. 
I am a Single 52 year old mother of 2 teenage daughters. I'm also college educated and I am a Nurse and I am white. Due to complications from a surgery ...

Just Wish He Would Give Up His Rights 
I am a single mom of a 3 year old girl. Her biological father left when she was six months old. Altogether he has 4 kids and just one with me. Four ...

What happened to these words:  
"...Prudence, indeed, will dictate that Governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience ...

Non Custodial Father 
Court ordered child support at $315 every 2 weeks. Custodial parent enlisted help of the IL child support agency. The agency sent Notice to withhold ...

You all are Crazy  
We need to change all the laws regarding child support lets put in this context .
Ok so our government can take our licence mess with our personal bank ...

Anonymous 
My husband has a ten year old son with a woman he was never married to. We have three children together, under the age of 5, and his child support payments ...

TO YOU MOTHERS- from a mother 
I have a 13 yr old daughter. I get nothing in child support. Last check I had was 17 cents. GET A JOB, GO TO SCHOOL!! STOP WHINING- you helped make the ...

Ex Child Support Specialist for Blowing the Whistle on Department Heads 
To all of you needy families out there, here are a few facts you should know about Illinois Child Support Springfield Region:

You are just a number,...

Worn Out Custodial Parent 
10 years ago I divorced the father of my two now teenage girls. He was a liar a cheat and had some emmotional problems and was a "pot head", said he didnt ...

Lousy non-custodial dad worms out of responsibility every time! 
I got married in 2003 and my divorce was finalized in 2005. My ex-husband was abusive to me during our marriage and he still has joint legal custody with ...

A joke of a system 
I was married to my ex husband for 12 years and finally had enough of his drinking and cheating. I made him leave and filed for child support. At first,...

75,000 arrears due in AZ 
My exhusband owes a lot of money in arrears. I tried to work with him to pay the initial balance due, without interest being paid.
He instead filed to ...

College Student 
I have been trying to collect child support from my daughters DeadBeat father for years now. The child support agencies in Ohio and in Tenn have told me ...

Tired of waiting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
I have two children with Jon Ric Rando aka John Rando. He flies all over the country with his numerous girlfriends, lives in the house that I gave him ...

ARE YOU SERIOUS 
I AM A SINGLE MOTHER OF 2 BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN.GABBY,14 AND KODY,5. THEY ARE A GOOD REASON TO KEEP GOING AFTER THE FATHERS.
GABBY'S FATHER JUST MET HER ...

DEAD BEAT FATHER and NO help... 
On June 7th, 1999, I filled Custody and Child Support papers through Tarrant County court in Fort Worth, TX. I was awarded full custody of my daughters ...

Fed Up Father 
on several occasions the washington county indianas deputy prosecuting attorney has lied in court by stating that i owe child support. i was all caught ...

WHAT IS WRONG WITH THE PEOPLE THAT IS SUPPOSED TO BE HELPING MOTHER'S IN NEED!!! 
IM A SINGLE MOTHER OF 3 CHILDREN, 2 OF MY CHILDREN HAVE THE SAME DEADBEAT FATHER AND THE LAST HAS ANOTHER DEADBEAT SORRY EXCUSE FOR A FATHER. WELL MY FIRST ...

Can You Federally Sue a Child Support Office?! 
I'm not one to sue but i'm tired of being lied to. Here's my story, and my frustration. I was married to someone who was not an American citizen but ...

NEW YORK STATE FAMILY COURT (WOMANS COURT) 
OK MY TURN FROM THE OTHER SIDE ..............
I WAS A SINGLE DAD OF A LITTLE ANGEL,MY DAUGHHTER WELL IT ALL CHANGED WHEN I BECAME DX WITH MS. I GAVE MY ...

Tired of fighting  
I am a single mother of two adorable girls. My oldest is turning 11 this november and her father is a resident of Idaho state. I have been recieving ...

In need of help in KS NOW!!!! 
First off we are in KS and have residential custody of all of the children. I have a few issues. My husbands exwife is wanting to see the kids at her leisure....

Mad as Hell 
Father of child is in the military..the worst example of a father ever..married for ten yrs to his wife...2 yrs into marriage they separate..he fathers ...

Very sad, frustrated and not sure of what to do 
I am now disabled and can't work. My ex-husband owes over $46,000 in child support. He has earned really large money in the past. I know in 2001 he averaged ...

How High is YOUR Arrearage? 
I am a single mother of 4 minor children, and do my very best to raise my kids with very little to no child support. Now mind you, the ex did pay quite ...

Child Support Is For The Children And Their Needs 
Child Support is for the children, not to get you in a bigger house or a new car or suv. I am in the same house I was in before I gained custody; when ...

Help!!! 
My ex-wife wants more money, so I'm back in court yet again. She was finally successful in running off my new girlfriend. I have two children with my ...

Paying support, have court orders for visitation but I get nothing? 
I have called every state and county agency I can think to call and came to decide noone cares unless you pay and retain a lawyer. I pay my child support,...

IN REGARDS TO DUMB BROADS 
APPARENTLY YOU ARE EXTREMELY FRUSTRATED WITH THE FACT THAT YOU WENT OUT AT SOME POINT AND PICKED UP A BAR FLY WOMAN AND MESSED AROUND WITH HER AND IT ENDED ...

Do Unto Others... 
To all parents: can you think of a better time in your life where things came easy, maybe before anyone of us had children. I can tell my side of the story ...

Dead Beat Dad 
MY EX HUSBAND OWNS HIS OWN COMPANY LIVES WITH A GIRL WHOM HAS CHILDREN THEY LIVE IN A 300,000 DOLLAR HOME HE HAS A BOAT A NEW HARLEY DRIVES A NEW CADILAC ...

Just want some questions answered. 
Can't seem to get any answers from the court and child support services. If anyone can please answer my questions, I'd be so thankful.
Does child support ...

Our Legal System Fails Again! He always WINS!  
I have been divorced for about eight years now. I have three children, a set of fraternal twins, a girl and a boy, and the youngest, a girl. The twins ...

Dead beat dad gets away with violating laws repeatedly! 
I'm sure my story is similar to many other people dealing with a dead beat parent. So, we've had a child support order for over 3 years now. My son will ...

$10,000 IN ARREARS and COUNTING 
I am a single parent. I am recently awaiting disability for several health issues and am unable to work, only for the past two years. My ex has been arrested ...

Help!! NY CSEU not sending payments. 
I am a non-custodial parent in New York State. I have an out of state child support case. My divorce/child support took place in the state of Oklahoma ...

Wife of Non-Custodial Parent 
My husband has always worked hard & paid his child support. Recently due to the economic crisis he was what they call "permanently laid off". My husband ...

NO SYMPATHY FOR THE MEN & I AM SICK OF IT 
I am a female who works for a living, is engaged to someone who owes over $30,000.00 in Child Support (Arrears) for 2 grown children most of which is Interest ...

A saddened wife of a non-constodial father 
My husband and i have been together for sometime. Together we have one daughter. But as a family we are a family of four. Three girls and one boy. His ...

Frustrated Non-Custodial Step Mom 
My husband's ex-girlfriend whom he has a 6 yr old daughter with is a royal pain. She was married to another man when she got pregnant and then refused ...

Try getting support from a father in IN if you live elsewhere. 
My ex-husband lives in IN and our 3 children and myself live in PA. He only has an order for 200.00 a month because at the time the order was issued (4....

Please Help We Have tried Everything 
Okay I about to throw my hands up on this one, I haven't heard or read anyone else going through something like this.

My husband has a 5 year old daughter ...

CONCERNED LOVING FATHER "but not aloud to be" 
Im a father of 4. 3 from a previous marriage,one from a relationship with a young heartless "YANKEE" who,because im back and remarried to my ex-wife refuses ...

Concerned and confused 
My fiancé has a daughter who passed away in August of 2001. She was born with medical problems. She only lived 13 months. She lived in the hospital ...

So-called mothers need to be working too 
I have 3 beautiful kids between the ages of 10 and 13 by this deadbeat money hungry individual. She's not worthy to wear the title of "mother" in my eyesight....

Not Sure What to do 
My mother and father split up before I was even born. I am now 17 years old, and I have not met my father or received child support from him. Every time ...

Paying for someone elses kids 
My husband is behind on his child support payments. I am in the military and my schedule is very unstable. We couldn't afford a babysitter for our 4 ...

Step Mom 
My husband and I have had his son since he was three and he is now 11. His mother is court ordered to pay us child support and hasn't for the last 8 years....

Nine years 
My son was born when I was 18years old. I went to the local child support office in Vicksburg, MS for assistance. They charged me a fee of twenty-five ...

Disabled Veteran 
I am the wife of a Veteran that is currently in jail for non payment of child support from the state of California. His wife at the time while he was in ...

Waiting after 15 years 
I was divorced in Dec. 95, and since then it has been an up hill climb for my children to get from their father what is owed to them. This is not the first ...

Child Support is Bull!!! 
I was reading up top and noticed that it says that if you owe back child support you will not in some cases be able to get a job. What kind of crap is ...

Dead Beat Dad trying to gain custody of my child 
My ex husband is 17 months behind in child support. I hired a lawyer (cost me 750.00) to recoup my son’s child support and modify the amount. My ex husband ...

Mother of One 
This is a very exhausting journey for me. I have been trying to collect child support forever. My son’s father became the biggest loser after our split ...

My Husband's Psycho Ex Wife  
Okay, everyone are you ready for this? My husband's ex wife paid for a DNA test 12 years ago to prove his son was not his-he was 9 and he knew from the ...

HE DIVORCE HIS KIDS TOO 
I WAS DIVORCE IN 2001 AND THOUGHT MY DAYS OF BEING IN HELL WHERE OVER. BUT TO MY SUPRISE MY WALK HAD JUST BEGAIN.FIRST HE REFUSED TO SIGN ANY PAPERS SIMPLY ...

Dead Beat Dad 
I have 2(two) children in age 13 to 11 and and I've been on a journey to trying to recover child support from my children for the last 3 years. So far ...

I need help! No one will help us! 
My ex is supposed to be paying child support. I even agreed to a lesser amount than the court wanted, so he would have money to enjoy the visitation with ...

Is there any help for non-custodial parents 
Just the beginning... .

As a non-custodial parent (NCP), am I the only one that deems the process unfair? Am I the only one that is now struggling to ...

Alabama Dead Beat Dad 
I have been taking care of my 3 handsome,wonderful boy's by myself for years.God could'nt have sent me better children.They are awesome in school,they ...

Confused 
How can you collect back child support when your kid's are out of school already? My ex has a settelment coming from hurting his shoulder at work. He owes ...

Horrible Experience 
I have never receive a payment and its been 11 months since the court ordered the child support payments. Maybe they haven't gone after her because its ...

Curious Mom 
Well, I just learned that in the State of California there is no statute of limitations on the collection of child support owed. After learning my husband ...

Mother of 2 
I have been fighting with my ex husband for 6 years on child support, he just recently got out of prison and is working and getting paid under the table,...

deadbeat dad 
My ex-husband and I have been divorced for 10 years. Our son is 13 now. Five years ago I got married and at the time he was a city letter carrier for ...

Too bad, so sad 
My daughter is 11 years old now, she has not seen or heard from her father sense she was two. The day he walked out of her life was the day I told him ...

MOTHER 
CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENTS SET AT $55 WEEKLY NOT PAYED VOLUNTARILY BUT TAKEN OUT OF PAYCHECK. FOR 16 YRS THIS WAS THE AMOUNT, FATHER CHANGED JOBS AS OFTEN ...

mother of child 
My ex-husband is been on childsupport since our son was two, he now 17yrs old. I recently receive a letter from dhr in Montgomery Al. They collect 1200....

Injustice Of The Court System in NM 
I am a father of three, when I divorced my ex I started giving her child support money on my own. When she decided to take me to court, she broke into ...

Does the system work? 
Being a single mom with three children I struggled to make ends meet. The Child Support Enforcement Office was no help to me. The caseworker I was assigned ...

The AG's offices violates the law 
I believe the AG office in Temple has knowingly deceived me.
Paid from social security while I was on disability.
Collected from my social security for ...

Tired of being jerked around, owes 72,000.00 
The child support system in Florida sucks. If you are not collecting public assistance, you can forget about this agency helping you. I am now on unemployment ...

Mental Mom and Child Support 
My ex-wife is a mental case! I took her to court 4 years ago and got the kids. She will not pay child support but she will insist on seeing them whenever ...

Mr. Jones 
I am a non-custodial parent and I would love to pay my share of child support. I am a long distance truck driver and several years ago I lost my job. I ...

Mom of 4, Sentenced to Jail 
In 1989, I was married with four children. I was a stay at home mom, ran a daycare in my home, home schooled my kids, and was a foster parent.

My marriage ...

Disabled Father 
My son is grown, but because of repeated hospitalizations and recovery times--not working, before they put me on SSDI, I have a $3000 child support arrearage....

Dead Beat Mom 
My ex-wife left the country with a man in the German army 3 years ago and has not seen our children since. She has been ordered to pay child support and ...

ILLINOIS CHILD SUPPORT DIVISION!!! 
My fiancé and his ex girlfriend went through a child custody battle and we now have custody of his 7 year old. During the process they set child support ...

4x a father, never a dad 
The father of my biological daughter is also the father to 3 other children. Two reside in Tennessee with their mother, his first wife, two in Kansas, one ...

Why me 
I am a step parent actually but my husband was married before and had 3 kids. ALL OF THEM got to stay with MOM. Yet now the oldest has went into the navy....

Where Are My Rights 
Why don't fathers have any rights except when the mother is a drug abusing lying son of a gun. Im a proud father of a little soon to be 2yr old boy whos ...

Arizona Child Support Issue 
My ex lives in Arizona, I asked for a review of the child support amount in October 2007 and have not received a payment since. I have called repeatedly ...

Confused 
My ex and I divorced in 1993, in the state of California there was no child support ordered, she lived in Texas I lived in Wyoming and 1/2 in California....

Child Support ....Wowwwww! 
I'm not really sure if child support is the right terminology. Maybe it should be called, child chump change, or child Burger King money.

For the last ...

Forced to accept $100 a month when owed $30,000. 
I raised my daughter without the help of her father from July 1990 to Nov. 1996 when a child support order was issued he then paid when he chose to or ...

HELP 
I AM REAL CONCERNED ABOUT THE AMERICAN TAX PAYERS DOLLARS BEING WASTED. LET ME TRY TO EXPLAIN, THIS WOULD BE ONE OF MANY SUCH CASES HANDELED BY OUR STATE ...

Custodial Parent - Mother 
I took my sons father to court for child support and health insurance coverage, I call him a father for lack of a better word, he wants nothing to do with ...

Interstate Enforcement of Child Support 
My daughter's father lives in AL, and we reside in NC. We have had an interstate action between the 2 states for over 4 years now, and my daughter's father ...

Enoughs Enough Already!!!! 
I am a mother, and I don't understand how AFDC recipients can get a team of legal representation to go in and ruin these guys lives. A financial system ...

Possible Increase In Funds 
After separating from my husband, I filed for a divorce and was able to collect child support benefits at the time of the divorce. It's been 5 years and ...

Arizona Child Support 
My ex and I divorced 24 years ago. The mother was granted custody, I received visitation we share 1 surviving child now 24. She/ they left AZ in 1990 what ...

Tammy 
I am a 35 yr women of 3 boys. I left my husband from an abusive relationship of 10 years. After my divorice was finallized my exhusband got the 2 children,...

I'm The New Wife, The Only Wife, She was Nothing to Him! 
15 years we have been together, they were together for a couple of years. He was 18-19 years old, she was 28-29 years old. Divorced, already with two kids,...

Did Not Give Up 
I was without child support payments for three and a half years. The court finally caught up to him, he had since moved twice and had another child. He ...

Mom Who Will Never Get Child Support 
My experience has been one where I work hard to support my 2 girls. I have gotten VERY little child support. He moves all the time, works jobs for a short ...

Frustrated Non-Custodial Dad 
I live in New York State and have paid child support faithfully & on time for 1 1/2 years. My former wife is vindictive because I would not give her the ...

Non-custodial parent 
My exwife has custody of our daughter. She disapeared after telling me she didn't want money from me. For 1 1/2 years I tryed to track her down because ...

Mad Mom 
I have a son from a Morongo tribal member. He owes me over $46,000 in back support. He moved out of state, has no license, no real estate. All his toys,...

Non Custodial Parent 
I have been very up front and honest with my child support case worker. Every letter I have sent to my ex I have also sent to the case worker and child ...

CSRU is a JOKE!!! 
This is by no means bashing non-custodial parents. Iowa Child Support Recovery Unit (CSRU) handles my child support case. And they are a joke. My ex husband ...

Frustrated! 
My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and are living together. He has three children 9, 12 and 17 and does not have custody. He is paying ...

Seriously delinquent payments and still minimal assistance.  
For the past 8 years I have dealt with an ex-husband who chose to be an absent father. I struggled constantly to provide for my children and I became ...

All Lies 
My mom never told me the truth about my so called dad. I always thought I had the same dad as my 2 older sisters and brother. but I was wrong. A few years ...

We Need A Change 
After a 18 year marriage my wife decided to spread her wings (I say her legs) but anyway, when she decided to leave I had just lost my job. During the ...

Dumb Broads 
You losers to womanhood are quite hilarious and absurd in your attempts to trap yet one more innocent man into paying your bills and otherwise supporting ...

How They Collected Child Support From Me! 
Paying child support in my opinion is the most important thing that you can do as a non-custodial parent. I did not seem to think so at first, but as I ...

Nana 
My daughter lived with a man for several years. After having two beautiful little girls, and promising to always take care of them...he found his real ...

Inter-state court order= NO CHILD SUPPORT 
So what can I say? Here are the basics:
I left CA almost 4 years ago. We were being evicted, and had nowhere to go. I didn't run away, didn't kidnap the ...

Just confussed? 
I am a single mom who got divorced about 10 years ago. Our children were 7 and 10. He quit his job and tried for 6 years to open a new business with it ...

We live in the same house so why does he have to pay??? 
So me and my boyfriend are living in the same house and have been for the past 3 years. We had our son about 5 months ago and because we are not married ...

Why are dads warned?  
I was married for 10 yrs and then he goes and has an affair. When you go to court the lawyers don't even want to hear that. I had all the proof and my ...

90.000 BACK PAYMENT ARREARS 
My husband still owes back payment in arrears. Over the years he kept quiting his job so that he did not have to pay. Since he didn't have a job the court ...

Disabled Mom 
My particular case is 24+ years old. My arrearages are by no means the most owed but they are exorbitant ($100,000.) and I cannot persuade a judge or commissioner ...

EARNING TAX-FREE MONEY AND STILL REFUSES TO PAY 
When I married my husband, he had poor credit, a broken down car, and owed back taxes. Lord knows why I married him anyway. Shortly after we married,...

Single mom 
I'm a single mother living in the state of Florida. My daughters father has never been a part of her life and a little over a year ago was convicted of ...

Disgusted about enforcing child support order for jerk 
I was married for 12 + years. We have 2 great kids. 8 and 5. He disappeard in September of 08. He was gone around 2 months before he would contact ...

We're not all jerks 
The mother of my child has been abusing the welfare system for 20 years. My son is 17 and I haven't seen him since his mother left with him and a meth ...

I HAVE A FEW QUESTIONS. 
I WAS MARRIED TO MY FIRST HUSBAND ABOUT 5 YEARS WITH TWO CHILDREN. IN 1981 A COURT ORDERED WAS ESTABLISHED FOR CHILD SUPPORT OF $125.00 EVERY TWO WEEKS....

My Husband Was Raped Literally! 
When my husband was only 16 years old his ex raped him and as sick as that is she did it because she didn't want to finish her college degree and get a ...

Tired of Fighting the System for my children 
I am a 31-year-old single mother of 3 beautiful girls. I have been fighting the system and my ex husband for the last 13 years to get him to step up and ...

this will blow your mind 
I have two daughters and I pay for everything. Always have and always will. My girls dad has worked since day 1 and has refused to help pay for anything....

Wow!!! Is there really no hope? :( 
Here I am thinking I've got a terrible low life father for my son and that the child support system in Oklahoma sucks. Now I see many women are facing ...

Nothing from Fulton County, Illinois  Not rated yet
For 16 years I have tried to collect child support through Fulton County, Illinois. I feel the system has failed me. I have been forced to be on welfare ...

Deadbeat dad robbed his own son.  Not rated yet
I married my son's father when I was 3 month pregnant as we were planning to get married anyway. Soon after son was born, he began cheating on me and lying ...

Pissssed Off and Tired  Not rated yet
Florida Law sorry to say SUCKS! I am owed more than 45,000 and counting. The former husband's assets magically disappeared right after our divorce. I ...

Child Support Agency IS Big Business  Not rated yet
My daughter will turn 18 next month. In 17 years I have only recieved support 4 times in 2001, & 3 times this year. I didnot recieve even 1 letter from ...

MONEY IS GOOD BUT NOT ALWAYS BEST  Not rated yet
My ex-husband and I have been divorced now for approximately 14 yrs now after an 11 yr marriage. We have 3 children, 1 girl and 2 boys. The hardest decision ...

Here is HOW you can AVOID JAIL TIME, MUST READ!!!!!  Not rated yet
HERE IS WHERE TROUBLE STARTS AGAINST U.S. CITIZENS!!!! So one day, my ex-wife had to take our child to the doctor / hospital and didn't have medical insurance....

She threw me out on the st, and i was homeless  Not rated yet
I am a 37 year old man been with a woman for 12 years and have 2 sons a 4 year old and a 11 year old.after losing my job back in march of 2010, i was not ...

M Dean  Not rated yet
I am a former VA resident looking for some help/guidance in my current child support obligation. Though it is complicated I will explain to the best of ...

Child Support is a joke!!  Not rated yet
My daughter turned 11 years old December 2010. I have never received child support from her father. He owes me over $20,000.00 in back child support....

Discrimination between non-custodial and custodial parents  Not rated yet
I am the non-custodial parent in a child support case filed in Oklahoma around 1997. My daughter was born 1993. I had never met her but I was paying my ...

Ms Melanie Hurdle  Not rated yet
I have been struggling to provide my 7 year old daughter with a reasonable standard of living ever since she was a baby. I try to stay employed and if ...

Thirteen months 5200.00 attorney fee and 77.74 is child support  Not rated yet
I am more than convinced that the state of Florida cares nothing about children. The mediation well it was a criminal violation. It was held in the ex'...

System fail but big time   Not rated yet
As a single mother I have struggle each day to provide for my children. My oldest father did not wanted to pay the 17% so I took him to court. He wanted ...

Ms. Darleen  Not rated yet
I used to have custody, but unfortunately because of my poor choice in men my second ex husbands track record caused me to lose my kids. Now I am the ...

Not all fathers are bad!  Not rated yet
The mother has 2 dui's a serious bi-polar issue and stated she wished the father was dead. So she could collect more from social security benefits. Said ...

Mad, angry, and tired from the messed up confusing child support system that pretty much protects DEAD BEAT DAD!  Not rated yet
I became a young mother to a beautiful daughter. I never married her father b/c of physical, emotinal abuse, and lack of support. He was always drunk or ...

Child support needs my help?  Not rated yet
My daughter's father left us while I was 5 months pregnant with her and he had the nerve to bring his new girlfriend to my house to pick up his stuff by ...

Custodial Step-Mom of 2 fantastic kids  Not rated yet
Contra Costa County, CA does not practice equality under the law when it comes to protecting the children who are entitled to be supported by both parents....

DOG DAYS ARE OVER  Not rated yet
I want all the fathers and mothers who are fighting to pay there support every month to listen to this song.

I can relate to every word in this song ...

Lousiana Will NOT Collect Arrears  Not rated yet
I filled my child support case in Baton Rouge, LA and I then moved to Florida. Well, Florida asked Louisiana to close their case. I then moved to Texas ...

8th child in 9 years!  Not rated yet
I have two sons both on the autism spectrum. One is mild and one is moderate. Both also have ADHD. I just found out my ex is having another baby in Feb....

Child Support Run Around (Oklahoma)  Not rated yet
I have a 3 year old son, who was left by his father was two weeks old. I have been fighting with DHS. I get no assistance because I have a degree and ...

Workers Compensation NOT Subject to Garnishment.  Not rated yet
Here is an email exchange between Orange County Child Support Services and Myself when two child support payments were not sent.

Subject: Child Support ...

Beefing myself up control my life  Not rated yet
As a recently divorced deaf mother with a child, my ex decided quit work, and living with his parent for free without any responsibility. I know that child ...

Child Support isn't nothing but BS!!!!!!  Not rated yet
I am currently owed about $20,000.00 in child support. I have not recieved a dime in over 2 yrs now. And has anything been done about it? No! The only ...

Stay Postive  Not rated yet
When I became pregnant as like many relationship things change some for good some for bad, And maybe because I had a good paying job or maybe it was the ...

Loser for a Father!  Not rated yet
My son was born in 1998 and his dad was only around the 1st couple days. He freaked about being a dad and quit coming around. He was finally ordered to ...

How can they do this  Not rated yet
My story right now!!!!!!!!!! my husband was statitory raped and is paying child support. They took all my money out of our joint account



This ...

Legally frustrated  Not rated yet
I got divorced in 2006. My ex-wife stole, lied and cheated. Then booted me out of my kids lives. I laid down during the divorce because I was sick of ...

Non-castodail Parent  Not rated yet
MY son is now 10 years old I pay my support fathfully however I get behind from time to time, Ive noticed that the state is imposing Intrest charges on ...

Anonymous  Not rated yet
My husband has a ten year old son with a woman he was never married to. We have three children together, under the age of 5, and his child support payments ...

What about the loser mother!!!!  Not rated yet
My story is about my husband's children from a previous marriage...from the beginning 2002 i met the perfect man who had custody of his 4 small children....

Deadbeat Moms get it all  Not rated yet
I am a former military servicemen with one maybe two children. I was stationed in Korea for approxiametly 4 1/2 years before coming to Texas. Mind you ...

Immature parents fighting over/raising my nephew  Not rated yet
I have a nephew, who, unfortunately, has sucky parents. my sister and his father are separated (thank god). his father never keeps a job. the longest he ...

Abott V Abott and Gender Discrimination  Not rated yet
The Supreme Court is considering a case on whether a violation of a ne exeat clause (prohibiting one parent from removing a child from the country without ...

Tired n fed up dad  Not rated yet
My experience with the family court system is one and the same and I could probably write a book on it, in it's self. But instead I'll try to make it as ...

Wish I knew then what I know now  Not rated yet
I have two sons. When their dad and I divorced, he was attempting to get Social Security disability. He wasn't working and I was begging his mother for ...

Carol's Plea for Child Support  Not rated yet
My daughter is now 17 yrs old. my now husband has raised her since she was 3. she was 18 months old before paternity was established and child support ...

Victorville California Child Support Agency Nightmare  Not rated yet
On their website under FAQ's, is the question, Will the agency open a case to collect never assigned child support arrears if the child is emancipated?...

Another Disabled Dad  Not rated yet
I have been disabled for almost 11 yrs now.After my accident i got in arrears for both my children.I had my lawyers contact my 2 Ex's one child with both....

UNBELIEVEABLE PEOPLE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Not rated yet
Not one of these experiences are unique to anyone. Filing papers in court is as easy as spending a few hours at your local courthouse in a pro per clinic....

mother/ primary residency-no support! Loophole...  Not rated yet
So my son is 5yrs. old. Since he was 1 we have been doing court,and the father has owed support. At first he'd pay sometimes. Now we have an order that ...

Father on hard times, but still takes care of his daughter need to know ?  Not rated yet
Well I have a 3 year old daughter that I dont have full custody of and her mother is a full time student and works alot and stays with her grandmother....

Custodial Mother  Not rated yet
Don't waste your efforts searching out a new way to collect child support. If the father doesn't want to pay he will do what my son's father does and ...

The State Of Florida Doesnt Help  Not rated yet
I recently moved to the state of Florida and had my support order transferred down from the state of Washington where the non custodial parent lives. Since ...

Paying and caring father  Not rated yet
My wife and I have 3 beautiful children. We were apart for a while at which time the interest on obscene amounts that I was unable to pay with such little ...

Child Support and moving abroad....  Not rated yet
Ok I have a question......My sister and her ex just divorced about 2 months ago; they have one 4 year old daughter together. She is talking to a guy in ...

How can I get the state to suspend DBD license.  Not rated yet
My ex is not only deadbeat when it comes to child support, but he told my 13yr old daughter that he doesn't contact her more because it is painful and ...

He always finds the loop holes...  Not rated yet
I have two wonderful children. But, if you were to grab a Webster's and look up "deadbeat" you will find their father's picture. I understand things happen ...

When I go to jail??   Not rated yet
Basically I am 37 and have back arrears in va and one thing that boggles me I was paying it till my daughter was dumped in my lap when she was 16 for the ...

What am I to do?  Not rated yet
I have been divorced for almost 11 years. I was ordered to pay child support. My ex-wife disappeared with my two sons. I contacted Child Support enfocement ...

Concerned yet disappointed.   Not rated yet
I have been trying to get regular child support from my ex for ten years now, and it does not work. The state of Indiana does not pursue the issue and ...

What a joke for non-custodial parents   Not rated yet
I have a son that lives 3 hours away and when he use to come up to my house I went and picked him up and had to take him home. His mother was constantly ...

Dead beat dad that will not pay support  Not rated yet
I have been seperated from my ex husband since 99 and when I took him to court for support the day at court and the judge ordered him to pay he told the ...

No love for Disable father.  Not rated yet
I have been paying child support since 1990 it went from 495 to 1091 dollars a months. I was living on a pension and the rates keep going up. In 2002 I ...

Alcorn DHS is crooked  Not rated yet
The dhs office and police departments in Alcorn County Mississippi are some of the worst and crooked i've ever seen. First of all, their website says they ...

Never gona see it, and now I HAVE TO PAY FOR IT  Not rated yet
Deadbeat husband moved to Arizona to run back home to mommy and daddy. Still married because he won't sign the papers and I don't have $370 do hire a PI ...

The "EX " Factor  Not rated yet
I have three children, all of which are teenagers now. It has been a long and difficult road raising them without their father. When he left he took all ...

Mother Overwhelmed With The System  Not rated yet
I have a 14 year old daughter whose father left when I was 7.5 months pregnant with her. When she was born, I moved from Chicago to Alabama. Later I found ...

EX Owes 25000 in Child Support  Not rated yet
It sucks my support is ordered out of Wyoming and most of the time it is a joke. Lately I've been reiciving mostof my support but not the monthly amount....

frustrated   Not rated yet
For years I have been playing the game of child support and goverment assistance to collect it. My child is seventeen to day and her father is finally ...

Stupid  Not rated yet
I am a victim of child abuse. I was in foster care for five years being raped. After I finally got out I married at the age of 17 and had a son. His dad ...

18 Years None Will Help  Not rated yet
I was divorced in Oct. 1991 and live in the State of Tennessee. At the time of divorce my ex wife was ordered to pay $60.00 a week for our two beautiful ...

Saving Others From Wealth and Hellfair Confusions  Not rated yet
After dealing with the state of Idaho for several years and when dealing with abatements, it is best to send an "E" mail, registered letter and show up ...

What Can I Do???  Not rated yet
I conceived two girls who are a year apart with my boyfriend at that time, I left him because of domestic violence. I raised my two daughters by myself ...