Child Support is Bull!!!

I was reading up top and noticed that it says that if you owe back child support you will not in some cases be able to get a job. What kind of crap is that? How can a guy pay his child support if they can't get a job? It's like men and woman who pay child support are being set up for failure, because they can't expect everyone to be perfect. Then when they get behind they can haul off and take the person to jail just for the funds. And in some cases the man works and pays for years and when he falls behind a week, they send a letter saying he owes $1800. That is not right! And they call and ask why he is not working when he already sent off a review. They ignore it when you do everything they ask. And what about arrears? Why does the state get to keep money? For money they are not dishing out in the first place. The fathers are. The system is flawed to everyone custodial or not. My advise to anyone married or not just leave it alone. Child support is crap for both sides. When you do this, custodial parents ...remember the child is a ward of the state after that. Even if the guy is worthless but paying, rather or not he is a convict for an example, if you die; the father that is paying automatically gets the child. Woman and men beware!! They don't care about you or you children. Since when have we seen a government that has?