Child support laws are abused and dont work
I have been divorced to a woman who didnt work when we were married, nor does she work now after 7 years of being divorced. I was married to her for 9 1/2 years. I worked 2 jobs to support her, her son and my son. My x wife never pushed for child support from her privous relationship father of her son. We made it ok finacially. I got the house, cars, ect.. that she wanted. 1 week before christmas, she left me for another man. I couldnt believe she did this to me and I asked her why, she claimed that i didnt give her enough attention.
So I asked her why she couldnt work. Needless to say we divorced but she claimed that I was abusive. Since she wiped out 2 bank accounts, I had no money for anything. I found an attorney who accepted payments and finally got a divorce. After our divorce, she applied for welfare in which she got housing, food stamps, everything that my hard working taxes pay for.
How does our legal system provide and help women who cheat. I was relieved that supporting a woman who didnt know how to work, clean or cook. Now after 7 years, i have a very hard time trying to see my son. Phone numbers always get disconnected. My x wife claims that her boyfriends are sometimes upset that i come to pick up my son, in which one of them came out to fight me while i was in my car.
I defended myself but the cops never arrest her for not allowing me to see my son. I can almost bet that she has filled my son's head with all kinds of negative ideas. I have a good job, and i have never missed a child support payment. I also buy his clothes for school and whatever he needs thru out the year.
His mother on the other had, just enjoys the free ride on the welfare system not doing anything but showing my son how to be ghetto. My son isnt doing good in school, gets into fights and gets into trouble. My brother has a child that attends the same high school. So where does the attorney general do for the children. I tell you the attorney general is a joke.
They are not there for the best interest of the child, but to prove that men dont have hearts and take away while women are having more and more kids on the welfare system. I even offered to keep paying child suppport but to let me have my son so he can have a better life. I got a flat NO. Of course that would lower the food stamps and income she gets free.
WE need these lazy organizations who claim they are for the children to stop leeching off our taxes and these welfare people do and take a real look at how these children are being used as items for free housing, food, living and income taxes. I love my son and if ever the Attorney General would look into childrens welfare rather than discrimating against men, then i might just have a chance to turn my sons life around.
I havent seen my son in over 4 months. No one there when i go over, no phone, ect.. So if me The FAther does not get to see their son due to neglect from the mom, do i get some reimbursment from child support? I bet the answer is NO, However I can lose my income tax, drivers licence, freeze on back accounts, ect.. if i dont play by the rules. The entire system is a joke!