My husband has been dealing with the scum of the earth type of woman for 3 years now. He pays off every last penny of back child support pay to the girl to were the balance is zero. Then out of the blue the Texas child support office sends a letter saying he now owes $1800. The problem is his case is out of state they have no communication. And all the while the girl is buying concert tickets and buying new clothes for herself while her child has nothing according to her my space pics. I have 4 kids of my own and i receive child support for two of my kids. I have never lost my child support once. But i work 50 hours a week sometime to offset what they were taking from my husband. And this girl is the epitome of deadbeat mom. She doesn't work half the time and lets her boy toy support her. How is it right that they can say "hey you have paid up your obligation but oh wait! you have to pay more." I don't think so! There should be a law that says the woman has to pay for the child as well by working. And deadbeat he's not. I know he made a mistake but when he has tried so hard to get this off his back she cries to the child support every five seconds. She has even told me to my face he will pay no matter what and that is all she wants because she won't let him sign his rights away. We were even going to pay for the lawyer. My husband is a hard working man and did pay all that time and look at how they repay him. By giving money to a succubus that doesn't deserve it!
Why are you people making payments directly to the custodial parent. Your payments should ALWAYS go through the child support office. They are the mediator and as long as you do this the custodial parent who receives support can't claim that you haven't made payments.
If you aren't doing this, then it is your fault that there is no official record of your child support payments.
I question anyone who claims to have made a payment directly to a custodial parent vs paying the child support office.
Why in the world would you do this?
Jun 04, 2009 Rating
I thought 870.00 a month was high! by: Anonymous
There should be a limit to what amount can be collected per child. How many bottles and such does a baby need? This is what I call alimony, y'all! She gets a free ride until the child is grown, and it keeps the man from moving forward. That's the thanks he gets for having faith that she'd never cheat and leave him for another man, then lies and gets back child support that he didn't owe, but didn't keep reciepts, then any time he doesn't jump through hoops, she gigs him for more money. Same theme that is running through many posts I've read so far.
It makes it hard to be the second wife. Really really hard.
Mar 08, 2009 Rating
lets change laws by: Anonymous
I see that everyone here is angry over the terrible injustice over child support laws and paternity fraud(and rightfully so). My husband is also experiencing the pain and hardship from these injustices, and we are doing something about it. There are bills before the Texas legislature right now as week speak. Go to the Texas legislature website and use key words child support and paternity fraud to pull up all of the pending bills. Call your congressmen and women to vote against the injustice and vote in the bills which will level the playingfield for men against women who use their children for a paycheck. Tell our lawmakers that we want justice and if they will not support laws to bring justice to these men then we will not support these lawmakers on election day. This is where we have to start people. Remeber these people are elected officials. They need us to keep their jobs, make them work for us, get involved, it takes effort .but it will be worth it
Mar 04, 2009 Rating
Mom pays CS by: Anonymous
Well my case is different I am a Mom that has to pay CS, my ex was so mad that I moved away he talked my 13 yr into signing papers that he wanted to live with his dad. My ex makes 3 times more than I do and still wants money and through the 8 years of divorce when I did have custody I had to pay for his medical and still have to cover medical. So it is all in your lawyer and the judge.
Feb 25, 2009 Rating
texas by: Anonymous
I agree with you. I live in Texas and for some reason they seem to mistake the moms words for something out the bible. My fiance pays childsupport, but he was paying it directly to her through money orders. Well when they went to the AG office she claimed that he had not been paying child support at all. So here he had letters stating he was years behind in back child support. When he went down to the child support office to dispprove her they hasseled him a great deal until eventually they fixed the account. The other problem is that he had been paying childsupport since the moment they seperated. According to the Child Support office any childsupport he paid before they were divorced (while they were seperated) does not count in any way shape or form. So he paid child support for 3 years for nothing because they wont even give him credit for that.
To make matters worse, yes the mom does work, however she rarely takes care of the child. She is always with her grandma so why should my fiance have to pay childsupport to this women when she doesnt even take care of the baby.
Feb 06, 2009 Rating
Feel Your Pain by: Anonymous
We pay $850 a month to scum that lives in Virginia and we haven't seen the kid for 7 years. Last night the wonderful State of Texas froze all of our bank accounts because of child support in arrears. They overdrew my account $9000. How is this possible? The State of Texas is the most biased when it comes to child support. We have called and tried to get answers to no avail. Figures.
Jan 15, 2009 Rating
I agree with you both by: Anonymous
1200 a month for one child is nuts. To make you feel better about your 1200 a month for 6 years...how about this?... how about having a mother come back(after being in hiding) and hit you for support with the OAGs' help when the child is 15? you then owe 100,000 in back support which you can never catch up with.
I agree there are many sides to every story. The sad part is in Texas....all most dads are looked at as deadbeats period. Meanwhile the women who hide kids, sit on welfare, and do not care for the kids properly, or look for men to live off of...benefit. The children suffer in the long run. Very sad Texas has a history of not caring about kids and families in general.
Jan 12, 2009 Rating
That's Texas for you by: Anonymous
It's all about the money no matter how you look at it. All states (especially Texas) will continuosly find ways to keep the mooney flowing through their system. That's how they receive the funding from the fedeal government. If all he has to pay is $1800.00, then you are lucky. Try paying $1200.00 a month for the next six years for one kid like I have to.
