Constant visitation denial
by Jeff
I have been divorced for 12 years. My ex-wife is worse now than ever before. My weekday visitation is interrupted due to the children's activities (7th grade and high school sophomore). I'm okay with that, but my ex makes NO effort whatsoever to make up that evening. I've had holidays, weekends, and all kinds of legal visitation denied to me because she has such evil in her heart. She constantly uses the children against me. I've taken her to court a few times for the BS she pulls. However, the judge does NOTHING. I've not missed one support payment in 12 years. It has been automatically deducted from my pay. I also get a 50% abatement on support when both children are with me for at least 7 days. She refuses to pay me the money. I cannot understand how she continues to cheat me out of legal time with my children and money while the judge does nothing. My ex pretty much lives off my support, welfare, and/or unemployment. She has not had any desire to work. She wants to live 'free' off other people. It sickens me to think how much she gets away with because "she's the mom". I really think judges/courts need to open their eyes and see that not ALL women are the better parent. I keep hearing how single fathers are to be getting more rights. Well, until I actually SEE changes I will never have any faith in the court systems in dealing with my ex. I wish good luck to all the 'good' and responsible fathers out there. It's not easy and there are huge odds stacked against us. Don't let that deter your love for your child (ren). Your love is the one thing that the judges CANNOT take away. God bless. If you have any legal questions on child support laws or any thing related, there is a box below where you can type in your question and a certified lawyer will be able to assist you. Please leave your question in the box below and a professional lawyer will get back to you. Need a Lawyer? LegalMatch allows you to present your case, and respond only to lawyers who want to help you. It's Free & Confidential. Need a Family Lawyer? Click here to read or post comments. |
