Daughters father almost $5000 behind in child support.

by Denise Moser
(Fergus Falls, MN USA)

I live in Minnesota and it seems like nothing is done. My daughters father stopped paying child support back in Sept. 08 and paid partial child support in December and January of 09. They had originally taken his license away and I recently found out that they gave it back to him. It took my child support worker 4 months to give his information to North Dakota to with hold his money and nothing is being done. I have to provide everything for my daughter, from rent and utilities down to her shoes and hair accessories. Her father still wants to see her or talk to her, but has only seen her a total of 6 times her entire 7 years of life and for at the most 15 mins each time.


I don't know where else to go with my worker, it seems like they favor him and leave me hanging. If I was without a job I would still have to provide everything for my daugther otherwise I would risk going to jail for neglect and he doesn't have to pay a dime, when he's walking around in outfits that average around $200 a piece. I also don't understand how if I irritate him, he can come up with a $250 Wii system for her for christmas plus the controllers and a pair of shoes (first he's ever bought) for $80. I am so frustrated I feel like screaming.

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To Denise
by: Anonymous

It sickens me to hear the comment made by someone earlier saying that you are greedy. A man who refuses to pay his child support is only thinking of himself and not his child. That man is GREEDY... not you who have no choice, but to sacrifice what you want or need for the needs and desires of your child. I commend you for being so selfless.

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to Denise
by: Anonymous

He is clearly a loser. A real man has the desire to care and provide for his children. It is too accepted these days for men to be absent in the lives of their children. Whether or not he wants to be a part of his daughter's life he has to be financially responsible for her or sign away his rights to her. A Wii and a pair of shoes is not "trying". We should all have a God given desire to love and care for our children. If not then there is something seriously wrong.

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I'm greedy? Think not!
by: Denise

Let me ask you how I am so greedy? My daughter will be 8 years old in October. Her dad has not bought her anything in almost 3 years, the last thing a pair of shoes that DIDN'T EVEN FIT and I couldn't return because he threw away the receipt. Empty promises made to come and see her and he hasn't seen her since she was, what 6 yrs old, maybe longer. He owes over $12,000 in child support, has a degree in Registered Nursing, and a degree in social work. Tell me how he cannot support his daughter. He can go out and smoke marijuana, buy expensive clothing and eat some of the best foods and my daughter has to run around in pants that are to short because she grows fast.

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lol im greedy? Thats crazy.
by: denise

wait. Im greedy the shoes was the last thing he bought and that was more then two yrs ago. He now owes over 12000 dollars, never comes to see her and calls once every six months. Im not greedy! I work my butt off and am both mom and dad. I need to put food in her mouth and clothes on her back. If hes a registered nurse he can help.

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COULD BE WORSE
by: Jennifer

I know you and I haven't spoken in a while but this is your sister. I remember a few years ago when your dh was in the hospital and I called him because he wouldn't return your calls. Remember how he thought I was the girl who he'd met in the club the last weekend? Than I told him his daughter was in the hospital and he claimed our mom ran him off and that's why he wouldn't see her. I told him he has every right, but as DHS commented to you they are concerned about the fact that he is Muslim, and I believe they are also afraid he could accuse on discrimination. I remember back than he was driving his Lexus and he didn't have to pay child support because he was in school. Is he still working for DHS? If he is I wouldn't be surprised for the lack. Tito has to go for child support and he lives with me, they want $600 for him living in the home with me, just cause we're not married. The appointment is the 29th of June and it took almost 6 months from their first filings to get it started. Come to Cali where they'll rip him apart, over here they don't play based on the color of your skin, since everyone is a minority.

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I'M SORRY BUT YOU ARE VERY WRONG
by: Anonymous

LET ME ASK YOU THIS IF THE CHILD WAS NOT THEIR YOU WOULD STILL HAVE UTILITES AND RENT, (RIGHT) YOU ARE BITCHING BECAUSE YOU SAY HE ISN'T DOING HIS PART! BUT HE BOUGHT HER A Wii AND SHOES, HE IS ATLEAST TRYING! WHAT MORE DO YOU WANT FROM HIM! MY HUSBAND HAS 10,000 IN BACK SUPPORT BECAUSE OF AND UNFORRSEEN REASON THAT HE IS PAYING ON, AS WELL AS OVER 1500 A MONTH FOR CHILD SUPPORT FOR 3 CHILDREN AND ALL THE EXTRA ACTIVITES. WHILE HIS EX SITS BACK AND COLLECTS A CHECK BECAUSE SHE THINKS SHE IS TO GOOD TO GO OUT AND GET A JOB, NEVER HAS WORKED SINCE HER FIRST CHILD WAS BORN AT THE AGE OF 16. IF HE IS ALEAST PARTICIPATING IN CHRISTMAS AND OTHER SPECIAL EVENTS THEN YOU NEED TO QUIT BEING SO GREEDY!!!! IT IS WOMEN LIKE YOU THAT GIVE THE REST OF US A BAD NAME!!!!! GREEDY GREEDY GREEDY

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