Dead Beat Dad

by JMN
(INDIANAPOLIS)

MY EX HUSBAND OWNS HIS OWN COMPANY LIVES WITH A GIRL WHOM HAS CHILDREN THEY LIVE IN A 300,000 DOLLAR HOME HE HAS A BOAT A NEW HARLEY DRIVES A NEW CADILAC AND A NEW TRUCK ONLY ORDERED TO PAY 64.00 DOLLARS A WEEK.WHEN MY SON TURNED 18 HE SAID HE WASN'T GONNA PAY ANYMORE.MY SON IS A SENIOR THIS YEAR AND PLANS TO GO TO IVY TECH AFTER HE GRADUATE'S.HIS DAD GOES TO ALL OF HIS GIRLFRIENDS KIDS FUNCTIONS AT SCHOOL AND HAS NEVER ATTENDED ANY OF HIS OWN SON'S.HE TELLS MY SON HE PAY'S SUPPORT TO GET HIM OFF HIS BUT,HE LIES.THE SYSTEM IS NOT WORKING FOR US CLOTHES ARE COSTLY AND HE EATS MORE THAN HE IS ORDERED TO PAY.I'M CURRENTLY UNEMPLOYED LIVE IN MY BROTHERS HOUSE AND TRY TO MAKE DUE.HOW DO I GET MY MONEY?I CAN'T AFFORD A LAWYER.I NEED MY SUPPORT.MY SON HAS BEEN ON MEDICAID FOR 13 YEARS.HE DON'T EVEN CARRY INSURANCE.HE ALSO STOPPED PAYING ON HIS DAUGHTER FROM FIRST MARRIAGE,EX GOT HER MONEY CAUSE HE GOT A CHECK FROM AN UNCLE THAT LEFT HIM MONEY WHEN HE PASSED

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you 're right!
by: Anonymous

maybe you r some crazy ass ex wife! too . too late, leave him alone stop trying to go after his money! kids are grown up th3re's nothing u can do .get a life woman !

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YOUR"E A GREAT MOM & DAD !!!!
by: LORIE SUAREZ

I have a similar problem. My ex is 27 I have a daughter who will be 4 in October.Every year I struggle with collecting child support. Her dad works off and on jobs but of ot doesn't get taken away he won't send. He has a warrant out for his arrest because he has not reported to probation over a year for DWI's. Yet I have called his probation and the police to let them know where he is yet no one does anything. And he is still drinking up a storm. I'm going to school to be an LVN and also have a part time job, it is really frustrating but once I'm done with school I won't have to worry about child support. My daughters has everything she needs because of me. And I know that when she grows uo she will know how hard I struggled. And her dad is just loosing her day by day even though she is so little she undertands and knows that her dad hardly works and doesn't call or come see her. I so understand you, BE proud of yourself and what you have acomplished without his help. I know it;s been hard but you did it and you are a great mom and dad. MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS P.S. hang in thee something great will come your was you'll see!!!

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Well..it's too late now
by: Anonymous

You've made it. Your son is 18 and you are still alive to tell the story. Your son is happy and healthy and knows that he has a mother that loves him. Breathe. Now ask God how you can serve him for sustaining you and your son all of these years? Pray for your ex-husband that God reveals his faults and softens his heart.
If your son was younger I would tell you to drop him off at his father's house but since it's too late just be happy you made it.

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