dead beat mommy isn't really a mommy ?????
Why is it when two people who love each other get married have children then cheat on the other an forget they have children. she is hurting my 6 year old. she isn't the same little girl anymore, she has grown up in ways she shouldn't of, but with her mom walking out an never coming back it has done so much to harm her outlook, she says mommy's aren't mommy's if they leave they children, if she loved me she wouldn't of went to be with that other man, she never really loved me, So how could i answer these questions, i can't speak for her mother, so i just tell her the truth as i know it, i read her the letter her mother left, we talk about things as they come up an i with hold the things she doesn't need to know at the time, her mother is with a guy who is known to law enforcement for drugs an other things, Melissa was never been what you'd call a mother our youngest doesn't even know her an Melissa doesn't ask about her. just once in awhile she'll ask how she is, she refused to take some pictures of the children when told they where on the TV while at her mothers. they all see what Melissa has become, since she left, at first they thought it was me, but learn fast it wasn't me, so now they tell me what they see an hear. i did everything cooked cleaned took care of her disabled dad, gave him money to help out with the bills run around town for him, then he up an leaves town take his grand child's bed, i wouldn't say a word that wasn't true. Melissa doesn't want our children she want's her money to buy drugs for her boyfriend, an her self, together they make over 3200.00 a month, she got 7600.00 in tax money sent the girls 3000.00 but the boyfriend was mad about that, she almost didn't send it, she didn't send the girl anything for Easter, life isn't alway easy but god want put more on you than you can handle trust in his word an he'll deal with those who harm a child, now as for her getting around my girls mmm not about to happen in less the courts set up something she can't be left alone with them my youngest will be all confused if she is pushed on her she has only known me as a care giver, she doesn't know who she is, the older girl has a picture of her mom an the youngest can see it but doesn't know her as mommy, I'm have been after child support since jan 7th 2009 an told she might have a court date in about 9 months or so, what about all those mos she didn't pay she makes 12.00 a hour i gave child support her last pay stub an bank statement showing her last 3 deposits of 850.00 each we spent alot on our girls an now i can't I'm disabled an live on that now, plus what help i get from the state, but does she care NO she could care less, she doesn't call so oh well she wants to come see them in June she stated the last time i talked to her, she refuses to get a cell in her own name was using his cell so i told her i couldn't take calls from that number an she hasn't called back since, well melissa lea white enjoy your self because i will make sure anyone knows your a dead beat mom. |
