Deadbeat mom

My stepson's mom has not paid child support in over two years. My husband and I have supported this child 100% on our own and she keeps taking my husband back to court every few months because she wants the amount reduced. She is constantly telling the court she has medical issues so she can not work and when asked to show medical proof she doesn't provide any. The judge ordered her to still pay her 70 a week plus 20 towards arrears stating she is capable of getting a job and making the amount she was making a few years ago. She had another child last year and lives off the state and lives in section 8 housing with her boyfriend. She makes more excuses as to why she shouldn't have to pay. If the shoe were on the other foot, my husband would have been thrown in jail for willingly ignoring a court order to pay support. But nothing has been done to make her pay or get the idea that they are serious. DEAD BEAT Mom’s are out there and they need to be held accountable just like the fathers who are not paying.

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Dead beat moms
by: Anonymous

Its amazing how the deadbeat moms out there get away oh but let it be a deadbeat dad that's when the judge would say issue a warrant for his arrest, what happend to the mom that never paid, and who emotionally puts her son on a roller coaster ride of his life, now the poor child will be seeing his therapist for the rest of his life! Oh yes and how does mom get away with making her son lie to the courts to help her and then get caught in the lie and the judge does nothing! Got to love our court systems cuz they suck!

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WOW - How right you are - Update!
by: Anonymous

Well here we go again. The ex that owes over 65,000.00 over 16 years and has not paid is now serving a 20 year sentence for Felony drug charges and attempted murder! Gotta love it!
At least she has showed my daughter the road NOT to take!

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Tired of People not taking responsibilites
by: Anonymous

My boyfriend had three kids before we got together. I have been supporting these kids for going on four years. The egg donar as I call her only sees the kids for maybe an hour a year. My boyfriend was given custody of the kids. And after three years the court finally ordered her to pay 64.00 a month for three kids and she has never paid one dime. She is to busy doing drugs and stealing. She is constantly running from the cops. I am the only one that has been working. I think people like this should not be able to have kids. In which she still can produce. She has a total of four kids and she doesnt have custody of any of them. She continues to do whatever she wants and doesnt take responsibilities. I think that it just wrong. Don't have kids if you are not going to take care of them.

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Same Ol' story
by: Anonymous

Okay, my ex is about the same. She lives off the system, SHE refuses to work and contribute. But I look at it from a different view. I have done my part for the last sixteen years. I owe no one anything. I have paid for my daughters upbringing, and more, way more than what is expected out of most fathers. I have no complaints, and here is why.

I look at it as if the mother would've died giving birth to my daughter, you know, when we still loved each other. Of course I would have raised our daughter and never once complained about the money I spent. Its not about the money for me. I am glad my daughter has her mother. Her mother is a terrible influence, teaching my daughter that living off welfare is the only way to go, and by all means, pop out as many kids, by as many different fathers as possible.

My ex dug her own grave, and she is welcome to it. Me caring about her has left me long ago. She is a burden on me and society. She will end up with what she deserves...NOTHING and No One !!! You can't buy revenge any sweeter than that!

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Wow - how right you are
by: Anonymous

I have a daughter that has been with me since she was 3. She is now 18 and has lived with me ever since the state took her away from her mother in 93 due to drug abuse and physical abuse to my daughter. I made very little back then but and was ordered to pay 240.00 a month in child support, which i did, for 3 years. Child support lost a single payment once and came after me - when I showed proof that I had paid it they back off but only after making my life hell for 2 weeks and embarrasing the crap out of me in front of my employer. Back to the Ex - She was ordered to pay $50.00 a week once I got custody. I have not seen a penny since I got her. NOT ONE RED CENT - and the courts did NOTHING! Justice - right - bite my ass! that woman owes $65,000.00 and I know I will NEVER see any of it because of our great court system!

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