Deadbeat Moms get it all

I am a former military servicemen with one maybe two children. I was stationed in Korea for approxiametly 4 1/2 years before coming to Texas. Mind you I am not from here. I came back because supposedly my ex wanted me to come to Texas first before I went to my home state in Virginia. So I did so. What the blunder is after maybe a week of my return, i noticed she was always throwing up. I didnt think twice of it and pregnancy didnt come into mind because i just got back and she couldnt have been pregnant, so i thought. What I did was go to Wal-mart and got a pregnancy test. Can you tell me why I waited for damn near an hour before I walked in the bathroom and saw the positive results? And where was she? In the bed crying. So now I'm confused because that seemed strange to me. When she got pregnant before the outcome was totally different. I have always wondered if her son is my child. The child looks nothing like me whatsoever. Another srtiking thing is she was always saying that he looks like me knowing damn well he didnt. So since i had always had a thought he wasnt mine, which she knew thats how I felt since he was born, I asked for a paternity test. Of course I got the usual answer, he's yours and I i know it. So I did my own research and contacted several nurses and asked when could she have been impregnated according to her sons birth date. (Full Term). Every nurse I contacted along with clinics stated she had to have gotten pregnant in early Novenmber. Mind you I was in Korea. So you tell me. Its been 3 yrs and I still havent got a paternity test. I dont have a clue on how to reach her, not that I want to,but I have to find out and I have the right. We are no longer together due to her serious drug problem, thats why i left her ass. What type of mother breasts feed there child after hey just finished smoking a blunt????

Since leaving her, things have become clear. Now I see why she pitched a fit for me to come to Texas first. I may be wrong but i highly doubt it. Now I'm stuck paying well over $1,000 a month. Dont get me wrong, i'm not talking down but i think the state of Texas needs to punish these women that lie about who the father of there child is. It doenst matter who you are and ladies (those that have done this), I dont see how they cannot remember who the hell they sleep with much less give themselves the option to rest there legs in between sleeping with men. A WHORE IN MY BOOK. They need to be punished. Lastly, people are so quick to blame the father but you've got some women out there that are just as worse.