I am filing SSDI but my ex doesn't care i can not do what i used to i was behind then i caught up and due to my ms i can not work but she just wants my money to blow on her and her five kids and her old man is that justice
Nov 30, 2011 Rating
deadbeat disabled still a deadbeat in my eyez by: Anonymous
I dont know how sum of you woman qho have childrens fathers on ssi and still get childsupport thats weird in rhodeisland pple on ssi dont gotta pay child support im a single.mom who has been struggling for two yrs with.no childsupport cuz his sperm doner is on ssi hes a deadbeat in mi eyez who has ten kids and dnt gotta pay this staate is messed up get no help wutsoever he seems to get the good end of the deal with court and joint custody when I feel like I should get full I cant leave state without his consent im sorry if your a parent its boths responsibility if u dont want to support em dont make them. I have it hard im having a hard time finding work while hes on his ass collecting ssi having fun while im at home all the time never get a break because hes suppose to take my son on the weekend but hasnt tooken him in months
Oct 29, 2011 Rating
debtors jail by: Anonymous
here is a comment for all of you i live in Georgia and for some reason you cant even get a public defender here for a back child support payment case...because it is a civil and not a criminal case.. however you will go to jail if you do not pay .. is very unconstitutional... a debtors jail. ..and if the two people had stayed together and the man or woman became disabled the child would have to deal with the lack of income. that is a normal part of life... disabled people barely can afford there medical bills with no end in site. I have 5 kids my ex husband has never paid and never will pay a dime for them he was deported to Italy. My boyfriend has 3 kids all but the last are grown and have children of there own... he is disabled. and I work like every one else making minimum wage. In three weeks he will go to jail because we cant afford to pay his back support. we are still waiting on his ssi and ssdi.. if he goes to jail not only will it effect his mental disability and physical illness but i will lose my low paying job... yet i am not bitching who is gonna support my kids. i cant even afford to find out why his feet are swelling up .. the er doesn't have a clue.. do you really think he will get the proper medical attention in jail. Sounds like this country is reverting back to old England times of kicking the poor man in the ass. And just for the haters out there that think dead beat dads file false cliams so they don't have to pay... he was paid up in full till he got disabled.
Sep 20, 2011 Rating
how can these elected judges sleep by: cant get help
Well I thought when I read this someone might have wrote this about me but I am on disability as well the mother has been receiving money every month for seven years and also received $3000.00 in back time social security but dhs does not even count that but they tell me if I want to see my child I have to get attorney in the state of Mississippi and in kansas who can afford that and then what kind of good mother would do a child like this I think the judge should have dhs working to ask father if when and how many times a year he has seen his child instead of you don't pay childsupport you a dead beat dead they do say they are child welfare somebody got to explain to my child that I am his father. DHS &Judge were are y'all on this
Sep 10, 2011 Rating
BOTH parents need to be held responsible by: Anonymous
I can't stand the fact that NY courts believe that fathers are the only ones being financially responsible. Where is the mother's responsebility? We have one child from my husband's former marriage and the other one stays with the mother. We currently pay $600 for the one child while the mother has to pay $25 for the other child (we get this as a credit). So, I am seriously asking: WHY is the mother not responsible for her child???? The child staying with her is 14 years old, there is NO reason whatsoever why she can't find a job to help support both of her children. And while we are paying for everything, we are getting harrassed by the NY child support collection unit. All the while the kid's mother is sitting on her behind waiting for the monthly welfare check to arrive...priceless...WAY TO GO, NY STATE!!! PS: In case law makers haven't noticed it yet, these laws ENCOURAGE laziness and living of welfare...how is that a good example for the children involved???
Aug 26, 2011 Rating
Disabled Veteran by: Anonymous
WOW, such strong emotions when it comes to child support. I have custody of my 3 year old daughter and I also have a son by another woman who lives in California and he is 5. My son lives with his mother and she is a great mom, the only issue we have is CHILD SUPPORT.I served my country in Iraq and Ahfganistan and due to this became disabled.I fought very hard to get my V.A. disability and my SSDI. After consulting with my sons mother for almost two years she just barely gave me the proper documentation to add him to my SSDI. He now recieves his portion of my SSDI and that covers half of my child support. Now here is where the argument is MY VA benefits are protected by the Government to make them non garnishable and can not be used during calculations of child support. She wants them used and I am more than willing to pay whats called an apportionment to cover the other half of child support and this would fulfill the state ordered support "RIGHT NO PROBLEM" well in doing this the Child Support agency will close their case and she will get paid directly from these sources but only the amount alloted by the state order. She says NO WAY because if she ever wants an increase she would have to re file. Well thank god for small favors and research. California family code 4504 says that if she refuses to apply for these funds that my son is entitled to the court will automatically credit me for the entire portion every month untill she does so. There are ways for men to utilize the system with out hurting their children or violating the law it just takes alot of effort and research SCREW a lawyer MEN stick up for your rights and be accertive in court we too often allow the unseen emotions we still have for our exes to rule our critical thinking. As for women remember the tide may be turning slowly but it IS turning there are alot of men who refuse to be trampled upon even by the courts.
Aug 06, 2011 Rating
dead beat moms by: Anonymous
my boyfriend takes care of his kids...his kids are by our house 90% of the time they live comfortable over here and whatever is needed when they do visit their mother he also assist...he gets his son hair cut, his daughter hair comb, he does everything no exaggeration, he was the main parent, he irons, cooks, wash etc for his kids everyweek...when they did stay by their mothers house, he had to iron uniform to bring over their, he takes them to school everfy morning. whether they are by his house or his exex...now she know that i have moved in and our relationship is going strong not to mention that the kids adore me and invited me to a school play, she took him to court for child support...they have been separated for over 9 yrs and she never had a reason to go and get that butthe moment a relaqtionshp starts getting serious for him...she orders support and now she is getting 700 aa month from him after he was both parent to these kids. the court ordered this decision because of wat the divorce papers says and not because of what is actually happen..oh and even though he has been the main parent he has never claimed his kids on his taxes, she does that...mow she is driving a BMV fully loaded changing out furnitures buying a condo w2hile he is stuck living in an apartment shared by hsi sister...it is a sad world we live in...they are some dead beat dads out there but y does the good one haveto suffer for the bad??
Aug 01, 2011 Rating
equally by: Anonymous
every one should be treated eqaully whether it is a man or a women no one should be different for the mothers who are getting childsupport and not wasting it on the kids but on b.s yall deserve nothing the childsupport is for the kids and to help you get by the month. for the fathers if you make qiute enough to spend money on women and living the high life while your children are suffering you deserve what the system gives you but how do you prove that all these messed up things are happening you as your self take note of what is going on and if you love your children dearly you will make sure at every extent that your chld is getting there childsupport life is what you make it not how you want it i know this cause im a mother of two and i get nothing at all cause the man i thought was my world dont even know how to keep a job but then again it is on both sides men and women they are the same JUST REMEMBER THIS MONEY IS THE MOST EVILEST THING IN THE WORLD
May 18, 2011 Rating
DISABLED OR NOT by: Anonymous
KIDS STILL GOTTA EAT WETHER THE FATHER/MOTHER IS DISABLED OR NOT!!!! WHY SHOULD THE RESPONSIBILITY BE DUMPED ON THE CUSTODIAL PARENT! IF YOU CANT HELP FEED EM THEN HE SHOULDN'T BREED EM!!
Dec 20, 2010 Rating
some moms are not the best always either by: Anonymous
As far as a father taking responsibility for his kids, yes its very important,but some men and I know this for a fact do get taken advantage by the family court systems. Now they go by what the fathers earning potential is, not what he is actually making, especially now with the economy being so poor.That would be like the difference between your net income and your gross income, but we know in reality that no one gets their gross income, we live off our net.The court system here in Ny now wants my bf to pay almost 1100 bucks a month, that like a mortgage payment, we live in a very depressed area of NY. where the unemployment rate is the highest, people collecting welfare, the whole nines.I think that some women think their ex husbands are frikking walking atm machines, I tell ya what if I was a father and had to pay such an absurd amount of money, I think I would want her to show some kind of receipts.I want to know where my monies were going, and in my bf's case, his ex has extravagant shopping habits and the kids always whined and complained that they never saw a penny.
My philosophy is if you live beyond your means, and can't afford to shop at fancy places, then stop that kind of shopping and shop accordingly to your budget, dont expect your ex to pay for lavish shopping,I work 2 jobs back to back and can well afford to shop lavishly, but I choose not to, I buy carefully.I would not expect my ex from years ago to pay that kind of money, because I am not greedy!Its high time for some moms who have older kids, to get off their @sses and don't complain,if they want to shop the way they do, enough said.
Dec 15, 2010 Rating
support by: Anonymous
you all know that the court system in Ohio don't care if you live in a ditch,are sick. they what they money know matter what,they don't give a shit if it kills you.they wont MONEY.
Dec 04, 2010 Rating
in repley by: Anonymous
i glaced at your statement and all i saw was you, you, you. poor you. get over it and think about someone else besides yoursself
Jul 24, 2010 Rating
between a rock and a hard place, or if you dont know be quiet by: Screwed
To those who are not disabled, you know nothing. I lost my right hand and almost lost my right hand in a accident with a hand grenade. Five pieces of metal went through my right thigh. I was disabled 8 years before he, my son was born. In 1988 the same year i had my accident i was arrested for 4 counts of murder and a ccwop 2 months before that. Both cases were dismissed because i could not have done those crimes and the police lied. I lived like a dog, could not receive help fron any government agency. But child support trying to lock me up because i cannot pay. Every time i went for a job, i would hear nothing.I got a job making $ 5.15 an hour. Child support took half of that. For almost 4 years i was forced to live off $86.00 dollars a week (light, gas and water. i needed help.I had to cut grass for not money but food, pushing around a lawnmower with 1 hand and a bun leg. Couldnt get food stamps, Meanwhile she has a deep freezer a frig full of food. Could not pay the taxes on my house so the city of detroit took my house and sold to a slum lord.The legal system screwed me. They left the murder and ccwop(carrying a concealed weapon) charges on my record for 18 years.That should have not been on my record. That prevented me from getting a descent job, not minimum wage job at 5.15 an hour. After i lost my house my mother invited my to live with her, in another state instead of living on the street or ending up in prison. I found out about my record when the job i was after required a license by the state. Te state told me that i had a murder charge and a ccwop on my record. It also is the reason i could not get ssi or disability. Social security was at the time denying anyone with anything on their record any help. Google it (Social Security to repay benefits). Now after they know my situation they still harassing me with bench warrents and arrest. To Those that don't know you can be disabled in more ways than one. So dont talk just listen and get over your self. When does my life begin.
Jul 09, 2010 Rating
its all about the money by: Anonymous
my ex married into a family to wich have millions of dallors but every time she heres i got a raise she heads straight to the child support to increas her check i have never ever missed a payment on my 2 children and i also have 2 at home that i take care of also she has never worked ever she has always had another man take care of her part but hey thats ok right gals like that make so many kind and loving ladies look bad o ya and her husband claims my children every year on his taxes just for the deductions talk about using kids to ur advantadge thats really sad
Mar 30, 2010 Rating
after 16 years by: thanks va state
My wife took off with my children during our seperation, she lived in various states she even stopped the child support order that i initiated in the state of virginia, now the boy is 16 and out of control after he punched a whole in her wall now she remembers that she has a father,, he came to visit it filled a void i lived with for a long time, and a week later my bank account gets siezed my job gets a letter about how bad of a dad (support) i have been and a bill of a 112,000 dollars i almost fainted!!! when i called the virginia state child support no one could answer me striaght answer. Since i had visitation order i ask the county court clerk what i can do they told me the most she would get is a contempt of court and a fine.. I cant belive this is happening to me.. and this morning my son calls me to tell me she made him move out so what can i do now,,, i have no rights this is not a question of me supporting my child i want too in every way its about fairness she took of with them and nothing happens to her, how about if i take off from this responsibility do you think nothing would happen to me... these laws must be made to be fair not just to the parents but to the children too,,, she said to me in a letter that he needs me now,, i told her he needed me when he was two!!thats when she left he was two and most of his issues are dad issues..
Mar 13, 2010 Rating
dead beat dad on a big disablity check by: Anonymous
I am also going throught a divorce and i feel every situation is different. My soon to be ex i also receiving disability and he makes more then anyone i know and when he found out how much child support he would have to pay, he nearly lost his mind, and to me that is a sorry dad, he kept the house, and when all his bills are paid he has more then enough to live off..but yet he wants to complain about how much he has to pay me, so i think some men or women abuse the system and claim to be disable just to avoid paying for the kids. he is a sorry excuse for a man and a father.
Oct 16, 2009 Rating
Disabled Father by: Anonymous
I'm looking into everything possible myself cause I'm not gonna be a dead beat dad. I love my kids to much to do that. My soon to be ex, after 2 yrs still has not went thru with the dissolution, child support and not sure how it all works, but that's why I'm reading about it. now here real soon I'm going to get a Lawyer and see what all can happen or be done. now I've been trying to find out if she has filed for child support, and not sure where to go. I have tried to call and see if she has but every time I call its always busy. I am disabled, collecting ssdi. I'm not sure if she waiting till I get my check or what. it's been a long time since I have worked and did take care of the kids while she worked. after a month of applying for it for the first time she decided to kick me out cause of my disibilitys with nowhere to go and only the cloths on my back. with the dissolution she gets everything. I did that only cause I want my kids to have what I didn't as a child. It's not all that hard to start over. what worries me is if I cant pay the back child support that I could be fined and possible jail time, and I have not ever been in jail or prison. with my income I barely make enough to cover what I need. I know how a lot of other fathers feel about this issue. she works and makes way more a month than I do, but like I stated before I'm not going to be one those dead beat dads. I want my kids in my life.
Sep 12, 2009 Rating
another father beat dead by: Anonymous
I can say I do know how you feel, I have three boys that are grown, Ihad cust. of the two older boys she had cust. of 1 the youngest, I was hit with back child support of $55.000 for the 1, witch is in the navy, married, and is 21, high school grad 3 years back, and stayed with me with the help of my mom untill he was 11 years old.
thats when the ex wonted to move to Alabama with out anyone knowing, I showed my lawyer the attorney genral where I over pd her support, she wonted me to pay her, not the city she even wrote that and sign it, there is not no rights for the man, she lied and was cought in these lies, no she has lied about me so bad over the past 10 years to my boy that know she wont let me see my grand children. his in jail. thats where she belongs, good luck on your case, I cant see the courts helping you no more than me, we the guys need to do something I KNOW FOR A FACT I AM NOT A DEAD BEAT FATHER, I AM A FATHER BEAT DEAD BY THE ONE SIDEED SYSTEM. it is just a money thing, they give a bad credit report, so you cant find a job,
But what doesnt make since being put in jail, tax payers can support them while thier in jail
Sep 08, 2009 Rating
Disabled Fathers by: Anonymous
I am so glad I happened upon this site. It is so good to read that other people understand. I am also the wife of a disabled father who owes child support payments that are in arrears. I can not understan how people can be so cruel and stupid about this situation. I am not a whining or jealous wife I have been on both sides of the fence. I understand the need to recieve child support having had to recieve it myself from an ex.I recieved very little and my ex. could afford to pay more but he didn't. My child is now grown and I am very proud of raising him with the little I was paid. I have no ill feeling toward my ex.I did what I had to do - It's over. But to go after a man who has very little income, disabled, house is falling down around him, can't buy food. We basically have nothing and will never have anything because it seems as if the payments will never end. The stimulas payments would have made such a difference in our lives.My husband should have recieved back payments from a loan that was disharged and he didn't receive that either. I am sick an unable to work so its just an ugly cycle and this woman is sitting back getting everything.She works and makes more than my husbands SSD check, has a nice house. The child in question is grown does not live with her has his own child, there is no need for diapers or milk or things for school etc. When my husband had money he paid. It's over he's grown. And no he did not suffer as a child. Now she's sitting back getting money she thinks she deserve beacuse she decided to have this child 23 years ago. Yes they made the child together but it was her decision to have it. So all of you mothers who think you deserve this money while watching someone else suffer needlessly you are wrong and there are no justifications for you to think you are right. NONE
Sep 08, 2009 Rating
disabled father by: Anonymous
If you made an effort to pay even $20.00 per week you wouldn't be in this problem. People that make the effort don't necessarily have your problem!!!!!!!!!!!
Aug 27, 2009 Rating
"ST8 DECEIT!" by: Anonymous
"Big Brotha,I feel U,on that and I agree that it's just a montary game,that brings the spoils to the spoil." I got U in my prayers,so U keep the rest of Us in Ur's,aight,big brotha.
Aug 07, 2009 Rating
RE: A petition by: Anonymous
A petition would be a good start
Here is a good place to start
http://www.care2.com/find/site
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REFORM CHILD SUPPORT LAWS - The Petition Site
Current child support laws are in desperate need of revamping. Divorced mothers with sole custody...
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Aug 01, 2009 Rating
Disabled father by: Anonymous
There will be no changes unless we the the people change things. Child support has become a buissness for both nys and the reciepent of the support so there for it will be very hard to change the laws. A petition for new laws by thr people is the only way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! please help to petition our congress!!!!!!!!! or what ever it may take to change these laws instead of complaining about them. Or nothing will change. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jul 16, 2009 Rating
afraid to marry by: Anonymous
Hi,
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years, but because of his arrearage I am afraid to marry him. I work, he is on Social Security Disability, his youngest child is 19 so there is no new support, he paid his ex wife all he owed to her, but the 10% interest just keeps going and just the interest is more each month than what gets taken out of his check. Who gets 10% interest these days, well the state of California is trying--of course he will never catch up, unless I die first and leave him some money. He owes for the fact that his ex went on welfare, somehow the state expects that back with the aforementioned interest. And yes, his stimulus money was "attached" meaning he never got it. There is something wrong with this picture. Having said all that, he actually has more money on SS then he did when he worked, because then, 50% of his earnings where taken. He can't have a checking account because the state would take all the money, he can't have a passport, because if you owe more that $5000 for child support a person is ineligible for a passport---like he is going to move to a different country---but people who owe plenty to IRS can still get a passport. Crazy world. I wish I had answers, but I don't.
Jul 15, 2009 Rating
Thats really not fair. by: Anonymous
Awww :(
i hope all goes well for you .
Jun 19, 2009 Rating
Its a bunch of bs by: Anonymous
I myself dont pay child support but my husband is ordered to pay almost 300 on his son and 200 on his daughter and we have two kids of our own. one is almost 2 will be in july and the other is only a month old. He has problems and can be put on disability. he is manic depressive, adhd, and a few other things.... He just currently was put in jail like 10 days ago for non support and for a probation violation and he isnt even on probation. they try to screw fathers as much as they possibly can. I would never go for support or anything like that and how the hell can a man pay support when they through him in jail.....
pissed off wife
May 17, 2009 Rating
2 Little Miss Muffet by: Anonymous
Hey little missy, its hard up women like YOU, who open up their legs, make all these babies, then get mad cause the man leaves your ass (for whatever reason) and goes on about his life. Then you want to hit him up for some MONEY cause he's not with you or cause he might be living just a little bit better than he was when you were with him. Oh and by the way, I'm not with someone that doesn't want to pay what he owes, and I'm not with someone who would do that to me cause first of all I'm 50 and I have no plans on having any children. Second of all some of you DEAD-BEAT ASS WOMEN OUGHT to be paying more of the men CHILD SUPPORT, but most of you like laying on your ass and waiting for the check in the mail, or making more babies, or not working and collecting public assistance, making the taxpayers pay for your lives, or when you get a job, trying to keep tabs on your ex even after your children are grown, to see if that man has more going on in his life than what you have going on in yours, and if he does..BOOM!!! there it goes, the little green jealousy monster, making that call to the Child Support Agency, cause you dont have the Man, the kids are grown, and another more than likely BETTER WOMAN has the man and you cant get him...Now Missy get a Cigar Pipe and have a party smoking on that. Oh yeah and by the way, feel free to write me back, I'm ACJ, and I have a whole lot to say.
May 16, 2009 Rating
to the angry woman out for the man. by: Anonymous
Hi, you really need to get a life. Ihis is to the woman who was cursing about the poor man having to pay even though 2 other "dads" lived in the home with your boyfriends' children. Listen, I understand women like you, you talk about jealous? Of what? If you want to be with a guy who doen't pay for his own children, good for you when he does it to you someday. Maybe you don't realize, as you put it, it takes two. Well then your boyfriend layed down with that woman and made thoes children, talk about jealous, it sounds like you have a jealousy problem because he was with her, and has obligations to her, till death do them part. Put that in your pipe and smoke it.
Apr 28, 2009 Rating
No Sympathy For The Man by: Anonymous
I am a female who works for a living, is engaged to someone who owes over $30,000.00 in Child Support (Arrears) for 2 grown children most of which is Interest and He's collecting Disability. First of all I will say to these women out here, STOP ALL OF YOUR WHINING AND LIVE YOUR LIVES AND STOP BEING SO DAMN JEALOUS!!! A lot of women Re-open child support cases after they find out what their Ex-Husbands are doing then they feel like Holy Shit...now he's going to live better than me so they march their Green-Ugly insides down to the child support office like the Woman Scored and plead their case. My situation is kind of unique, my Fiances Ex-Wife waited almost 20years then decided to reopen a child support case. She was already getting his Income Tax refund payments, then onto the Stimulus Checks, and now his Disability Check is being Garnished. Also his ex-wife has been married a couple of times while the children were growing up so what about the man that was in the childrens lives when they were younger, and right in the household with them. Is he responsbile for anything, I mean after all there were 2 other dads in the childrens lives besides the biological dad. Now I'm asking this because my Fiance has also paid for 2 children that were not his AT ALL by means of them getting checks through him being disabled. What kind of shit is this world coming to??? There's always a place for Women to go, a place for them to get assistance, someone's shoulder for them to cry on, but NEVER TOO MANY PLACES FOR THE MAN TO PLEAD HIS CASE. Even attorneys are mainly hired/retained and geared towards assisting the Female to Collect her money, and to hell with the man. I think I feel this way because the man DID NOT PLANT THAT SEED BY HIMSELF, THE WOMAN HAD TO BE THERE TOO, and there is such a thing as A DEAD BEAT MOM WHO'S MILKING A MANS POCKETS FOR CHILD SUPPORT. It should be TOTALLY ILLEGAL FOR CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENTS TO BE COLLECTED FROM A DISABILITY CHECK. Also the laws make it damn near impossible to get rid of money thats not even owed which is FUCKING INTEREST...INTEREST IS NOT OWED, IT IS ACCRUED, MEANING...A MAN WHO OWES 30,000.00 IN ARREARS, PROBABLHY ONLY OWES $12,000,00 IN THE ACTUAL CHILD SUPPORT. SO WHERE IS THAT OTHER MONEY GOING..IS IT GOING TO THE DEAD BEAT MOM WHO'S CRYING OUT FOR HELP, IS IT GOING TO THE STATE, where the hell is it going. I just want to say, I really do feel for all the MEN WHO HAVE TO GO THROUGH THIS SITUATION because it's not all about taking care of the children, especially when the children are GROWN, SOME OF THIS SHIT IS ABOUT A SCORNED ASS WOMAN WHO CANNOT GET THE MAN BACK, DOESNT WANT HIM TO HAVE A DAMN THING, AND MAD BECAUSE HE MAY BE TRYING TO LIVE A BETTER LIFE THAN HE HAD WHEN HE WAS WITH HER. Sincerely, from someone who's VERY CONCERNED ABOUT WHAT HAPPENS TO THE MEN!!
Apr 19, 2009 Rating
can not pay child support if siting in jail by: Anonymous
what is a man to do when he is locked up cuz he lost his job and can not pay child support?
can not get out till the back child support is paid in full ? and whill he is in jail he gets more behind in payments so another warrant for arrest comes out and he is locked up again?
HOW CAN I GET HIM OUT OF JAIL ?
Dec 05, 2008 Rating
A Woman Scorned... by: Anonymous
My heart goes out to all of you! I am a step-mother, who's husband is going through a nasty custody battle. We've been more than accomodating to her, paying for court bills for 2 years. I don't understand why women can't put it all aside for their children. Her emotions are all but too overwhelming. I think the best you can do...is find yourself a loving wife, who you can build a wonderful home with...the only way to fight a woman, is with another woman! Someone's who smart, educated, and willing to be by your side to fight this matter to the end.
Jul 27, 2008 Rating
Wheres the DADDY DAY? by: Anonymous
I haven't gone through that yet, but it is a shame that fathers who cant work still get ordered to pay an increasing amount of money every month from income that the state is giving us.
I got hit in the head with a helicopter rotorblade and loss some of my brain. I choose to help my daughter's mother out with income cause its not fair to me, or her to have to solely bare all the responsibilities herself. What I hate the is social security only gives her less than twenty dollars a month.
Sep 12, 2009 Rating
I can't believe people by: Anonymous
Even if you are disable you werent when you were making the baby. I dont see any woman pursueing child support if the man was taking care of his kids. You know how much diapers cost and that picture day is coming or that maybe your sons might need a haircut this week. Child support is a rememberance being that you wont do what is neccessary to take care of your kids. The state will make you. Dads being disable doesnt stop you from spending quality time with your kids. If you could just cut out the cost of daycare watch your kids women would not be searching for help. My dad didnt raise me and my kids father dont raise his kids so thank god for child support eventhough 396 a month for two kids couldnt even pay my rent but it does pay my electric bill and buy diapers and get haircuts. That is not half of what you will pay if men raised the kids themselves.
Sep 03, 2009 Rating
Are you serious ? by: Anonymous
You dumb ass women on here bitching because your poor disabled men have to actually live up to there responsibilities are pathetic, jealous morons. And you idiot who asks why the step partents don't have to pay support DUH !!! because it's not their job dumb ass. LIVE UP TO YOUR RESPONSIBLITIES !!!! I'am a single, educated,and EMPLOYED parent and I will pursue child support until I get what my KIDS deserve. Its about giving the KIDS what they deserve. Parents on both sides need to kindly remove your heads from your asses and do right by your KIDS !!
