Make the system work, write to your state's child support enforcement director, ask for a state hearing on why nothing is happening. Demand action, file personnel complaints. Every state is different and you don't have to be on welfare to get that action. Insist on a new case manager, report THAT to your state director. Take action, you're not doing nearly enough. Call every other day if you have to. Don't complain if you won't take action. Research your state's and the federal government's child support enforcement laws. Know them inside and out and APPLY them! Be able to quote family law code. I've been working on my case for 25 years, it's so worth all the work. I have checks coming weekly.