Sounds like a woman who got burned and furthermore has some anger issues. If I found out that your man owed me back child support, I'd take every word you just throw on a public site and used it AGAINST you hillby butts and show you that it takes TWO to do anything ... and MEN are the worst at getting away with not taking responsibility for their actions!!! Furthermore, I have a child whose DAD has decided that he would rather listed to his wife than have a backbone and say "I will do what is right for the child!!!" May you all find your reward one day!! I hope you are ready for it!!!
Mar 24, 2008 Rating
DEAD BEAT JERK by: Anonymous
Perhaps there are some women who are like this but not all nor should we all be refered to in this manner, however, you must be a lonely ignorant jerk.
Mar 01, 2008 Rating
Innocent man. by: Anonymous
YOU MUST HAVE BEEN BORN FROM A PIG. Why don't you teach innocent men how to masturbate to avoid paying for their mistakes because if you did not know by now, it takes two you idiot,
Feb 28, 2008 Rating
Your A Strange Bird by: Anonymous
Aren't you a little bitter.... First of all it's women & men. What are you reffering to, dogs? Who uses the words male and female like that? If a couple got married and then subsequently divorced....the other party who takes care of the children whether it be the women or the man should get some financial help (child support)in supporting the children they both made. I don't know what planet you are from but not all women are bar flys. Most of us probobly are more educated and work harder than you.
Feb 28, 2008 Rating
Father Who Pays Child Support by: Holcy
While I can sympathize with my fellow man, I do understand what a woman goes through to support her children. It is a hard world out there, and if there is no one else to help the non-custodial parent, then they have to strive and work hard to support their children. I am a father who pays child suport and I do it with pride knowing that my son is taken care of. I love my son and I hope other fathers can love theirs as much no to worry about paying child support.
Feb 28, 2008 Rating
Totally Agree by: Anonymous
I totally, wholly agree with the poster named Evian in that he has only spoken the truth about sad facts being that so many of you women are nothing but mere w&#$@s that cannot accept the responsibility and you lay it off on some innocent man. He is right to tell men to fight these issues to the very end just as I did and guess what? ...I ended up not paying a penny haha!
Feb 27, 2008 Rating
Dumb Broad Response by: Anonymous
Don't dip your wick if you can't afford the wax.
Feb 27, 2008 Rating
Reply to dumb broad by: Anonymous
Evian Water...I take it you "slept with a bar fly " and now have to pay....well you are no better or worse than she is...you made the baby too. How is it all her fault? Women can not buy your seed by mail nor are they A-sexual. The sad part about this is that this child had a moron for a father....I remain amused..Anna
Feb 27, 2008 Rating
Setting The Record Straight by: anna
What is child support suppose to cover? If I am not wrong it allows the child to live to the standards in which the biological parents would have if they had remained togather. It is not for profit. It is to help the custodial parent provide for the child. It is not a punishment, although I can see how it has been used as such. However, I believe this is never in the best interst of the child. So again, what is the child support suppose to cover?
Jul 19, 2008 Rating
Sorry sweety, but not all women are "dumb broads" by: Anonymous
MMM, not all women are money hungry, however, I work for a Welfare Office in CA and have seen countless women who seem to believe that their children are their free meal ticket. Many have children with multiple men they claim they hardly know. When they apply for public assistance, we ask many questions about the absent father(s) and they tell us they don't know the father's eye color, date of birth, some don't know the father's name! I'm no one to judge but these women are the ones I believe you are referring to... I hope you don't believe ALL women are the same. I do feel our system seems one-sided and favors women more than men, this is unfortunate since there are many men out there who love their children and don't mind paying child support. I am a 27 year old mom but am no longer with my daughter's father (because he cheated A LOT) but I don't feel anyone, including her father, should "pay" me any money to support her. I knew things don't always pan out the way we plan and he and I may not be together forever. So I thought, "Can I afford to have this baby and support her with or without him in my life?" When I took a good look at my finances, and the time and attention I'd be able to provide her, I decided, I could do this on my own if need be. Well, I left him shortly after finding out he'd been unfaithful. Still to this day, I will not collect child support. I believe anyone can live within their means and live comfortably if they so choose. The way I see it is this: If I opened a child support case against him and some day he no longer is alive to pay it, what would I do to support my daughter? Besides having my own income, I'm sure I would develop some kind of dependency on that money and may find myself in a bind if it's no longer available to me. That's why I figure, the best thing for my daughter and I is to continue our lives without any child support. She has her own bank account which I deposit money every two weeks into, I have a large life insurance policy to which she is the only beneficiary and we go shopping often. We still enjoy the finer things in life, only, we depend solely on my money. Soon I will be a court interpreter and will increase my salary significantly. I think that if you want cell phones for your kids and want to go on vacations, great, but advance yourself in your current job or seek a better, higher paying job. Don't live your life depending on others to pay your way through life. The least amount of head aches the better. From what I gather, child support can bring HUGE head aches and unnecessary stress that I'd rather do without.
To all you ladies out there that feel it is the absent father's obligation to pay child support, good luck to you. And to the fellas out there, remember, child support can be costly so if you aren't financially secure, maybe having a baby is not the best thing for you right now. AT LEAST wear protection, even if she says she's on birth control.
Feb 28, 2008 Rating
Whoa by: a mother
I have never required my babies daddy to pay child support and I still allow them to have their time together, but I don't think that women should be the only ones critized for sleeping with whoever from a bar. Men need to keep there d@#ks in their pants if they don't want to worry about paying support to a child they may or may not have produced. Everyone knows that a child costs more then whatever you'll get support for unless your in "Hollywood".
Mar 17, 2008 Rating
dumb broad by: Anonymous
My baby's daddy( Whom I was married to for 5 yrs)quit several jobs to get out of paying child support! My daughter is almost 18, and he is trying to get his pymt decreased. He pays less than the state 21%, and has never had an increase. Child support is for food, clothes, shelter .... I also am paying for her car, car ins, gas, cell phone, and other "teen-age expenses" Most of the time his pymt didn't even cover day care. He was never there when she was sick. Every time she asks him for anything he throws it in her face that he pays "so much already". Well this dumb broad is sick to death of whiney old farts who think the mom should be responsible for everything! You all are unworthy to be called men or dad!!!
Mar 13, 2008 Rating
What are you thinking? by: Anonymous
Your attack on women shows that you might have been burned. That's understandable.
However, I don't believe that you can trap someone who doesn't want to be trapped.
It takes two people to make it happen and if neither of you take responsibility then don't
play the victim. Your both at fault.
Don't count on the other person to be the responsible for protecting you.
Be the stand up guy and protect yourself. No one can take it..., if you don't give it.
So.. Stop buying the beer if your not looking for something. Trust me, Bar Flies can get their own beer.
Also, If anyone cries paternity, that money is refunded if your not the Dad.
A real woman admires a man who protects and respects himself. Show your strength, not your weakness. Stop opening your wallet and crying about it.
Mar 05, 2008 Rating
Generalizations are Ignorant by: TRUTH
Way to lump every woman into one catagorie, you do know that everything is not black and white? I came here hoping to find some information for my husband, if you think that you get screwed then you may want to re-evualuate your situation. My husband pays $90 a week, pays for health insurance and drives a total of 800 miles per month to see his daughter, gas is $3.32 per gallon today, you do the math. We also provide most of her clothing for both households, school supplies and whatever else may come up, while her mother sits home jobless. On the flip side, to spite your ever so enlighten generalizations, I also get screwed by my "baby daddy". I receive $50 less per week then I could. He has not paid his share of my Son's babysitter since December (this is a sitter that he also uses two day per week), has not paid me back for his half of the medical bills and my husband pays for my Son's health insurance. In short he doesn't even do the bare minium when it comes to his child. While we do complain about these things and right fully so, I would never say that all men are @#$%& because I have a great husband and he would never say that all woman are !@#$%, this just simply is not the truth. The truth is that as responsible parents we do whatever is nessicary to make sure that our children are well taken care of, this is the only importaint thing. Maybe you should choose your woman more wisely.
