Me and my ex. were together for 3 years, when we had our daughter he started to change (for the worse) he became distant, staying out late, drinking, ect. .. this went on for about a year, I made him leave once he prmised he would change and find a job so we could start our life, ..he lied. It got worse. We began to fight all the time he never wanted to support our daughter, he would rather spend our money on other things rather then important things. I was in denial I thought he would change, I left him, do to personal reasons, he said he still wanted to be in our daughters life. I never refused when he wanted to see her. (if ever) its been a year he has not once called to see how she is or check up on her, has not boughten her one thing for her needs or just toys, nothing. if he saw her in this past year it was because of me trying to get him to seee her. he ment the world to her but now i have noticed she never speaks of him , we are doing very good rihgt now we are happy, but in the back of my mind i no she will wonder why he didnt want to be in her life. and that hurts. he says i hurt him to bad. so how does that keep you from seeing your daughter? who would take somthing like that out on a two year old? he called me the other day and said he was never going to see her agian if i didnt take him off child supoort. i know there are good fathers out there that pay child support and want to see there child but cant, it breaks my heart to know that i want him to see her but he wont for you good dads out there, keep it up, maybe this world will change someday.
I want to Thank you, for reconizing Good Fathers, after all you have gone thru with your ex. You make the fathers that do their part to make sure that their children are taken care of, have hope that things will get better. I wish their were more people like you out their, (I know there is but they need to speak up). If our goverment would spend more time on the dead beats instead of harrassing the ones that due their part. Life would be easier on everyone. I just can't thank you enough.
