FaTaL AtTrAcTiOn - NIGHTMARE!

(Santa Barbara County, CALIFORNIA)

Long story short...I had a one night stand with a girl who got pregnant. She's been pregnant 3 other times from different men and had abortions. After a blood test, I was ordered to provide medical insurance and pay child support and did so. I was granted over night weekend visitations. It did not take long to realize this girl is unstable. She harrased, threatened and continuosly tried to physically asault me. Her father and 4 brothers tried to force me to marry her. When she found out that my ex girlfriend and I were back together (we have a son together), she assaulted my girlfriend, attempted to run her over and vandalized our cars. I thought I was finally rid of her when she slept with an engaged man who's fiance just had their 1st baby. She told this man she was pregnant and her brothers threatended the man. Within 1 month they married. Her attention was diverted shortly while she now taunted, harrased, threatened and assaulted her husband's fiance.

....six months later at a BBQ, a friendship developes between my girlfriend and a sweet girl with a newborn. By this time, visitation with my son is going somewhat ok (less mama drama). Until mama finds out that my girlfiend and I are engaged and our new friend is her husband's ex. Her threats and harassment escalate full force and she immediately stops visitation. I called law enforcement who did nothing. Represented by the County Child Support Attorney, she took me back to court last month and claimed that I spend zero time with our son while she struggles to support two kids because she and her husband are unemployed. The female Judge DOUBLED child support and ordered that I also support and provide medical insurance for HER & HER HUSBAND'S CHILD. I could not believe it. I spoke to a couple of lawyers but can not afford to hire one. Meanwhile, she continues to deny me visitation.