If you knew your ex-wife was scrambling to make ends meet resulting in your son being destabilized, and you were sitting back with your girlfriend being happy and stable, you deserve to lose touch with your son. Why have a child if you're not willing to make MAJOR sacrifices, but then you pressed for an abortion? Seems you're selfish and superficial and now it is catching up with you and you now must reap what you sow.
Why is it a situation where the mother of your child should undertake the majority of parenting and be primarily responsible for most of all the expenses. $2000 a month in New York is not enough to contribute despite what the court awards. You know it, and could do better, raising kids is all consuming, at least she is devoted which is more than you can say.
Aug 20, 2008 Rating
Investigate by: Bryna
What has your ex done to your son!! If I were you I would have her and all of the boyfriends she has had investigated. Think about it, you and your son have had a fantastic relationship and then "BOOM", he suddenly doesn't like you!? Why!? What has your ex and/or her boyfriends and/or her other sons been saying or doing to cause this behavior in your son? Also, your ex is apparently unstable and your son does live with her; she could have been making his life miserable everytime he saw you, talked to you,etc..
If my ex was still around my boys would be just as messed up! My ex tried to turn our sons against me, thankfully he didn't stick around long enough to accomplish his goal.
