Father of 2 without custody
This is about my brother. He is 37, going on 70. This whole divorce and ex wife process has taken a toll. She was the one cheating and kicked him out. That was in 2001. He cried every night just wanting to keep family together. He was a young dad. He was 18 with his first and 23 with his second. He didn't have any money to fight anything. In the meantime the ex has had 5 live-in boyfriends. She had another child with one of them. She has never paid rent. She lives in one of her dads rentals. she is the worst mother I have ever seen. She has managed to teach her 18 year old son that it's all about a handout and it's ok to have multiple partners. Her 12 year old girl has also witnessed zero respect.
They both have watched their mother get drunk, bring drunk guys home to stay and to live and listen to her fight with these men and have sex with them. I do not understand why it is ok for her to lead such a reckless life and still have all of her child support situations represented for FREE! What is this world comoing to? It's people like er that raise irresponsible children and expect others to pay the way. My brother no longer has a relationship with his 18 year old. He is so utterly disrespectful.
We have all decided that we can't do anything when his mother sets these low standards and has absoulutely no expectations. MY nephew won't even talk to her anymore. He has moved in with her parents now. Her parents are the ones that started this 'TREND" in the first place. We tried so hard to talk with him and work with him. He seems to think we are crazy for wanting himn to learn hard work and discipline. Can't wait for the ball to drop when his sister hits puberty. Where is the justice? Maybe Child support services should concentrate more on the children for mental health than jus the all mighty Dollar!
Get a GRIP!!!
I hope the justice system is satisfied with their "Deadbeat DADS " program! Maybe we should start a program called "Lazy, Crappy, Evil Mothers".