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Father of 5, 3 boys, 2 girls

by Marvin Lopez
(NYC,NY)

I am a 35 year old father and former offender who has not had a prblem with thelaw for more than ten years. In that time have had held numerous and varied jobs.

In most cases I have been terminated based on my record,even thought I have not been arrested or comitted a crime in those ten years. Each year child enforcement has held back my tax refunds for child support purposes and that's fine, but the mothers of my children have not seen one cent of thoses returns! Also I have built up support arrears for lack of employment and the arrears continue to accumulate based on an income that does not exist. One of my ex's have me in court demanding support while denying court approved visitation. She claims all of those problems can go away if I return to her. That's nuts, I am with someone else.

This person helps me out, but I am going to lose her because she cannot support me forever. I have applied for unemployment insurance,but it seems my previous employer is challenging my application. I have held at least 12 different jobs throughout the past ten years. Most employers have let me go upon reciept of a criminal background check, other because the position were contracted and once the contracts were up so were the jobs. Who can help me? I love my children. I cannot keep a job because of past circumstances and due to the recession enter level jobs are held for folks who have lost jobs and have no record.

The Courts demand money that doesn't exist and a warrent notice was mailed to me and I don't deserve to go to jail. I haven't committed any crime(s) , I am just a poor distitude who loves his children with no opportunities availed to me. Where are fathers rights today for my circumstances? Where is justice when Father's Rights attorneys asked for $3500.00 and up?


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Nov 11, 2009
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try this out
by: bruce

what ever state u live i u should be about to use that u went to jail or prison to get u into some sort of driving school. in austin texas i went to austin community collage for 1 month and now i am able to drive 18wheelers and companies in that field dont care about ur background they just want u to work and make then money. i thought it would be hard but man i tell u it is the easiest thing there is to do!!!! were u applied for unemployment at they should be able to play for u to go to truck driving school if they wont many trucking companies will pay for u to and pay u while ur in it!good luck!!

Nov 04, 2009
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by: ChrystalBelle

I am going to be praying that your situation gets better and that you can hold a job down...Someone will give you a chance. I am glad that you want to see your children. Please try to keep your head up.
Best of wishes

Oct 30, 2009
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father of 5,3boys 2 girls
by: Anonymous

I am sorry to inform you. You are screwed. The system is against you. And As for the B that is promising to make child support go away. That is black mail. I would do one of two things. See what can be done on Black mail or get back with the B on one condition that papers signed on this thing she wants and then leave the B. But dont get back till all is rapped up to you conditions and legal. Good luck

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