Deadbeat Dad  
What happens when the father quits his job and runs home to live with his mother's and doesn't work. The father of my girls did just that. He has not paid ...

Paying excessively and not seeing my son 
Been ordered to pay ex-wife $600 per month maintenance and $277 child support too. But, I am paying 7 months of retro active support and maintenance at ...

Abused mother 
I'm a mother with a 1 and half year old. I got pregnant after a few weeks dating this guy. He had told his friends and family that he was going to get ...

Father denied by mother to see child; contempt of court 
I have paid child support for both of my daughters, whom have different mothers, ever since the courts had me to do so. I have no problem of paying but,...

Very screwed father 
My story is quite messed up. I live in Kitsap county in Washington state. I have been dealing with child support and a very vindictive mother who has cause ...

Good father treated bad 
My ex-wife left me and took our kids shortly after my brother committed suicide and I was at what I thought was the lowest point in my life. Since then ...

The State of Texas on Child Support are worse then the Mafia 
My x lived in another state She moved to Texas for 6 months and moved again and again. She filed child support which I paid to her in another state and ...

Judge raise child support 3hrs after ruling 
I went to child support court today I am disabled and had to prove it to a federal judge the judge today wants more proof and says I can work. I have been ...

Mr. Sarver  
Since all of my letters to the Duval and Clay County Courts have gone unnoticed and unanswered, I am writing to you in hopes that you and the media as ...

The wife of a man with kids not mine 
I am a stepmother to 7 kids, who all have different mothers. I took on the task of being married to a man as well as the 7 women he had kids with before ...

Alexander Moore 
Hey my story is this my wife of 2 years took me to work kissed me told me she loved me and she would see me when i get she picks me up. i have a four ...

My Story - I simply need to be heard 
I met and knew the mother for 3 1/2 months before she became pregnant.

We stopped using condoms because in her words "the doctor told me I don't have ...

Deadbeat mothers!!!! 
Im 100% woman! These woman just need to stop trapping men the way they do....and learn to get off their butts and do something! My hubby and I have been ...

Insanity!!!! 
1. If you are in arrears and have a current agreement with the child support agency where you are paying on those arrears and are up-to-date, why would ...

Abuse by Man Hating Judges  
My husband has two children from a previous relationship, and we now have one on the way. From day one the judge assigned to his case has completely abused ...

Why do we even have parental plans? 
I was recently divorced and as part of the divorce we had a parental plan stating i could talk to my daughter anytime I want and I can see her on certian ...

Half of My Social Security Disability Is Being Taken And I Support A Child 
When I finally Got Socyiall Security Disability, After Having No Income for 4 Years, And Unable to Work, As Soon As I Began To Get A Check Every Month,...

Justice System Screws Good Fathers 
I have a 27 yr old daughter that I've never been able to have a relationship with because her mother has moved constantly, all over the USA her whole life....

Can i ask my kid's Mom how the monthly child support been spent ? A breakdown of the check I give? 
I have no problem with my child's mom neither she has any issue or problem with me. My child support payment is automatically goes to her bank account ...

WHO MONITORS THE JUDGE WHO ENFORCES CHILD SUPPORT!!!!! 
Today I walk into court, the first thing i do is get attacked by a JUDGE who has no clue. Automatically I'm a dead beat, yet I have been in my daughter'...

Trapped and Frustrated 
I've read some of the stories here and I don't know what to say. It's true that when a man and woman have sex there is the possibility that a child may ...

Issues  
I have a 6yr old son and 4yr old son that I barely see at all because the mother decided to move out of state without my permission; and me being nice ...

When does it end 
My story has been going on since 1987. I divorced my ex-wife and had two son's to pay child support to as well as spousal support. I re-married in 1989 ...

State of Hawaii Child Support Screwed Up... 
The State of Hawaii Child Support System is completely screwed up. I have been paying child support since 1997, although the State claims it began in 1999....

Father of two paying child support. 
Im a father of two beautiful kids, Nicholas (12) and Mackenzie (10). To start with, just before my divorce i had a real bad accident where a lady ran a ...

Abuse of Military Fathers paying Child Support in Virginia 
I am an active duty Coast Guard member stationed in Portsmouth Virginia. I love being serving my country and has done so honorably for eighteen years. I ...

Child Support laws need a SERIOUS review! 
My husband pays support on two different cases (for two children who have different mothers). He is involved in the life of one of them, but chose not ...

Dead Beat from Day One 
I was dubbed “Dead Beat Dad” the day we separated. I thought we were friends as it was best for the kids and I took nearly nothing with me. We agreed ...

FRED FROM OHIO 
I AM 53 &HAVE NEVER BEEN IN JAIL I HAVE BEEN THREATENED W/ 30 DAYS/$250 FINE FOR ARREARS-APX 4000. IM AREMODLER &WORK IS HARD TO COME BY/PRICES HAVE BEEN ...

CAN ANY ONE HELP ME,GOING THRU:-( 
(NON-C.P),I PAY CHILD SUPPORT,WHILE I WAS IN THE MILIATARY(AFRICA)FOR 5YRS,MY KIDS MOTHER,(C.PARENT) WAS BACK IN THE STATES NEGLECTING MY KIDS.(DCF) CHILDREN ...

I want justice, Help me get justice. 
I have been paying child support as ordered by the Tennessee divorce court since 1981. Although there was some time when my exwife remarried and she hid ...

Selfish mothers  
We are in a situation where the father pays above and beyond in child support plus has always paid extras..
She has took him back to court for more money....

X-WIFE said she will get paid regardless of what I try to do....... 
I have been divorced now from my x wife for 5 years I just found out after 13 years that I am not the child father and she forged my signature on the birth ...

Charles Bell 
I have two children that I believe were pawns of the child support agency in Cambeidge, Ohio. Their mothers had custody and I paid support. When they lost ...

New York State and its rediculous child support enforcement laws 
I'm a father of a 17 year old daughter.
I have been paying support for my supposed child for 17 years.
At the beginning her mother was ordered to get ...

FaTaL AtTrAcTiOn - NIGHTMARE! 
Long story short...I had a one night stand with a girl who got pregnant. She's been pregnant 3 other times from different men and had abortions. After ...

greg 
I'm disabled with a heart problem. I live on Disability in Illinois. I have 25% of my heart left, an enlarged heart, hypertension, I sleep on a machine,...

No rights 
For the last ten years I had been paying child support for my daughter which I havent spent no time with her at all. To matters even worse every time I ...

Child Support is Oppressive 
I am a divorced father of a now 19 year old daughter. I started out paying child support and did so on an off as my checks were garnished. I read about ...

unfair child support  
After my divorce I was sending my ex-wife money through the mail. Later, I get a letter from the AG stating that I had not been paying child support. I ...

Minimam Wage, Maximam Payment. 
I am a father to great son and love him to death. My ex wife and i split up in 1998, at the time my son was 3 months old. At this time i was making pretty ...

Father of 2 without custody. 
This is about my brother. He is 37, going on 70. This whole divorce and ex wife process has taken a toll. She was the one cheating and kicked him out....

Yeah heres a story for you. 
My son is 5 and a half months old this month. I am an 18 years old man, and yes young to be a parent I know. I moved in with my parents after me and my ...

Father with no rights 
My ex wife was a cop with the LAPD. She took off in 87 with my 6 year old son. During the internal investagation with the police department, after I filed ...

Fiancee of a violated dad 
My boyfriend left his ex for me 10 years ago. Soon after we met, we had a typical new relationship fight. He ran back to his ex and had a one night stand....

Why is frieds of the court for, just too cause more harm then good. 
In 1997 a babygirl was born. to a x of mine. at the time i believed it was mine. yet never had a Dna test. Now 13 years have gone by. ex has been married ...

Time Stolen 
I was with my ex for 7 1/2 months before she told me that the baby wasn't mine, so we broke up and went our separate ways. 3 months later I get a call ...

Wayne County's" Believe It Or Not" 
I pay $700 a month for one child. I keep up with my payments to the mother(the child does not benefit from payments). This is not monitored by the state ...

Over paid child support be given back to my husband? 
My husband was divorced in 2006 and had one child with his ex and two that he loved and adopted of hers. He never missed a child support payment ($908....

Wife named son without my permission and wouldn't allow me to watch his birth. 
My soon to be ex-wife has been diagnosed with Bipolar disorder and Borderline Personality disorder. Her mood swings and temper tantrums eventually led ...

Where is my little girl??? 
My name is chris and i met this "girl" and by girl i mean imature woman, well we ended up getting pregnant and i took care of her and my baby girl like ...

Mother who has no clue of a good dad when she sees one.. 
I'm a disabled 25 year old single father who just had a son born in may of 2010. My issue is, the mother is young, immature, un appreicative and clearly ...

Concerned Father for the future of Our Children!! 
Over 9 years ago, you made a decision to allow me to see my son once a year, for the first 4 weeks in August. While that is ok for a father that doesn’...

Never have seen my twins 
My 7 year old twin boy's mother called me hostile while she was filing for support. I'm the furthest anyone can get from hostile. The hostile classification ...

the children are not mine 
I have been taking care of two children who are not mine. I have paperwork that states that the there are not mine the mother has a sworn statement that ...

Unreasonable ex wife 
I have paid child support religiously for the past 10 and a half years. My ex wife and I had 2 boys together. We are both re married, and have other ...

Father with custody 
More of a question. How is it that even though there is a higher percentage rate of single father's in the country that we can not get any kind of assistance ...

hopefullinmd 
I currently owe my ex-wife $115,000 in back child support. The Child support has been in effect for three months??????? She will not let me see the kids ...

Don"t understand???? 
I am a single father. I don't understand why every year I owe the IRS. Why isn't child support taken out of pretax dollars. I get taxed on it when I earn ...

Concerned Wife 
My husband had a previous relation with a woman before we were ever together and they had a little girl. For 7 years he paid child support without a court ...

they took my child from me an adopted her out 
Went to Santa Anna Calif. for vacation w/girlfriend new wife and my 6 yr. old daughter,we were staying at a hotel,meet some people there,gf/wife stay with ...

Are you really all about your child(ren) 
I am 28 and have 3 children whom I only recieve child support on 1. My two oldest have the same father and my youngest has another. My x husband went ...

Even Bats Have Caves 
I can well imagine most of you are wondering what that title has to do with the issue of Father's Rights. Like most of you, I have experienced all the ...

Garnishment leaving Dependents Homeless 
After the divorce from his first wife, my father paid child support regularly but missed a few payments while out of work/temp disabled. He did not get ...

Munchausen by proxy 
My Fiance and I has been together since year of 1993 and his daughter was only 2 years old. (TRUE STORY).Before that, he was with the child's mother and ...

INJUSTICES FOR GOOD DADS 
I have been recently Divorced and as a dad we all make mistakes in our lives.The dads in the world are always or shall I say most of time the blame for ...

Don't confuse the words Justice and Fair. 
I have fathered four children. My first wife is deceased and I married another woman with whom I had a child. After the birth of my youngest child, and ...

I am glad I am not the only one in this situtaion 
I have been with my finace for 5 yrs. He has a 12 yr old son which has always paid child support for $380 a month faithfully. The crazy mother puts his ...

IT'S NOT FAIR! 
When I returned stateside after being in Desert Shield/Desert Storm my wife and 2 girls could not be found. After months and months of searching I found ...

Wtf 
Ive been divorced from my ex for 10yrs , at the time of divorced I needed to know my legal action towards what I should do with the child, the whole time ...

Im begging for any advice for my son 
I am currently trying to get custody of my soon to be 6 this month,year old son.He has a lot of mental issues caused by his mother.For instance,he is not ...

FATHERS RIGHTS 
I do not have story but I am a mother who see to many women doing what this father Isaiah Adams is telling in his story. There are to many children in ...

Dial 911! Father in distress! 
I have been paying child support since my children have been 3 and 4. Never disputing that I should pay or help take of the children; rather how much ...

non-custodial father 
My ex-wife and I separated in september of 2004.Actually she decided she did not want to be married any more any left our home in Georgia (her parents ...

When will a father be consider equal to a mother. 
So much for equal right when the table is turn. Hush, don't say anything about mothers. There is nothing in this world more up side down then getting divorce ...

Violation of Rights - Where do we begin? 
Let's see - the ex assaults me with a knife, tries to run me over with a car, engages in assault with contact by hitting me with her car door, trespasses ...

The Court System is Broken with Prejudice 
This is a long story but I know it has mass appeal as many are in my same position. I lost my job 11 months ago and since then I have not been able to ...

NEED OF CHANGE 
Too much power

I understand that there are men who are not acting responsibly and not paying or even trying to pay child support, nor are they being ...

Who Cares 
To all the dads hold on to what you know in your heart is real, I have three kids by this young lady, two in my marriage. Now things were cool between ...

Stripped of fatherly rights 
I have been divorced for over 13 years now and in these 13 yrs I have been abused by the family court several times when my ex would drag me in to file ...

Child Support Nightmare  
I have always paid child support never been late or missed a payment and the only time I was considered in arrears was due to waiting on the court to setup ...

Non-custodial parent 
I had my daughter when I was in high school with my girlfriend at the time. I worked 3 diffrent jobs and took night school classes to graduate early. I ...

Virginia's crazy support system 
My story has been going on for 14yrs and i haven't won yet. I'm the father of three children 21,18,16. Who really didn't have much contact with my kids,...

Non Custodial Mother to 5 
1st Marriage-Married a man 15 yrs older for just under 3 years, signed pre-nup, I had nothing and ended up with nothing. This all happened around 21 years ...

Frustrated in Colorado 
My fourth child turned 18 years old nine months ago. I have not seen him in over a year. He has not been to school since the third quarter of his freshman ...

What can I do? 
I am a fifteen year old girl looking for some help. Now I know some people will automatically close the browsing page; but hear me out. My mother works ...

Mr Officer 
Well I am a police officer from the Chicagoland area, and I have to remain anonymous, but I hope this reaches your post.

I encountered a subject on ...

I WANT PROOF 
My ex-wife called a few days ago to say that I am going to have to start paying medical bills for our son. I've told her that she could get chip for free,...

I Have No Rights and the NJ Court System is Portraying Me As a Criminal 
Divorced almost 5 years. At the time of my divorce the court declared my "past three years" of income above the means awarding my ex-wife (a stay-at-home ...

What is a Father to do....? 
My son's mother and I separated about five years ago...It was bitter....So bitter that I had to seek primary joint custody for my son in 2007 through mediation....

Im a 27 yr old father of a 1 yr old baby girl whom im not made to pay child support but I do but my ex will not let me see my daughter 
My name is Joshua Overstreet from hattiesburg ms.I was in my daughters life everyday for the first 10 months untill her mother and i broke up toward the ...

Nicholas J. Gengozian - Denver CO - Carpenter/Flooring 
Im a 26 year old from Denver CO and have been paying child support for the last 5 years totaling roughly around 40k. I had met my daughter's mother at ...

THAT'S NOT MY CHILD !!!! 
HI MY NAME IS ADRIAN MASON, I LIVE IN INDIANA AND I HAVE 2 AND A POSSIBLE CHILDREN. I KNOW THAT SOUNDS CRAZY BUT THATS HOW I LOOK AT IT.MY SON IS BY ONE ...

Gettin Screwed In Ca.HELP 
I am a father to 3 wonderful daughters in Ca. age 18-15-9.vTheir mom & I remarried 10 yrs ago. Just prior to xmas 09 things started going south. On day ...

Doing the right thing has got me no where, and I dont know what to do 
I am 36 years old and in major debt because the courts in california think that my ex-wife needs it all. I was in the military when my child support was ...

DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO... 
HI MY NAME IS MICHAEL I HAVE 5 KIDS ..4 LIVE WITH ME 2 ARE OUR TOGETHER 2 ARE FROM MY FIANCES FIRST MARRIAGE AND ONE LIVES BEHIND ME WITH HIS MOTHER... NEEDLESS ...

The Malicious Autonomy of Oklahoma Child Support Services 
At the time of the original Order in 2003, Obligor held Medical License XXXXX, valid through 2004, but had not actively practiced as a physician in ...

What happens when? 
I was deployed to Iraq , I went on leave for midtour, my wife said she was leaving me. She agreed to take childeren to my parents. She left a day after ...

A Father 
When the state or any government agency is involved in family matters, all families loose there rights. We have given up our God given rights to raise ...

Jail time after payments 
My fiancee is currently facing jail time for child support arrears in Ohio. He has been working part time and has been paying whatever he can. When his ...

Simply Pissed 
I was taken to court by my girlfriend. She lives in my home, goes to school in the car that I drive, does't have a job, has two children by her ex-husand ...

I HAVENT SEEN THE CHILD IN 5 YEARS 
hELLO MY NAME IS ISAIAH ADAMS 3RD, I CURRENTLY LIVE IN DALLAS TEXAS,THIS IS MY STORY WELL I RAISED A CHILD FROM ONE YEARS OLD , THE MOTHER CAME IN 2001 ...

Father without a chance to see his daughter 
I am a 19 old father, in which my daughter now almost 2 years old, in which i was 17 years old when i watched my daughter born! I had so many problems ...

EX TO A DEAD BEAT DAD. 
Me and my ex. were together for 3 years, when we had our daughter he started to change (for the worse) he became distant, staying out late, drinking, ect....

When will there be change 
I have experienced and still live many of the horror stories on this site. I call them horror stories because child support has become a grossly abused ...

WHY 
FROM THE WAY IT SEEMS, WHEN A CHILD IS BORN, THE FATHER HAS NO RIGHTS TO IT AT ALL, WHY IS THAT, I MEAN IT HIS BLOOD AN HIS CREATION. I HONESTLY DONT THINK ...

adamsmith 
HELP ME PLEASE PLEASE I BEG YOU PLEASE ANYONE
ABDUCTED DAUGHTER SINCE 1993!!!!!!!!

My daughter was born in NJ in 1991,of course got US citizenship ...

Good Men marry sorry Women and Good Women marry sorry Men 
During my last deployment my now X wife decided she couldn't wait for me to get home so she went to her x boyfriend and they slept together. With in a ...

Not about rights...it's about the child 
I am a father that deeply loves his child and pays for his child support. I do not have a problem with paying for the child support, it's the fact or issue ...

I just want to pay my child support in peace 
I have been divorced now for 3 years. I lived in Florida and me and my ex had joint custody. I had the boys (3) half the week then she had them half the ...

Mother is not forced to pay anything 
My ex-wife decided not to be a mother for the last 5 years. She was granted custody and child support during our divorce 7 years ago but decided to let ...

What About Dead Beat Moms? 
My story is that of reverse discrimination. While in the Army I was awarded sole custody of my 2-year-old daughter and 6-year-old son after a divorce proceeding ...

Beatdead Dad 
Step #1 in the lawyer handbook obviously says to claim abuse and ask for the moon. I was falsely accused of assault and battery, thereafter, being removed ...

14 yrs of contempt by the Mother.  
My child is 14 yrs old. I have never been late on my child support and if I was it was more like a 100 dollars. I would always try and be ahead instead ...

Child Support CARD ??? 
Is there any way we as child support payers can some how speak with law officials about this idea? The idea would involve a card something like a credit ...

Joseph J. 
My story began almost seventeen years ago in the Monterey Bay area of California. I had an affair with a woman, we were both married at the time and each ...

TAKE 3MIN. TO READ THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
Let me start by saying that I want to fullfill my obligations as a Father of paying my child support because I love my little girls, but how much money ...

Both Father and Child, victim of a Loop hole of an unjust and a louzy system 
I was planning to get married for the first time in my life, the bride was a russian girl who we had met in Sacramento area. I knew she would have needed ...

jerked around by the system 
Well, I had been married to a Native American for two years and ended the marriage in tribal court because of her infidelity. During this time a child ...

No court, no pat.test  
I move to washington state from ohio back in 1995.At that time I had one child and and I was doing my best to pay child support when I started work.I was ...

How i wish my ex was one of the "good fathers" 
As a mother, I have complete sympathy for you father who faithfully pay your child support and yearn to see your children yet are denied the right to see ...

Violation since the beginning 
Texas ordered me to pay 300 a month, even though they have not determined that I am the father. The time of the DNA test I was unable to be there, they ...

Ck 
I am th so called " middle female" in this situation. My soon to be husband went through a nasty divorice. He deployed only to come home and find out thst ...

A loupole child support can be claimed on taxes 
I paid child support for 14 years then became disabled due to vehicle accidents. I never or very rarely got to see my child. I told this situation to ...

A Father's plight to visit his daughter.  
I served two tours in Iraq and when I came home things had changed which ultimately led to a divorce. It was agreed on that I pay child support to my Ex-...

Curious Sister 
OK, my brother is a good father and trying to see my nephew. He has two boys from two different women but still is very much involved with his children ...

Pay or else 
I was married to my wife for 22 years. We were jr high sweethearts and were together from age 13 till 40. We went to bed on a tuesday nite married and ...

Why do people always feel sympathy for women? 
Why do people always feel sympathy for women? and don't even think about the man?

To everyone who reads this. I'm Q and I am 15. As I have grown ...

Father In WA. State Fighting to get rights back  
First off I will say Im father currently paying off a debt to child support system My child is a adult now, I have been treated like a deadbeat dad with ...

Tired of it all! 
I have been paying child support since 1997. I do not mind paying my child support, they are my kids and I love them. What I'm tired of is the constant ...

Wife of Father done Wrong 
My husband is in jail right now for a child he has not seen in eight and a half years and payed over five thousand dollers on. Now don't get me wronge ...

Father of 5, 3 boys, 2 girls 
I am a 35 year old father and former offender who has not had a prblem with thelaw for more than ten years. In that time have had held numerous and varied ...

How is it legal for the AG to order visitation, but not enforce it? The Texas OAG is a joke. 
Im am a 28 yr old fiance to a man that has been dealing with the Texas AG for 10 years. I have been here for 9 of those 10. From all the court dates and ...

Where is Justice 
I just wanted to write our story and see what we can do for these FATHER'S that are someone and do something for there children.My husband is a great Father ...

Where is Justice. 
My name is Eddie Cruz Jr. and I have a two year old daughter that has been taken from my home by her mother. My daughter’s mother and I lived together ...

Fustrated Step Mom seeks help 
Well the short verson is my now husband had a child with his ex girlfriend. They fought constistanly. About 3 months after they found out he decided his ...

When the doing the right thing is always wrong 
I have read many of stories on this site and many of us are going through similar things. I am hoping someone can give me advise on my situation. I have ...

In the whole off the get go 
I have two children one 17 one now 14 from two different mothers. My daughter (my first child) her mother and I have worked together since the get go on ...

Mothers not doing the right thing with our son 
I been served papers today. I'm mad because I do love my son and I do give his mother mother when she calls me and tell me what he needs. I don't make ...

The Ohio Rip off Scheme 
I now live in Columbus, Ohio and am in the midst off financial ruin and the ripe old age of 28. First just to give you background I had a child at 20 ...

Petition, "In the Name of Non Custodial Parents Everywhere". 
I have begun a petition to Stop lumping Overtime, Excess Partime, or Second Fulltime Earnings over a 40 hour week into Gross income for the purpose of ...

Mother not recieving payments 
I know I am not a Dad but here is my story and I would like feedback... I was a young mother and the "father" never wanted anything to do with my child....

WE CAN CHANGE THE SYSTEM IF WE STICK TOGATHER 
FIRST OF ALL THE DHR SYSTEM ALL THEY WANT IS MONEY MONEY. MY HUSBAND DOES WHAT IS RIGHT, HE PAYS AND HAS BEEN EVERY SINCE HE DIVORCE BUT THAT HAS BEEN ...

William Dillinger and Child Support 
I am a father and owe back child support and have paid it many times before withiut arrearages. I regret being behind and am at a loss of what to do: although ...

When the system fails you 
I have been raising my son for 3yrs and transfer to Tx with my job to support my family,only being the only income providing for my son i filed papers ...

28/yr/newlywedHusband 
When I was 24 I had turned a semi partime job into a career, aggresively moving from bank teller to loan specialist within 2.5 years. Before and during ...

Unwed Father Fighting w/ All I have for the 1 that matters most! 
I am a father of a 2yr old boy. I was never married to his mother. I pay $100 a week for my son and only make $300 from unemployment because; I was recently ...

NATIONAL FATHERS ASSOCIATION OF AMERICA 
FELLAS/ Fathers there is help and there are many ways to make the justics system work for you i have 2 children and i promise you my kids mother thought ...

Incarcerated Father 
I am the friend of an incarcerated father. He went to prison for things he did in his past . He was on probation and had a good job then the economy failed ...

Unfairly Labeled by My Drug Addicted Ex. 
I have been unfairly labeled a dead beat dad by my drug addicted ex. I am the father of a now 20 year old girl, C. who has not lived at her mothers house ...

Is this legal? 
My ex-wife wants more money, so I'm back in court yet again. She was finally successful in running off my new girlfriend. I have two children with my ex-...

INDIANA DAD FINDS OUT HAS CHILD 17 YEARS-NOW PAYING CHILD SUPPORT 
My husband had a one night, drunken sexual encounter 25 years ago. Seventeen years later, he receives an order to have a paternity test, because apparently ...

Screwed in Texas! 
I have always paid my child support. After my divorce my ex-wife moved in and lived with a child support attorney by the name of Steve Sinkin in San Antonio ...

The system is flawed 
I have not been allowed to see my son in over a year. I missed his 2nd birthday, and all major holidays including Christmas. His mother has used the ...

Lost Child Support Case/Child Not Mine/Can I Leave The Country? 
You all are going to LOVE this story. Really it is about my friend but I'm a major part of it.

Cliff Notes:
Friend's Kids Aren't His
He lost court ...

KEEP RECORDS FOREVER ON CHILD SUPPORT AND ALIMONY 
I almost hate to tell this story that it might give some ex wife an idea of how to put the screws to someone else like happened to us......

Back in ...

50/50 no child support, is this possible? 
Me and my ex wife where divorced in January 09. We were married 7 almost 8 years and have three boys out of the marrige. At this point she has a child ...

Men need a hand - LETS DO SOMETHING!! 
My husband is going though a similar situation with his exes. Last year he was unemployed due to a knee injury and surgery. He has not been able to find ...

FAITHFUL LOVING FATHER 
I had a son with a girl in highschool who thought trapping me would work so here I'am.My son turns 13 next month and have paid my childsupport on time ...

Surgical Scrub 
Let's see, because I know that you won't publish this, I am going to be brutally honest. Mother's are constantly presented with additional expenses not ...

Non-Custodial father 
I consider my self a good father;i do not Drink Alcohol,Smoke or take Drugs before my son was born my ex-wife's step father told me in secret that I should ...

Where Do You Turn When they All Say "No," or, Dealing With a Psycho Ex 
Okay, I am sick of seeing my husband and step-son suffer at the hands of a bitter, resentful ex. (Oh my, this may get a little confusing BUT- here we go....

Stop the Father Abuse! 
My ex-wife and I have been divorced for nearly 10 years. I paid my child support and visited with my daughters every chance I got. I was ordered to pay ...

Reality Check 
Take it from someone that's in law enforcement and deals with social services... a teenager definitely would NOT know nor would the uneducated or the underprivileged....

child support and rights 
My baby mom is a drugie she is on tweek and who knows what else she is only 19yrs old and doesn't work and still lives with her grandparents.they barely ...

WahWahWah 
Each person should be reviewing their child support orders! Study on what is written in the order and object to anything you don't agree to BEFORE the ...

Judge ignores new child support law. 
I have been to court every 3 years under the recommendation of child support recovery to reduce my child support. Every time I get the same judge who ...

Father fed up in Indiana 
I am a father of 4 children. I have 2 with my ex-girlfriend(age 17). When my oldest daughter was 3, I won sole custody with no visitation rights given ...

His ex is making it hard for him to live 
Im with a new boyfriend who has a son and his ex girlfriend is just taking all of his money. She works maybe 2 or 3 times a week while he works 6 days ...

What about the mothers??? 
I had my son when I was 20 years old. My ex was out doing drugs behind my back and spent $10,000 we had saved without me knowing. I got a letter from the ...

Married my soul mate, so my kids mom filed 
I was with my children's mother for 3 years on and off. During that time she was physically, emotionally, and verbally abusive towards me. We lived in ...

Crazy BabyMama 
After seven years of marriage, My husband and I have reached our lmit with his crazy baby mama. My husband pays his child support, buys Christmas presents,...

My Millionaire ex demanding money from me! 
I am worried about the same thing. I am expected to pay $500 every month to my ex when I only make about $2000 at the most then my ex who makes more than ...

Frustrated in Texas 
My husband (non custodial parent) has been paying $600 per month child support for his son since he and the child’s mother divorced ten years ago....

MILITARY FATHER VS. GOLD DIGGER 
I was happily married until I deployed for a year. When I left for my deployment all I had was a truck payment. I came back form my deployment and I was ...

Dealing with crazy baby mama 
Ten years ago I was in a relationship with a woman I considered myself to be in love with. I asked her to marry me and while we were engaged she got pregnant....

TX Attorney General's office mistakes 
My decree was modified in 2007 because my ex-wife overcharged me 8k in medical expenses and after a year long lawsuit agreed to settle for just over 7k ...

Father rights vs. mothers rights. 
I now have custody of my 7 year old daughter. Finally the state listened to me and took her out of her mothers home and the court placed her with me. She ...

Texas Child Support Review Process (CSRP) 
The Attorney General's Office sent me a document requesting I attend a Child Support Review Process after my ex requested a modification. The purpose of ...

Military father visitation rights violated!!! 
Hello to all! My name is Angelo Minoglio and I am currently serving in the U.S Navy. I have been having problems with my Son's Mother with visitation ...

Deadbeat Army Mother 
I have had my daughter for six months now while my wife...wrong...EX Wife has been off playing Army. She has cheated on me numerous times since joining ...

Do fathers have any rights ? 
THERES FATHERS THAT DON'T PAY, BUT WHEN THERES THAT DO AND WHERE THE MOTHER AND HER MOTHER GO PARTY IT UP AND THE GRANDMOTHER TAKES CARE OR THE CHILDREN ...

Army Father denied rights 
I am a Staff Sergeant in the U.S. Army and I have been paying child support for the past 15 years. I am not behind in my payments and I have insurance ...

Texas Firefighter 
I am a father with 3 healthy and beautiful children. I am now a paramedic and firefighter.

In the beginning, I worked for a local EMS system responding ...

One night stand wants child support 3 years later. 
I was in basic training 17 years old. I met a girl who was a "lesbian" whom wanted a child of her own. I lived in RI as she lived in FL. She wanted to ...

Child hid for 13 years, I found her on Facebook, now slapped with child support  
When my daughter was 3 I joined the Navy, set up an allotment of child support to her mother (never married)for monthly support that was never ordered....

I have no rights.......... 
About a year ago I was forced into signing my rights away. It wasn't because i didn't want to pay child support or see my kids. What had happen my x wife ...

Sad father missing his children 
I have two kids boy and girl. I was taking to court by my girl friend who is the mother of my kids for child support, she was granted from me to pay 120 ...

Screwed by Southeastern Oklahoma 
I was married to a woman that couldnt seem to stay out of other mens beds. We had two wonderful sons. She is so bitter to the fact that I am now with a ...

Father's Get Nothing!But Jail!! 
I am a perfect example of this failing system,I have never recieved any rights,what so ever from our great child support system.All I have recieved is ...

At witts end with the most un caring system in the usa  
I am a father to a 4 year old boy who i love dearly. I have just benn divorced 10 mounths now and from the court i was orderd to pay 1/3 of my mounthly ...

Gary Ussery Operations managern fedex freight 
My name is Gary Ussery; I’d like to take the time to tell you about my experience with the Butte County Family Court System. I am reaching out to anyone ...

Ex-Wife is Cold-Hearted  
I'm married to a wonderful man, and we just recently had a beautiful baby boy in August, I'm pissed off, because all of a sudden out of nowhere he's ex ...

CONCERNED FATHER..WGASPARD@AOL.COM 
MY FELLOW GENTS,

IM AT A LOST ON HOW OR WHAT TO DO WITH THIS WOMAN WHO
JUST HAPPENS TO BE THE MOTHER OF MY CHILD WHOM I ADORE
I HAVE VOLUNTARILY ...

Just not right 
Ok here's my story. My wife ran away before my son was one. for three to four years I couldn't see my son. I moved away to Atlanta. Within a month she ...

Frustrated in Ohio 
I have been paying Child Support since I was 16yrs of age. I know what I am about to say will make me sound like a dead beat father but that is not the ...

Military Dads  
I am a Soldier in the US Army. I was married when I got deployed on a 15-month rotation to Iraq. During this Rotation my wife had our first child. Upon ...

Never had a chance 
I first started having children at age 17. My firstborn was a boy, so I had a son. Me and my baby mama didn't even wait the whole 6 weeks to start having ...

Can't see my daughter, don't want to deal with the ex either. 
so.. short story, can thank me. had my daughter 1yr 3 months ago..i was there. Ilegally, after a mandatory wa st dv arrest, and mand. no contact order,...

Supermadmom 
My husband and I have been married for 13 years now. We have 3 children and have worked very hard for these 13 years just to make ends meet. He had a relationship ...

Florida Dad Pays Support, Ex refusing visitation.. HELP! 
I am a 31 father of two little girls ages 11 and 10. I love my children and pay 715.00 a month in Court Ordered Child Support. I have tried to call my ...

My son is a Marine and I still pay her???? 
When I found out about my son there were many issues...but we put that behind us for the good of our son. Visitation didn't work due to outside influences ...

Wanting better things for my child & I 
I'm a 31 year old single parent of a 10 year old girl who is my world. I have been struggeling since the day my daughter was born to be able to see her ...

Club Hoppin and Conniving Babies Mamas  
I meet my husband in 6/2006 and in 12/2007, we got married. His oldest daughter is 13 and her mother is a conniving "female". When she found out she was ...

Guess You Dont live in Taylor County 
I have found that in Taylor County as a father you can get away with any thing, refusing to return the children because you think washing dishes is abuse ...

CHILD / SUPPORT .............. FOR WHO?  Not rated yet
I am Considered as a Criminal not a Father at all in the States, with No Complaints nor Committing a crime.

I don't blame anyone nor these poor person(...

A Fathers Nightmare!  Not rated yet
I am father who had a child at the age of 18yrs I was still living with my parents taking care of my daughter and with the help of my parents also my child ...

Good dad trying to fix mistakes a court can't  Not rated yet
Well I last seen my son when he was 3 its been almost 8 years now and he's 11. The only thing I get with my son is phone conversations and I try seeking ...

International Abduction   Not rated yet
In 2002 my children were abducted by the Australian mother and taken to Australia. We were stationed in Japan at the time in the USAF. I sought help from ...

Not a father, but seeing things from the other side  Not rated yet
I am not a father. In fact I am a mother. I was raised by my father who was EASILY able to get custody of me and my brother from my mother because she ...

All For Father's Rights, but not sure that the Father is....  Not rated yet
I am currently pregnant and the baby's father is in the Army Reserves. He has been a great help in making sure that the baby and I have a place to live....

Ex wife brainwashes my son  Not rated yet
I was separated for 2.5 years before our divorce was finalized. During that time my ex refused to allow me to see my son. We were living in Texas but ...

Mother wont let me see my daughter  Not rated yet
Me and my ex GF split on Feb 19th. I was not on birth certificate because my GF at the time said it was better for our daughter to have Tenncare since ...

Bats Need Their Own Cave  Not rated yet
A while back, I wrote a story called "Even Bats Have Caves" (http://www.child-support-laws-state-by-state.com/even-bats-have-caves.html). That story ended ...

What kind of right does a father has when he only pays enfoce chil support.  Not rated yet
Well here is my story, my ex boyfriend and i broke up and i started the process of child support since he wants giving me any money, note he has another ...

Where do I look to for help?  Not rated yet
About 15 years ago I dated a woman from Germany. I was in the military and was also dating several other military men at the time. I cared for the woman ...

Mother denied visitation for over 6 months  Not rated yet
When my son's mother and I split up in 2004 after the death of our 4 week old daughter. I had already been voluntarily giving her bi-weekly support on ...

Downfall of humanity  Not rated yet
Very recently I went through my child support case by way of telephonic appearance due to being active duty military. I have no money for a lawyer and ...

Dead Beat Excuse for Mother  Not rated yet
Having met this person in PA and (not) lived together for 1 year, our son was born. We (not) lived together for another 6 years, before my job moved me ...

ALL I EVER WANTED TO BE...  Not rated yet
I had a child when I was 17 and 22. I had the first one because she held me down during climax. The 2nd one cause i didn't want my son to be an only child....

Dad with a broken heart  Not rated yet
Well my story really begins when my divorce was final in 1997. I tried to see my children shortly after the devorce and my ex would not let me see them....

Ex-girlfriend and mother of my first born... Enough said.  Not rated yet
I was never married to the mother of my first child. She has an older son from another man. So, she has two kids by two different men (like a lot of ...

the courts wont listen or help  Not rated yet
In Short, the mother of my oldest son I lived with til he was 4 then i had another son with same mother. well i left the state of ohio to go find work ...

MY DAUGHTER WAS GIVEN TO A STRANGER BY THE NYS FAMILY COURT OF NEW ROCHELLE, NY  Not rated yet
My name is Garfield Isaacs of Mount Vernon, NY. My trouble started on September 2008. I was breifly dating a woman from outer state Florida (approximately ...

Don't understand in Michigan?  Not rated yet
I don't understand? I am a dad of two great kids. I was married. I watched them both come into this world and my heart just swelled for the love of ...

Your taking what?  Not rated yet
Well my story begings with a failed relationship where we agreed to visitation and she decided that she was not going to abide by it. So I took her to ...

Need help and honest answer.   Not rated yet
I was married to my ex husband for nearly eight years. Our marriage dissolved. We have two children. I have primary custody, he has visitation. However,...

Non Custodial Dad vs Massachusetts  Not rated yet
My story began with the typical false allegation and restaining order. She used it to get the kids away from me after I found out she was cheating on us(...

Divorce requires both parents to pay child support  Not rated yet
I had to get away from my son's mother, her mother took over guardinship of my son. The divorce decree states that myself and his mother are to pay weekly,...

Can I do something? Get justice?  Not rated yet
My story begins when I worked at an University where I met B., a fellow collegue. She was a sore for eyes but she seemed nice so we became friends. She ...

Child Support Scam!  Not rated yet
My wife became involved in a co-worker and divorced me then married him. After several years they separated and she moved in and lived with a attorney ...

IN CANADA. 23 year old daughter living commom law and still paying child support  Not rated yet
I have always believed that we should help our children getting a career and have had no problem contributing to my two children now 23 and 20 one living ...

pissed off step mom  Not rated yet
Story after story all with the same theme, My spouse and I also have issues with the minors Mother. But this saga comes with the NCP(father) NCP(mother)...

State of Ohio is in it for the money  Not rated yet
I am a divorced father of four currently stationed overseas with the military. My ex and I were seperated for about a year before finally getting divorced....

$24,000 We were together the whole time Wa state  Not rated yet
I was ordered to pay support in 1995 for my then 2 year old daughter, I never signed a paternity affidavit, never was served court papers, the process ...

Adopted father taken advantage of  Not rated yet
In February of 2004 I married Mireya. At the time I was young and rushed into a marriage. I knew her for less then two months. She was quick to have me ...

Attorney General is Bullying  Not rated yet
1. I Live in Texas
2. In 2007 my Ex wife and I divorced. We signed a modification agreement on child support @ $700 (which is less than Texas' 25% standard)...

John J. Torres III  Not rated yet
My name is John J. Torres III and I had my license suspended from Pueblo County for being in arrears 281.00. This is out of Pueblo County, I had spoken ...

When they don't want to pay  Not rated yet
My ex sent me to court because he stated paying $98 a month is a hardship for him. He has a Masters in Business and has not worked for two to three years....

If you weren't married you have no rights.  Not rated yet
My 10 year old is being adopted by my ex's sister because my ex cannot mentally raise my child. I have paid every dollar in child support, and stayed away ...

Mother Who Owes.....Thanks alot Texas!!!  Not rated yet
I am a mother of four children. Three of them reside in Texas with my ex-husband. I feel your pain and understand the sense of loss and frustration courteousy ...

Double Negative, looking for a positive.....  Not rated yet
1. Kylah Smith (8yrs of age): Kylah's mother and I were married and separated. She claims that there is documentation for a divorce filed and granted ...

Good Father being Punished  Not rated yet
I have been divorced since 2004. I have a 6 year old son and I am paying 412.00 a month on child Support. I have never had an issue with paying Child Support ...

Concerned for my daughters' well being.  Not rated yet
I have a 12 yr old daughter who i would do anything in the world for. I had a great job making great money and was paying my daughter's mother support....

Concerned for my daughters' well being.  Not rated yet
I have a 12 yr old daughter who i would do anything in the world for. I had a great job making great money and was paying my daughter's mother support....

Violated by the System to Support a Non-citizen  Not rated yet
I had a five month relationship with a citizen of Mexico. Unfortunately, in the midst of that relationship I got her pregnant. The relationship did not ...

A Father Only by Money  Not rated yet
I have 4 children, 2 were mine, 1 my brothers, and 1 some singer. I was forced to pay child support in Texas for the 2 that are not mine because I signed ...

Oh so long a go!  Not rated yet
It was tweny five years ago, I got my the big D=deadly beating from the state of Massachucets! I had A beautiful baby boy , His name was Michael, he was ...

Need Help For Veteran Wife   Not rated yet
Well its affects me and my girls. Its about my husband and the girl he had the child with. The child is 10 years old and he has been paying Child suppoort....

PLEASE DONT MAKE ME DO IT!!!!  Not rated yet
i MUST FIRST SAY i love my son (kids).I am a man with problems with disabilitiesand un employed at a bad time now.My BM is draging me back to court again ...

Tired and Fed Up!  Not rated yet
I am a father of 2 children who I haven't seen in roughly 8 years due to my ex-wife.Through our divorce in the state of CT, she got physical custody of ...

Military Father got the shaft.  Not rated yet
I have been in the military for 8yrs and I have a 7yr old son. At the time of all this I was being deployed and my son's mother bailed on him in 2007. 3 ...

Fix the broken system  Not rated yet
I am the father of 2 wonderful children. About a year ago, my ex met a man online. After I found this out by my oldest daughter asking me "Who is Mommy ...

New Orleand dad fighting for custody in VA ,,,,Stop being the nice guy.....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!............  Not rated yet
Let me start by saying my situation is all my fault. I want other dads to benefit from my misfortunes. With that being said my son is almost 13 years ...

10 YEARS AGO TRIED TO PROVE PATERNITY  Not rated yet
I filed 10 years ago for paternity. Filed in April and in May she was a no showed filed again but in June I dropped the charges do to another man claiming ...

Mr. Maurice T. Pierce  Not rated yet
My son's mother and I divorced in 1999. Everything was going fine until 06 when I met my wife now. After meeting my wife now my x stopped me from seeing ...

The Two children who are suppose to get child support.   Not rated yet
I am 20 years old and my parents divorced in 1992 (I was 3 and my sister was 2). My mother wanted the divorce because sadly my father wasn’t Americanize....

NOT THE FATHER...I am the custodial mother with full custody of two children.  Not rated yet
I just want to say that I read a piece of this article that mentioned child support should be based on current salary of the non custodial parent, not ...

Mom Ran Away With Daughter!!  Not rated yet
I was married in Ohio in 1990 had a beautiful daughter that I loved more than anything ,she was my world! My ex and I did not get along we were together ...

Can I still have visitation?  Not rated yet
I have not seen my oldest son since he was about 2 months old. He is now 11 yrs old. I do pay child support for the past 1 yr and, child support has taken ...

Flathead or Phillips, I got screwed  Not rated yet
I have faithfully paid my child support obligation for my daughter for the past 10 years. My income was always higher than my ex-wife's and Support was ...

Paycheck to Paycheck family  Not rated yet
My wife and I live paycheck to paycheck and our vehicles are having problems, are home is in need of repair and my wife is having health problems. I also ...

NO WINNING  Not rated yet
I am a single father of two beautiful girls. Right now my daughters are three, but at the beginning I was put threw hell just to see one of my daughter ...

What did I do to deserve this?  Not rated yet
I was a single father after my wife left me while I was deployed in Iraq. Upon return she had filed divorce while i was deployed and left me with 3 small ...

good father  Not rated yet
I have been a good father to my children since they have born . their mother walked out on them when they was babies . She cheated on me several time caught ...

MDK  Not rated yet
I have been paying child support for over 13 years. 6 years ago my X complained that the support wasn't enough, even though I also buy clothes, school ...

I'm a Dad.  Not rated yet
I'm a Dad of too Girls. Each child has a different Mother. My oldest is now 23. After being a foolish youger man I am now paying back child support and ...

Sob story from a good father.  Not rated yet
I pay child support for three of my sons. I have three other children who I am trying to support and raise. I have had two previese marragies. Sounds bad ...

What Can I do  Not rated yet
When I was 16 I got my gf pregant so I thought so after the child was born we were married and I came home from work early and found her in bed with my ...

No Rights to Visitation or Communication strips the Rights of Children  Not rated yet
Six years ago my Son was informed by his estranged wife at that time (He left her during her thrid affair) that she was pregnant. This would be her first ...

CANADIAN GETTING SCREWED OVER BY NORTH DAKOTA  Not rated yet
MY EX-WIFE AND I SPLIT IN 1993. I MOVED BACK TO MY HOME COUNTRY, MY DIVORCE PAPERS STATED HOW MUCH CHILD SUPPORT WAS TO BE PAID AS WELL AS VISITING RIGHTS....

She has my child and is getting a substantial amount   Not rated yet
My legal rights to my child.

This is just a nightmare that no parent should ever have to deal with. I have been divorced since 2002 both my X and I ...

Haven't seen my daughter in 2 years  Not rated yet
My daughter lives 40 miles from me. Prior to 2 years ago, I saw her on my standard, allowed visitation. My son asked to come live with me. When he did ...

Wrongfully accused  Not rated yet
I met this lady one day and in acouple of months she got pregnant with my first daughter the mother is Hispanic and I have never had kids before the day ...

What will it take to get the laws on all side!!!  Not rated yet
If a person is not a dead beat dad and is doing what they are suppose to be doing and the mother is messing around and not following the court order then ...

Ask yourself  Not rated yet
For those of you who want to go back and forth about who's really getting screwed in this situation, here's a way to simplify it. Would you rather get ...

Whats a father to do ?  Not rated yet
I have been divorced for three years now. My two boys have spent as much time with me as their mother for the first two years. She has started to spend ...

Dead beat or dead wrong?  Not rated yet
Im a 28 yr old man who's baby mama is seriously crazy my son was born on jan 6 of 09 one day after he came into this world i was told i wasnt his father ...

My fiance needs some help  Not rated yet
Well where do I start.... I've been with my fiance for about 2yrs now and he's been going through hell. His BM is terrible I don't know who even allowed ...

What a joke!  Not rated yet
My husband has been going to cs hearings for the last 2 years~never missed a court date. He has 3 kids with his ex wife- 1 of whom was questionable but ...

Guardianship  Not rated yet
My ex had taken my daughter and disappeared off the face of the earth. My ex started to collect child support due to she was on assistance. I heard from ...

j seay  Not rated yet
I paid 18 years of child support only to find myself back in the control of washington state child support enforcement. They currently have my license ...

injustice in the CSEA  Not rated yet
My daughter is 13 yerars old, ive paid support on her since the day she was born. When she was around 4 years old her mother started to refuse me my visitation ...

Frustrated and No Longer Know What to Do  Not rated yet
I have been with my boyfriend for about two years now. He has been seperated and going through a divorce for over 3 years now. His ex (which is yes what ...

DAVID T  Not rated yet
MY DAUGHTER NOW 19 TO BE 20 YEARS OLD IN DEC OF 2009 JUST CAME INTO CONTACT WITH ME AFTER NOT SEEING HER FOR ALMOST 11 YEARS,HER MOTHER SAID THAT SHE DID ...

Screwed by the numbers  Not rated yet
I am a single father with custody of two minor children in washington, and i recieve 130.00 in c.s from their mother. She has custody of 1 minor child ...

Doing the right thing hopefully still pays off.  Not rated yet
My story began shortly after returing from Desert Storm. I had a short lived relationship with a girl I met at a club and of course she had dreams of ...

you got to be kidding me.  Not rated yet
My case is in the State of Oregon. I divorced 6 years ago. I'm also in the military. Recently re-married and she has two children. Recently she sent me ...

Non custodial parents paying child support  Not rated yet
My story is as crazy as can be but, I know I'm not the only one. Lately, I been doing alot of studying the laws of my state and it has proven to have done ...

Not a father, a concerned ex  Not rated yet
Long story short my ex and I have 2 kids (2 and 10). He is very involved (kids stay with him during the school year to attend a better school) and he pays ...

Punished non-custodial father  Not rated yet
There is a evil woman out there treating my child whom when we were together conned me into allowing her to adopt my daughter and she now keeps her from ...

Trinity  Not rated yet
My husband had an affair a couple yrs ago and the girl got pregnant. She was openly sleeping with 2 other men at the same time she was sleeping with my ...

A Grandmothers Story  Not rated yet
In 2003, my son, was 28 years old and trying to cope with the life that was thrown at him. He turned to alcohol in his twenties to drown the sorrows of ...

What did I do wrong?  Not rated yet
I married a beautiful young female, in which I will always love and support. Unfortunatly, she had a change of heart! I had always supported her and my ...

Never Married to childs mother  Not rated yet
I was in a relationship with a woman we had a son, we were never married. There quite possibly as much as it kills me to think that the child might not ...

Discriminated for being a loving dad with a fair job  Not rated yet
Well I was divorced 4 years ago and I have two children. My final divorce decree stated that I of course pay child support of 900 month, pay the mortgage ...

Emily Hood  Not rated yet
I have been divorced for 11 years. My children are 13 and 14 years old. The reasons for my divorce are complicated. I am a genetic male that is suffering ...

Untreated fairly by the child support agency.  Not rated yet
Right now I am incarcerated and I am having a hard time to deal with some issues. I am having to pay child support for my three children. Right now I ...

JUST A SAD CASE IN GENERAL  Not rated yet
FIRST OFF, LA LAWS SUCK WHEN IT COMES TO THE MILITARY, I SERVED A YEAR AND A HALF FIGHTING IN AFGHANISTAN ONLY TO RETURN TO A COURT DATE FOR CHILD SUPPORT,...

Harsh times, Harsh problems  Not rated yet
The ex decided that when we split up that I could have nothing to do with the children. She got a protective order and no trespassing warrent on me so ...

Please Help the fathers   Not rated yet
Here is my story from hell.My daughter is 16 years old has a child hasnt' been in school since she was 14 years old. Her mother has been in and out of ...

Dead Beat ??? Maybe , Maybe not  Not rated yet
I have been dealing with the child support system for going on 18 years now. My support has been inconsistent due to changing jobs, life and lack of education....

DESPERATE IN SC  Not rated yet
I am a SC resident,happily married for the last 6 years with a beautiful 4 1/2 little girl and a 14 yr old step daughter, both of which lives in our household....

I don't know what to do!!!!  Not rated yet
I've been divorced for a year now, and ever since its been like pulling teeth to see my four year old daughter!!! i love her with all my heart??? it saddens ...

What am I supposed to do ?  Not rated yet
I make 12.65 an hour, Im about to be laid off, I pay 800.00 dollars amonth in child suport, regardless if I make 40 hours or not. I cant pay my car payment ...

SCREWED DADDY  Not rated yet
HI I AM WRITTING ON BEHALF OF MY HUSBAND. I KNOW THERE ARE PLENTY OF DEAD BEAT DADS OUT IN THE WORLD BUT NOW A DAYS THERE ARE AS MANY DEAD BEAT MOMS OUT ...

LOW LIFE CUSTODIAL PARENT  Not rated yet
My Husband has 5 children in total. 1 in NY she is the oldest 2 in Ohio and then 2 here with me NY. Oldest is 14. My hus was an irresponsible kid when ...

Monroe County, PA  Not rated yet
My Fiancee has been paying child support for almost 10 years on his daughter. When the child support order was made it was my fiancee voluntarily agreeing ...

Time For Change  Not rated yet
My name is richard smith, My story begins here in Mpls Mn. I have not seen my little girl or my son in almost ten years. I'm tired of being called the ...

TN CUSTODY NIGHTMARE!!  Not rated yet
My ex-wife seems to cruise under the radar of any wrong doing even with my having video and audio proof which has been presented to child services and ...

No Justice in Rogers County  Not rated yet
I have always paid my child support ahead of when it is due. Our divorce was signed on 2/6/05. She remarried in another state on 2/10/05. Her year long ...

child support and rights  Not rated yet
My baby mom is a drugie she is on tweek and who knows what else she is only 19yrs old and doesn't work and still lives with her grandparents.they barely ...

We have to stand up for our rights  Not rated yet
I have read many of the stories here and its sad to hear some of the things done to men. Right now I'm facing foreclosure because of the child support ...

Twins - Not!!!  Not rated yet
My husband is paying support for "twins" that he's never seen. The state conducted a blood test on one of the mothers other children, and not on the children ...

missing my daughter.  Not rated yet
I'm an Irish Imirant.I have a 2 and a half year old daughter and a 19 year old. My older daughter I have not seen nor heard from in over 5 years . Her ...

missing my daughter.  Not rated yet
I'm an Irish Imirant.I have a 2 and a half year old daughter and a 19 year old. My older daughter I have not seen nor heard from in over 5 years . Her ...

Tired of doing the right thing  Not rated yet
I divorced when my child was 2. I have always paid child support with the exception of 2 months that I withheld b/c her mother moved her 2,000 miles away ...

Bad Judge  Not rated yet
I have to travel for work and with the economy going down I've had to increase my travel and miss some visitation days with my daughter because her non ...

Dad still plays by N,Y rules and still stepped on  Not rated yet
I am a father of two daughters in N,Y state. I have been paying my child support and any arrears that have been behind! And they still want more they add ...

Texas FAMILY LAWS are as bad as thier "FAMILY VALUES"....  Not rated yet
I'm an an American born citizen, of Asian Indian origin. Raised in South-Asia, reverted to birth land United States (But globally known as Divided States ...

Texas Child Support Laws Don't Work  Not rated yet
I have two daughters and my ex wife and I are real civil when it comes to them; unfortunately I have come across rough times. She remarried and is doing ...