FATHERS RIGHTS

by A.D.I
(Montgomery,ala.)

I do not have story but I am a mother who see to many women doing what this father Isaiah Adams is telling in his story. There are to many children in this world that are left with fathers that deny them and you have these ignorant women that only want to collect a check.We as women and mothers need to let the fathers be fathers and stop brain washing our children, because in the end those children will soon grow up and know the truth.Yes the child support system is unfair sometimes for the fathers because some women are doing it because there angry or just out of spite,there are also these no good fathers that have to be made to do there job. So I say to you Isaiah Adams that if your doing your job then the only help you need sits high and looks low and as for the mother thats doing this I can promise you shes not doing as good as she thinks.Move on GOD has something bigger for you and just dont let it pass you by.If you never have pain you never have a story and to all the DADS doing there job hats off to you and if your a mom working the system for all the wrong reasons then you need to grow up and let that father be a father...

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Dead Beat Ex Wives
by: Anonymous

My husband pays his child support each week. We have 2 sons together also yet his ex call a day or 2 ahead wanting to know when we can meet up for the child support. His oldest son (they have 2 together also) moved in with us when he was like 10/11 yrs old. Granted the ex did cut the payments in half except when he spends a week with her. She ask for money before she even considers talking to her oldest son. To make matters worse when her other son was confronted over an incident that occurred at our home (over which we had to get DHR involved)she talked about raising her child support up big time if she lost her job because of DHR trying to reach her. I'm sorry, her youngest boy made a decision on his own to do what he did and all his dad and I wanted was medical help for him. We set up the initial meeting and everything and she took him to the doctor only one time and they wanted to put the boy on meds. He was supposed to go every 3 weeks and she did not take him. I am not to blame for what he did to our children. When her kids get sick she doesn't take them to the doctor. I was the one doing it. Even now when her oldest son is at her house if he gets sick and knows that he needs a doctor he calls me because he knows that I take him to the doctor. As far as the child support goes I personally feel as if she is bordering on harassment. When you call before 8 am and starting a day or 2 ahead wanting to know when we are going to meet up for payment...what do you think? Women need to get their heads straight and make their own way. I have already told my husband that if we ever split up that I don't want a dime that he has. I can take care of my own, I just want him, like other fathers, to be able to spend quality time with the child(ren). I honestly feel sorry for the fathers out there that has a dead beat ex wife that all she thinks about is money and her own self!!!

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What do I do
by: Anonymous

What if the mother is smoking marijuana in front of my son and have drug dealers/gang memmbers walking in and all day in front of my son....what Do I do then

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Thank you
by: Anonymous

Dads always seem to get screwed and I'm tired of seeing all these women support these mother's who think it's okay to treat the father, who's trying his best to be a good dad, like trash and use the system's prejudice against them. Just because you have a child doesnt make you a good mother and the court hardly ever looks at the father as a possible custodial parent, especially in Indiana. It's great to see another woman who isnt completely gender biased in these situations. Thank you!

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Child Custody for more than one Child in Different Homes
by: Anonymous

Can anyone help answer this. I was married twice. One child with each woman. I am paying child support for my second child. It was set up by the court. I have been paying child support directly to the mother for my first child each mouth. The mother has decided to go to court to make it legal. When this is made legal, will the support for my second child change authomatically or will I have to get a lawyer and go to court to have the second child's changed.

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THANKS
by: Anonymous

Thanks for showing your support a lot of fathers out there are getting the shaft and it helps to see women acknowledge the abuse and injustice which can occur when dealing with our court system and the vindictive immature individuals who monoplize on it one luv

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back child support
by: Anonymous

I have a question about marrying a man who owes back taxes. Will I have to help him pay his back taxes once we are married.

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I AGREE
by: Anonymous

I agree with you! There are just as much dead beat mothers out there as there are fathers just not exposed as much. A mother that plays games with the father and the system have no morals or heart, plain selfishness.
Child Support=Pain and hurt for the child, how is that support?

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