Getting Burned Every Second Of The Day...
(Corpus Christi, Tx)
Met somebody at the age of 19. We ended up getting serious. And around the time she got pregnant. She later told me she had been with somebody before we started dating. And she thought there was a possibility the child wasnt mine. Me being me I stayed in relations knowing the 50/50 chance. After my son was born. I made sure to have a dna test. The results of me being a father to a beautiful boy.
We moved in together and found out one day at work i was put on child support. I felt betrayed. I felt Stupid. I felt like how does this make sense when we live together! Slowly but surely money was taken out of my check. Arguments arose of bills and me not making a certain amount on my check. And my reponse is "well ur askin the state to take money from me and put it into ur bank account".
We later seperated. 3 1/2 years after being by myself. I found somebody new and now I have 2 daughters. My son's mother doesnt associate with me in anyway. She associates with just my parents. I dont know where she lives. So incase of a emergency. I wouldnt know where to begin to look. I have only her phone number. Which i dont use because it gets ugly. Recently my song graduated Kindergarden and didnt know anything about it.
As of right now im self employed. Im reminded of the bills the Attorny General sends. Im up to I think is 6 thousand in unpaid CS. When I do see my son is rarely. I do get him what he needs. I dont have him for any holidays or any certain visits. I dont make payments for the fact is I think its unfair. And I think shes breaking the law more then I am.
As of I know now. I know she is in a relationship. Ive had one altercation with the gentlemen. Which he started. So as of right now. Im confused on what to do. And I have no type of help in my corner. Im the baby out of 4 boys. Grew up with no sisters. So I look at it like my son is missing out on growing up with somethin I didnt. Which Is sisters. But also just being with his FATHER.
Im not a criminal. Never been in trouble. Have no record. Never been in jain. And ill be damn to be sent away for something that makes no sense. If anybody has advice. Or jsut some type of light at the end of the tunnel. Id love to hear it. Thanks..