Hello - I am wondering if you can shed some light on this situation for me. When you met this guy did you know that he wasn't a good provider? Had things he'd done in the relationship revealed to you that you and him were not going to have a long time commitment to one another? Did you two use protection and it didn't work? If so, which protection were you using? I am just trying to understand why wouldn't you protect yourself from getting pregnant by a man that was not your husband. What caused you to make such a decision? If you knew you would not be able to financially support this child on your own was abortion not an option? Was it that you didn't know any better? Was it that your friends all have children out of wedlock? Is it your environment? Please help me to understand. Thanks.
