He won't fork over $40 a week!

by Nicole
(Harlem, New York)

My little girl

My little girl

I have a 22 month old daughter with smug arrogant ass that won't shell out $40 dollars a week for her. This man drives a truck, owns a home and a car in philly, boo-hoo's and moans about how much he loves his child, but has not been consistant when it comes to his child support if you want to call it that I have been more than accomodating to this man, and he has admitted this, yet he continues to take advantage of the situation.

He does not visit his child. When he says he's coming over, I just roll my eyes, and make plans, because I know he WON'T be showing up. It's bad enough he doesn't pay the support, but he's never around. You can't have it both ways buddy! I am a Home health Aide, and we don't make that mcuh money. She has childcare exspenses, there is rent, metrocard, clothing, and food..I am at my whits end, and a day does not go by where I am crying and stressed. Last week he sent 30 bucks, after he lied and said he would send more since he rented the rooms in his home. He didn't volunteer this info either. I overheard him talking to one of his tenants when he visited the last time. When I confronted him about the rooms, you should have seen the look on his face! Sneaky bastard!

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Hello
by: Anonymous

Hello - I am wondering if you can shed some light on this situation for me. When you met this guy did you know that he wasn't a good provider? Had things he'd done in the relationship revealed to you that you and him were not going to have a long time commitment to one another? Did you two use protection and it didn't work? If so, which protection were you using? I am just trying to understand why wouldn't you protect yourself from getting pregnant by a man that was not your husband. What caused you to make such a decision? If you knew you would not be able to financially support this child on your own was abortion not an option? Was it that you didn't know any better? Was it that your friends all have children out of wedlock? Is it your environment? Please help me to understand. Thanks.

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