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I am glad I am not the only one in this situtaion

by Jen
(Orlando Fl)

I have been with my finace for 5 yrs. He has a 12 yr old son which has always paid child support for $380 a month faithfully. The crazy mother puts his child against him, sends him withthe worst clothes when its his turn to have him so he will buy him clothes. Not only that but she refused to have my fiances last name!.she has always brought problems into our relarionship. calling texting, threatening him that he will never see his child. what burns her more is thta i get along great with the child and love him as my own. ive told him many times that he can deal with his son wothout having to deal with her, as much as he tries she always manipulates his life.... its gets better..

during a time of separtaion my finace got another chic knocked up! Physcho # 2. She got pregnant on purpose and she can very well maintain this child on her own. SHe makes $84K a year!!!!! she just wants to be spiteful and ruin his life by doing all this. she denied getting a patnertiy testwhen the child was born so he had nothing to do with her til now. Now that the child is 7 months old she served him court papers. It doesnt give him a date but its coming. im sure its his( his carelessness and his fault)i agree he needs to pay something ok. My thing is how much more can they possibly take away from his paycheck? will they split it between both? how i am i supposed to have a future with this man when he makes 30k a yr( roughly) and now with baby # two he will not be able to afford a life!this is insane. I dont know what lies ahead but if they suck more money out of him they will defintely ruin his life. its not fair, its ridicuolus~

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Nov 07, 2011
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not worth it
by: Anonymous

run away

Aug 18, 2010
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Really!
by: Anonymous

Wow you are a baby moma and that sucks that your ex or whatever knocked u up and left u but you are sitting here saying that your life would be easier without your kid's father involved. Have you thought about it? If this man is paying his child support and seeing his kid then awesome! I'm so tired of listening to all these baby moma's, who hate their kid's father so much that they complain about him being a part of the child's life. Do you know how many mother's out there, who cant get their kid's dad to pay child support or use their visitation time, would love to be in your situations. Father's have rights too and remember you didnt get yourself pregnant he deserves to have a relationship with your children too.
I'm not defending dead beat or bad father's but if the guy is seriously trying to do the right thing and be a good father then put the past behind you and forget about the problems the two of you had, if for nothing else do it for the kids.

Jul 22, 2010
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WAKE UP HON
by: Amazing

You are a complete moron. You are married to a loser and if you had half a brain you'd broom him fast! "My fiancee got a psycho pregnant during our separation". WTH? There should be laws for ignorance.....

Jun 29, 2010
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Really!!
by: Anonymous

He got both of them prego! So he has to pay child support! I bet your mouth may not be so big if the shoe was on the other foot!! I myself am a baby mama and I gotta tell you MY life would be better without her dad in it but I can't make that call! It's either she hurt because I won't let her dad see her or I deal with and I choose to deal with it! You are so wrong! Your next honey he will get you prego and leave you and then what? WHAT AN IDIOT!!

Jun 29, 2010
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Appalled in Texas
by: Anonymous

WOW! Our situations are very similar! My husband and I were married in 1995, had a child together in 1996, divorced in 1999 and then got back together in 2004. With that being said......during the years we were divorced, he had sexual relations with someone who also deliberately got pregnant. She laid low until the child was 3 1/2 yrs old then served him with paternity papers (we had only been back together for a year when this happened). I'm sorry, but this is insane! My husband was in nursing school and I guess she was looking at the future money she could get. Well, she gets it! We don't live beyond our means...we have a nice home but nothing fancy, we drive older model cars, and we pay $700 monthly in child support for one child. We barely get by every month and our son has to do without alot. I don't think it's fair. The mother of the child lives to make trouble via texting, calling, or showing up at his place of employment. This is crazy! The last time she raised our child support she went and bought herself a brand new Honda Civic!

Jun 26, 2010
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Yes baby
by: Anonymous

Yes his life will be ruined . My advice is Close any checking account and saving. If he has family that he can trust put cars boats motorcycle and any other non exempt propery in someone else name . Yes his life is going to change. Close out any 401k because if he does not he will lose it all. If you are a good wife you will stick by him through all of it . Good luck . I have been their and done that.

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