I GOT U A GOOD ONE
Best intrest for the children? three boys same wife, I had primary of two she, had one" that stayed with me and my mother most the time,until the first grade thats when the ex left for Hartsville,Alabama didnt tell a soul, after I found out where & how to get him I find he failed the 1st grade, due to her moving 7 times in Alabama.
Their ages oldest 1978, middle one 1980 youngest 1988 born in Dallas,Texas the middle son an the oldest lived with me, the youngest born in 06/1988,my final divorce 04/1990 C/S started 7/90, $33.50 per week. at 1st I was to pay that for each kid & she was keeping them.An she was keeping the house cars truck any and all she could get. She filed an paid for the divorce,I showed up when I was summons the 1st time asked if i wanted to contest it told them no.
I listened to her and her lawyer about the final degree, so I didnt go to the last court hearing like a dummy,
The lawyer told me she would send me a copy of the final degree, going on the word of the ex she kept telling me that I didnt need to send the C/s threw the courts, she even wrote that in letter form and signed it. So shed come to my job I would give her cash,
I noticed it seemed to be more an more each month I would see her, asking for a resiept was like pulling her teeth out, but she did agree to give me some,
I showed the lawyers DA, Judge.
I informed everyone she moved 12 hours away. so I lost a lot of time with him for six years, week ends week day visits. I didnt get credit for driving up there to get on his spring breaks either.
They moved back to Texas 45 mins away in 2003 I wasnt allowed visits that much even though I woud pick him up and take him back.
2007 she got mad at me and turned me in.Playing the courts like a dumb but. I now owe her not him over $60.000.00 dollars. in back child support
at the 1st meeting with the assti DA myself an the ex,
both lawyers, the DA ask her if I payed her any thing
she told him NO, I showed all the parties what was paid
it didnt matter I was told I needed Bond of 5000.00 pd to her, what kind of shit is that?
the reason she got mad and turn me in was over my grandson, which is another story
at the present, the youngest is building his future with the navy got married in 2007,
the middle son is oil rigging the oldest is manger of a auto shop doing well.
The middle son got A.L.L cancer, when he was young almost lost him my mother helped me out, where was she?
the grandson was taken to my ex , after I had him from 6 months until he was 3 an a half years old,
he stayed in the hospital for 6 months after birth, thats when my son left him with me,
then my son got into some trouble with drugs got arrested, and I couldnt wouldnt help him stay out of jail, that when he took him to the ex.
the grand baby has special needs that wasnt being seen to. and yes I called the cps and had them correct the problems thats when she called the C/S division.
I cant see him, evertime I do she takes it out on the baby not me.
the problem was they had to piss in a cup, it seemed funny they, the ex & her husband
gained alot of pounds in a month.
Me I havent been able to find a good paying job, cant
get training for a better paying job. (credit score)
Insurance is so high due to score cant afford to have a car, how do u get around town.
if I had a passport I would leave the USA behind
There is somewhere people dont see one sided or at least see both sides.