I HAVENT SEEN THE CHILD IN 5 YEARS

by Anonymous
(DALLAS,TEXAS)

I CURRENTLY LIVE IN DALLAS TEXAS, THIS IS MY STORY WELL I RAISED A CHILD FROM ONE YEARS OLD , THE MOTHER CAME IN 2001 FROM ANOTHER STATE (HOUSTON)AND STOLE THE CHILD FROM FROM LOUISIANA WHERE I WAS RESIDING AT THE TIME , SHE STOLE HER BECAUSE CHILD SUPPORT HAD FINALLY LOCATED HER AFTER 8YEARS AND I FINALLY HAD A CHILD SUPPORT HEARING AGAINST HER ,SO BASCIALLY THE MOTHER STEALS THE CHILD AND TAKES HER ACROSS THE STATE LINES , TRIES TO GET A PROTECTIVE ORDER AND A RESTRAINING OREDER AGAINST ME , BUT THEY IMMEDIATLEY DROPPED MY CASE IN THE STATE I WAS LIVING IN , SO IN 2005 I DIVORCED THE MOTHER AND IN THE DIVORC DECREE THERE WAS TO BE 2 DNA SCREENING ON TWO CHILDREN THE COURT ONLY GAVE ME ONE , I THEN PENDING THE DNA RESULTS WAS ORDERED TO PAY TWO HUNDRED A MONTH, AND JOINT CUSODY WITH VISITATION OF ALL SUMMERS AND HOLIDAYS INCLUDING THE CHILDS BIRTHDAY. SINCE THIS TIME THE MOTHER HAS REFUSED ME OF HAVING ANY VISITS OR CONTACT WITH THE CHILD WHO IS NOW 15 , THE MOTHER HAS SENT SEVERAL MESSAGES STATING THAT I WOULD NEVER GET TO SEE HER AGAIN , AND I AM NOBODY TO THEM, SHE HAS STATED MANY TIMES THAT SHE GOT OVER ON THE SYSTEM AND THAT NOT ONLY I AM NOT GONNA SEE HER EVER BUT SHE WILL CONTINUE TAKING MY MONEY , AND THAT THE CHILD ISNT MINE BUT I WAS GONNA PAY HER ANYWAY.

I DONT HAVE MUCH TO LIVE OFF AND CANT START A FAMILY DUE TO THIS ISSUES IN MY LIFE , THE CHILD HAS BEEN BRAIN WASHED AGAINST ME AND DOESNT WANT TO EVEN SEE ME , I AM REQUESTING THAT THE COURT PLEASE MOIDFY MY CASE TO TERMINATE OR ALLOW THE DNA ON THE CHILD IN QUESTION TO BE DONE , THE MOTHER HASNT MADE ANY EFFORTS TO ALLOW ME AS THE QUOTE "FATHER " TO TALK NOR VISIT THE CHILD IN QUESTION , I HAVE NO WHERE ABOUTS OF THE CHILDS LOCATION, RESIDENCY OR CONTACT INFORMATION. IN MY OPINION THE MOTHER HAS BREACHED THE DIVORCE DECREE MANY TIMES AND I HAVE PROOF OF MANY ATTEMPTS TO SEE THE CHILD ALONG WITH WITNESS WHO CAN ALSO VERFY THAT THE MOTHER HAS REPEATEDLY STATED THAT I WASNT THE CHILDS FATHER BUT I AM COING TO CONTINUE TO PAY HER UNTIL THEY FOUND OUT THAT THE CHILD ISNT MINE.

THE SYSTEM THAT GOVERNS ME IS THE SAME SYSTEM THAT PUNISHES ME TO TAKE A CHILD THAT ISNT MINE AND PAY CHILD SUPPORT TO A MOTHER WHO DOESNT CARE WHO THE FATHER IS AS LONG AS SHE RECIVES A CHECK . PLEASE HELP ME SOMEONE THIS HAS BEEN TEN YEARS TO LONG AND IM TIRED OF CHASING THE MOTHER , ISAIAH ADAMS 3RD I HAVE A GREAT WORK HISTORY AND I AM A TEACHER I WORK WITH CHILDREN WHO HAVE AUTISM.

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Just mean
by: Anonymous

you are a very rude man and maybe thats why thing happen to you I am not mad at them at all run run

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by: Anonymous

Well, if you didnt hit women, the system might work for you. It's unfair for a guy to abuse women who are smaller. You also have a newborn you won't take care of, dead beat.

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good luck
by: Anonymous

not alone sac little different maybe not by much from what i hear but what i did is go to self help center in court house forced by court to take parenting course did so best thing for me found i wasn't alone paid 180 for classes but learned my rights they helped me find inexpensive lawyer, help me file paperwork, walk me through process mediation etc., couldn't have got 49/51 custody otherwise because of all the allegations she blatantly made took three years of turmoil but worth it, find a fathers organization in your your state google whatever you have to, to start the process cuz it's long road but to be able to be part of your child life is worht it i still pay child support even though we have 49/51 but i now have rights and she chooses to take her out of state her or change schools etc., she's in contempt and finally i atleast have some say in how she raised the less custody the less rights you have to saying anything its fallen on deaf ears and corrupt system just like our government good luck

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Not much you can do
by: PJP

I dont think you have much of a chance. You are in Texas . They have the worst child support abuses laws in the union. I would say get an extremly good Lawyer. However that might get expenses. Or just continue till the child reaches 18 . That Is your only chance. The child support laws in Texas are abuse to the Fathers . Their is a Lawyer in Austin that can from all information I have heard and seen. Can take care of this for you . But he is about 1800.00 dollars an hour . He only works for the fathers. And he does win his cases. That is why he is so expenses. Maybe you can borrow money. His name is William Davidson. Good luck

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Good Luck!!
by: Anonymous

I feel for you I am in the same situation ,but my daughter is now 19 and dropped out of school .Yet the CS still is charging me child support and taking me to court to put me in jail! I don't know about your state but in Ohio the case law says if there is wrongful taking of a chld in a interstae case then they can not enforce child support but that remains to be seen in the next two weeks !! I hope you get the help you need because no woman should be able to hold a child of a mans for ransom and that is exactly what it is!! I am disabled now from all my hard years of working and providing for the family I do know ! But the system does not care about that at all ,they want the money just as bad as the other parent bcause they recieve funds for funds collected! Good luck to you I hope the best for you!

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