I hope mother of my kids don't find this website...

by angel
(texas)

I have to infant children out of wedlock. I don't support them cuz they live well off with her uncle. They reside in a 5 bedroom, 4bth Texas home and drive a nice car he provides. Why should I have to pay? I occassionally give her $40 just to keep her from complaining that I never help. IF she were to ever research child support I'd be in trouble, but she's to used to getting everything handed to her by her uncle I doubt that'll ever happen.


I tell the uncle that I am working on helping more with money but he's so well off that he wouldnt notice either way. He doinga good job takeing care of my kids. I get mad though when she questions me when i buy my mother and stepfather groceries and car parts cuz they need the hekp more than she does. I have my dad back in elpaso that I owe money to for a car I used to have, but still owe him $1000, so I send him $60 a week.

I used to live with them but didn't feel comfortable beucase i'm not used to that lifestyel so I moved out aftor only two months, they are too snooty and jesus freakes for my styel. I come from a broken famiy and a history of ghettoness, that's more my life.

So, I think as long as seh don't go snoopoing around here I'll be okay til they turn 18.
I owe like 3 differnet payday loans, a bundle of traffic tickes I can't pay cuz im alawy helping MY family buy stuf they need.
NOw, I dont' need no haters coming back at me and telling me how to live life so don't.

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WOW!! Dude
by: Anonymous

It almost sounds like you are proud of what you are (NOT) doing for you children. I don't sense any remorse in your writing.
These kids will be taken care of with or without you. Like other posts here it sounds like they are set to have a great life only because their uncle loves them and is showing them the road to God Almighty. Granted, the neice's situation is not mentioned here, but I hope she is doing all she can to provide for her kids long after her uncle is gone. If she is trusting in our Lord, she will be OK!!
As for you, Angel, I pray you come to terms with what you posted here and that you come to find Jesus too. You would be much better off if you did.
With the economy today not many families are willing or able to help out and alot of single mothers turn to the system for day to day living expenses. I commend the uncle for having a heart and helping raise these kids. He has done something right to afford the resources to help. I pray his neice and nephews learn how their uncle handles(d) his monies.
You need GOD in your life if you don't already have HIM.
And I honestly hope you have come back to read all these repsonses because each one offers something to help you fix your LIFE so you can help your children.

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WOW!!!
by: Anonymous

How can you sleep at night after having posted this?
Their uncle, I'm sure, has worked very hard to get where he's at. I'm glad he has the heart to take care his niece and great-nephews. Where would they be without him?
As for your family, you keep helping them because in the end the children will see what a piece of work you really are. They may like you now, but once they are old enough to understand they will resent you ever having put them through this.
I pray that they find God and follow his commandments; which would make you the luckiest person on earth because they will forgive you thanks to their MOM and uncle showing them the way of God. That is the ONLY thing saving your arse from being kicked to the curb by your own sons.
Please leave them alone if you aren't going to help raise them, they dont need your influence at such a young age (or ever for that matter).
Please move back to El paso so your father can be proud of what his gene pool created.
God Bless America and these little children.

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Hmmm
by: Anonymous

yet another winner, I see.
YOu should heed the last advice and move as far away as you possibly can and leave these kids be. They are better off where they are. Im sure the uncle loves them dearly and has probably set them up for life after he is gone. I just hope he didn't leave any loop holes for you to jump through to get a piece of the pie. Is that what you're waiting for by the way?

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Dude!!!
by: Anonymous

Do everyone a favor and move back with your dad in elpaso.

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Think About It... God loves You
by: Anonymous

Anyway ... I get the fact that you want to buy your people things and perhaps your family does need the help more than your ex and the kid. But the kid needs YOU. He/She needs to know that DADDY cares about its existence so 40----200--- whatever dollars, is important to let the kid know you care about it. You made it.

You need to stop giving cash to everyone but yourself, your life and your business!!!!! If your people cared about you than they'd want you to fix yours first rather than taking from you and leaving you stuck and obviously feeling like dirt.


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WOW!! Angel, is it?
by: Anonymous

You are a loser. HOW do you sleep at night?? I bet you don't ever even ask if the children need things. I bet you have a girl on the side and, if not already, will soon be pregnant too. You should get yourself fixed for the sake of the children. You have the worst attitude I have ever seen in someone who thinks they are warranted the label of "dad", at best, you are the person named on the birth certificate, nothing more, nothing less.
You are a disgrace to mankind. What will the children think of you when they grow up? I hope and pray that by then you will have grown up and taken responsibility, but from your story, it will always be about "you". I will pray for the children that someday they come to know GOD and a real DAD. Many men out there are willing and ready to step up to the plate you have abandonded. May you find PEACE in the new year.

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You are a loser
by: Anonymous

My ex also thinks the kids are well off enough with his help. He's going to end up in Jail soon because of that attitude... it does not matter what the mom or the family makes, that does not get rid of your responsibility.

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You are a LOSER!
by: Anonymous

I don't care about how good the momma has it you still equally created those kids. Grow up

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Be the father you never had
by: Anonymous

Hey, I hate to be a hater but you have got to know, that your child is your family! Your child needs your support ! Your child needs you in his or her live.

Grow up and do the right thing. Step out of your past life, leave the ghetto behind , and be the father you never had It is that easy!

And remember GOD has a hold of you and He is not letting Go!

May you find peace

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Come on Man!
by: Anonymous

Dude you make life rough on people that are actually trying to do the right thing! Don't be so ignorant brother.

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Shame
by: Anonymous

It pisses me off to see this. People like you make it look bad for fathers who have real problems with this... not just the inability to give up your "ghettoness" and be a dad. I'm 21 years old and my ex who I raised my child with for a year, cheated on me, and then got pissed off because I left the house EVEN THOUGH I still payed for her to live in OUR apartment while I stayed with friends. She never helped out with bills, never had any money to help with anything. She always had money for her weed though which is all she cared about apparently.

Now she's filing for child support when our daughter doesn't even live with her all the time. She mostly ends up at her grandmothers house. I visit her when I can but I'm a single dad who works night shift, and in a completely different state, at a very low-income job. Even if I did have enough money to support not only myself, but her, I'd still have to pay for child care during the day, which I can't. I'm also in school so I can get my degree and stop fucking around with these bullshit part time jobs and have something decent to support my family. She knows all of this, and yet has no problem pretty much giving me a jail sentence. I'm going to lose my job, my schooling, everything. All because she wants a little extra that I don't have.

The saying is true, but a little bit off- Men are from Mars, Women are from Hell.

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