I made a mistake
by Mike Piland
(Tacoma, WA)
I am 43 and my girlfriend got pregnant. We met on e-harmony. I got freaked out and basically allowed her to be alone almost her whole pregancy. Since then, we have been on and off. I didn't make it to any of her prenatal appointments. My daughter is 2 months old now and I have not paid a dime to the mother and just recently gave her my medical information. While she was 2 months along, I want back on e-harmony and updated my profile. She found out about it recently and was quite upset. I recently found out by reading an op order that she had her tubes ties 14 years ago. I accused her of betraying me. I need to know how to get the mother back into my life. I made a mistake and I love her and do not want to be without her or my daughter. The mother hasnt asked me for any money even though I know they are struggling. What can I do to help myself with this? I want to set up child support on my own for her. I ended the relationship because I was stupid. Now she gave up on me recently after going out of way even though I was being as ass.
Please help. I need to fix what I broke and save myself at the same time.