I need help (being railroaded in Ohio)

by Michelle Herron
(Butler County CSEA (OHIO))

my son & I

my son & I

Im in Ohio. My son is now 22, my x-husband is dead(I paid him) I found out yesterday my job was ordered to take my wages again by CSEA but I have no idea who will get my money. I have already been screwed out of 12 weeks of wages that they took after he killed himself as it took that long to get a court date to place a hold. I had no idea it was lifted or that this was about to go down. My son and I are close, he has tried to locate this missing money and as always he gets the run around as I have trying to request a appt to talk to anyone there. courts were useless as this is now a probate date and they need to collect it. why is CSEA even involved in a 22 yr case that has no child involvemnt or a custodal parent that is alive??? This is a nitemare, and my mother in law is the lstar of it. In 22 yrs I have been arrested at gunpoint, on a wanted poster and now a fellon (never even a ticket ) my lic were suspended (no notice there ) and I have not had a income tax return in 20 yrs, they even took my poor new husband's who has no children at all!! I work with women who struggle to put little ones in cloths and can't get a dimes worth of help from CSEA, but they are spending more time on this case then all the girls I know get together and there is no child involved, or parent to pay the money too?? WTF??????

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May 24, 2011
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In Hamilton County African-american men 8th amendment rights are being violated
by: Anonymous

When Child support takes all the tools I have too be a good father. What is there left for me to be? A DEADBEAT DAD! Black men are homeless, hungry, and still expected to work every day to pay child support. It like we.arent suppose to have anything to personally share with our children. Just the basic necessities (a place to live and food to eat.). Its really unfair and unjust. You wonder why so many of us evade our child support obligations. If I cant take care of myself; how can I take care of my child? Some would call this excuses. Maybe! However, I would call it the first law of nature...SELF PRESERVATION. When you work 40, 50, 60 hours a week but you cant evem afford to put a roof over your head or food in your stomach. Theres somethimg wrong with this kind of justice. Im not writing about something Ive heard, seen on tv, or someone told me...Ive lived it for over 20 uears. That why I dont care anymore one way or the other. Something needd to br done about this injustoce. Society has been brainwadhed...SO WHO CARES? We are just common criminals. Hamiltom County justice.

Jan 20, 2011
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What can we do
by: Anonymous

Obviously they werent concerned with the child's welfare. They're only concerned with their own pockets and not paying attention to how much the tax payers are paying while the ignorance of our support enforcment agency does'nt know what either hand are doing or even someones individule demise of personal gain for some type of agency advancment.The threat comes into play when the court steps in to dictate how we should live and raise our children. To much power and not enough ethics with good common sence.

Jan 06, 2011
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Please Contact me Michelle
by: Tony Fantetti

Michelle,

Please email me at tony.fantetti@ocffr.org, as I'd like to discuss with you what've you've posted here.

Sincerely,

Tony Fantetti
Ohio Council for Fathers Rights

Apr 09, 2010
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NO JUSTICE
by: Anonymous

I want to start by saying Im sorry, ITs the system its all F/ed up. It dont matter to anyone but you that they are ripping you off. Lawyers are too much money and you are in for the long haul so get extra lube, and hang on tight.....Go to the law library on the net. I find it very helpful. Good luck!!!!

Jan 23, 2010
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Thanks for playing
by: Michelle

The money should go to my adult son as his father left him everything.
My x was my best friend & lover to the very end, and I always new it was being used for our child. My son is now 22 & just out of prison. He went to CSEA, was told in Ohio it is not the child's money but the parent who it is owed to, who is dead. I'm not trying to get out of paying it. I am trying to see that he gets it.
Do you really think I Should just bend over, lube up while the money I bust my back for daily is being sent to the "Twighlight Zone" & I'm unable to help my kid get his shit together due this?
Ohio law says the money is owed to the estate & probate court needs to collect the debt, no minor children are involved & no $$ owed to the state, they closed the case. So why on earth did they open a brand new arrearage case? Who started it? My mother in law took me to court to add herself on as a 3rd party, so there you go.
My son & I have been through 20 yrs of HELL. 20 yrs of fighting. My parents had to go to cour to see their grandchild (197 doc involved)I was the first women on a wanted poster in 95 & told by the judge after being arrested at gun point ON MY min.wage job at walmart, deamed a fugitive justice, even though I had been in the same place for years, that I was the one who was going to set a example for the rest of the women in Butler County.
My poor little guy now tells his memories of granny's wrath if he ever spoke of mommy in front of her, the trips w/ her to "go to See mommy" that ended at the post office in front of the wanted poster. She even took him w/ her to hang them!! He's lost one parent already, I stay angry because of this. It's killing him to watch, helpless to aide. I guess though to someone like you, My "thoughless act" should have ended w/ abortion, or maybe just a birth & a slam dunk into a dumpster would have suited you? But then, you were never married to the son of the devil HERSELF?
Think before you speak, One of two things my mother repeated daily to me as a kid. I listened & try hard to live by it. The other, I guess was not as important to me then as now, but had I listened, it could have saved me 22 yrs of heartache. A stiff prick has no conscious. Sorry you feel the way you do, but thanks for playing....Michelle

Jan 22, 2010
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Still responsible
by: Anonymous

Child support goes to the family after the parent has passed.It is collectable till the day you die and after you pass they take what's left of your estate and apply it to the unpaid amount.You cannot run from this obligation.People need to seriously think before you reproduce.Child support laws have changed.I would tell your son to contact the child support agency who last handled this case and find out what's going on there.Because as long as he has family alive you will be responsible for this money.And it could be going to whomever he left his estate to.

Jan 17, 2010
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WHAT?
by: Anonymous

WHAT? how in the hell can they keep taking money if your son is 22? i don't get this at all

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