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I want to see my kids but she won't let me....HELP!!!!!

by Tatiana
(Houston TX)

My ex husband and I have joint custody of our 3 boys and legally we are under the standard vistitation.I am supposet to get them every other weekend starting on fridays at 6pm. Well my ex just got married to this horrible woman who is evil and if I don't pick them up exactly at 6pm if she's in a bad mood I don't get to pick them up, Uh I work M-F 6:15pm til 2:45 am in a call center.

This woman happens to be supposely a paraleagal and she knows how to get around things. My ex mother in law who I love dearly told her to be more understanding and she stared yelling at her that she went my the book and my ex mother in law said " oh I'm sorry I thought I was talking to a human being with a heart not that book. My ex mother in law says this woman is evil and she even told her my kids did not wan to be around me, so my mother in law said" give me a break those children love thier mother. My boys have asked me so many times to come back and I want them back but I have no money for a lawyer. I made a big mistake by agreeing to this in the first place but he wasn't married back then and I saw my kids whenever I felt like it.

I had them all summer and most holidays. Oh and she told my ex mother in law that I need to be a " woman " and call her and ask for her to let me see my kids if I can't follow the book. Hello I didn't sleep with you to have these 3 kids I slept with your so called man to have them so why do I have to deal with you? Oh and when she talks to me she's loud and rude. My ex just stands there like he's on drugs or something just spaced out. He is so scared of her. My ex mother in law says she will be a mediator but the wife says no. How can I just get them to drop of the kids at my ex mother in laws in stead of having to pick them up at a gas station when she says. My ex mother in law says she'll be happy to keep my boys until i'm able to pick them up.

Please give me some advise. I can not afford a lawyer. I appriciate any good advise. I have more to offer my kids, for one I have stable home and live in a good neighborhood they live on a street where it's really bad. I take them to church. I have a great school about 1 block away. I'm a loving mother. Thank you so much for your help. Please email me at tatianaej@hotmail.com

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Oct 07, 2011
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Visitation law
by: Anonymous

In the state of Texas if you have a court order for visitation you can hold the other party in contempt. Which means they would go to jail for not following the orders set forth in the judgement or judge agreed order. They have to follow the orders of the visitation guideline set forth in the paper work. If you do not have visitation paper work filed get online and look up the paperwork and there should be something online for free. You don't need a lawyer if you read the about child visitation law and child support.

Aug 28, 2011
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f em
by: Anonymous

I have not been able to see my kids all summer, the ex talks bad stuff about me and girlfriend. i wish the world was as easy as it was to have the kids. life is to short. I really hope every father takes there ex back to court and makes her pay for the abuse she has created in the children's lives. Good lawyers always help you. the rest take your money, over and over again. I feel for every father that sits up at night wondering what to do. Take her back to court and keep a journal of everything. Facts, facts, facts. if that doesn't work, your screwed like me. kids grow up. Hopefully. always try and never give up. thats all you got

Jul 01, 2011
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What the !!
by: Anonymous

To 'follow your court order!!!!!
by: Anonymous' who the hell are you the woman who has Tatiana's kids at ransom. Please don't be giving anyone advice your obviously a screwball!

Jun 08, 2011
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Time To Get Real.
by: Anonymous

wow, its funny how so many people can judge someone elses situation. Iam a mother of 2, up here to find information to assist my husband with seeing his child. If a mother or father is a little late picking up the child, he or she shouldnt be allowed to see the child, who are you to make that decision. Do you actually believe children care about minutes late or seeing their parent. You see many forget about whats best for the mental stability of the child and understanding that the two most important people in their lives should love them more than the hatred or minimal malicious stipulations they have for each other. Love the child and stop with the petty B.S.

Jun 06, 2011
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Both Parents are Important
by: Anonymous

Kids need their parent more than they will ever need a schedule... The damage being done to our children is going to be with them for life... If the biological parent wants to be a part of their child's life then any step-parent needs to back off and stay out of it. Children have one set of parents and all this mess of mixed families etc. has destroyed our society. God Help us for those that keep a parent out of a child's life.

Apr 20, 2011
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I completely understand!!!!
by: Tiffany C

My brother is going through kinda the same thing...He has a little girl who the mother refused to let him see...he never got to see her until she was 9 months old, then after that was able to see her at 2 years old because he had gotten a lawyer...well he cannot afford his lawyer anymore plus child support plus a two bedroom home he needed to get, plus transportation...So he lost his lawyer..she stopped showing up to visitation and said he was confusing the daughter when she hardly showed up in the first place...He is in a bind and needs help too...The only advice I could give you is to pray harder and never give up...(which i know you wont because you seem like a decent woman who loves her kids) By never give up, I mean, Dont stop looking for ways around someone like her...and dont stop Looking for legal advice...and always remember...God dont like Ugly..:) Have a wonderful day..

Jul 24, 2010
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follow your court order!!!!!
by: Anonymous

Uhhhh first you need to learn how to spell. Then you need to buy a watch. If you can't pick them up on time, you shouldn't be allowed to have them. Kids need schedules. It shows that you care! Just because they came out of you doesn't give you a license to be a mother!

I deal with the exact same kind of manipulating woman, who thinks she is the mother of the children I am raising. She is no mother. She puts herself first always! She doesn't deserve to see hers any more than you do. Take him to court, do the right thing and quit whining!

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