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Jul 07, 2009
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DNA test
by: Kim

You can take her to court and have the court order her to have the DNA test. They can be very pricy, 8 years ago when my exhusband and I were getting a divorce it cost $900. The DNA test takes a sample from you, the child and the mother, the mom has a sample taken to give the lab tech a base line of where to start (you know she is the mom, then they have to just look at what DNA does not match the momto see if it matches you). I would suggest, if you want to be part of the child's life that you start now putting some money into a savings account for the child, and bring the proof of the account to court. Good luck and good on you for being a real man and tring to step up and be a father.

Jun 11, 2009
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P.I. Advice
by: G. Young

I'm a former Private Investigator and the wife of a paternity fraud victim... First, get a mail-ordered DNA test (cheap around $65 for non-admissable to court type if you just want personal confirmation or heafty around $275 if you want the kind that you can use in court) then make nice with mom long enough to get a visit with the child. Swab the cheek and wait for your written evidence.

Second, RECORD her comments about the child not being yours. Get her mad over the phone, put the phone on speaker (if you don't have a built in digital) and use a recorder. It's not illegal to record your own conversatons within your own house and the tape is admissable in court.

Third, hire an investigator before hiring an attorney. Find out who else knew what she did and have their full name and current contact info available for summons when you're ready to take the mom to court for fraud. Try to find the most religous based person close to the mom as they have the tendency not to lie on the stand. You gather as much info as possible before hiring the attorney because attorneys will hire investigators to obtain background on cases and charge you double the fee.

We've been there - Good Luck - and please read my posting TWINS. I'm experimenting in volumn posts concerning paternity fraud as gathering massive victims could lead to a CLASS ACTION suit that could get the laws changed in this country. Leave some contact info if you're interested. Thnx

Apr 02, 2009
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She did get you good
by: Anonymous

I remember how dumb I was in my 20s but I wasn't exposed to as much information as children are exposed to today. I have to ask you, why didn't you use a condom for a one night stand? I want you to teach your friends and family members that using protection is the only way to have casual sex!!!!!!! Period!!!!!!!!!
Moving on, stop giving this girl money. Just stop! If you have not have court ordered child support in place then you are not legally required to give her any money. If she does go through the courts you can ask for a court appointed DNA test. If the child comes back as yours you are responsible for paying for the DNA test. If the child is not yours she will be responsbile for paying for the DNA test. Until that point, there is really nothing for you to do. You can not be forced to pay back child support if there hasn't been a previous order in place.
Let me ask you are you going to marry the girl you are currently pregnant by? I sure hope you do, please don't start having multiple baby mamas. It's not cute, just read the tragic child support stories on this site and wise up!
If you want to talk more please hit me up at eshantell@hotmail.com

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