I"m a women who has a live-in boyfriend who has to pay child support

My boyfriend has two children by two defferent women. the first mother of his oldest son makes more money than he dose she dos'nt get much money. But the second one when they meet it was'nt a relationship it was for say a bottie call. But she delibratly got pregniant so she could trap the man in to taking care of her, but it did'nt work out like she wanted. He tryed by moving in with her she told him that she would drop the child support and give thier son his last name. She lied they lived togather and he had to pay for the child support and also paid all the bill's worked all day long to come home to a women that did'nt keep the house clean nor cook and she did'nt wash clothes, All this women wanted to do was lay up sleep all day get fat and lazy. she would work any where. So when he would confront her about her making promise's she kick him out and still getting child support and she's still not working. My boyfriend had got in to some trouble at a night club with a friend who caused the whole thing and he gets a slap on the wrist and my boyfriend is in jail doing a 1 year sentence for being in the wroug place at the wroug time with the wroug person. He was in jail for three months when they gave him work releace, I wrote the judge over the child support to let them know about him being in jail and to ask for a review and they wrote back saying they will handle that matter when he gets out of jail. okay so he's in work releace and 5 months she finds out and go to DHR. But she not knowing that they kicked him off of work releace they pull him in on child support, I also found out that before she did that she had a job and the moment she found he was working she quite her job and started back babie sitting for her kin folks so she could hide that money where did'nt reported at the food stamp office and get child support on top of it so dos'nt have to work. I"m a mother of two boy's one them never knew his father and i rasied him on my own did ask for a thing from his biologic father and my second son father we got married and he came down with cancer and died so i rasied two children on my own and did'nt ask for help. This mother sit out to trap a man that did'nt want her other than a bottie call and thats what is fuiling her anger. What is fair about that if i can do it with a 9 th grade education. Then she should be able to get out and keep a job the courts don't think about that all they care about is the mothers right. The father did'nt force her to lay next to him in a bed. she wanted and when he did'nt want her anymore that realy made her angre, So there's always two side to a story mother act like thier the victum when most of the time its about being rejected and not about the children.






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boo hoo
by: Anonymous

Your BF didn't have to have sex with the woman but did and a baby came out of it. I think you're naive 2 believe it was just a booty call if he moved in with her. And that was your choice not 2 ask your first son's father for anything but your son could have been sooo much better off if you had put his needs before your ego and ignorance. I'm just saying...

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HEY
by: Anonymous

GURL REALLY U NEED TO LEARN HOW TO FUCKN SPELL

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BE RESPONSIBLE - TAKE PRECAUTIONS
by: Anonymous

I say most cases are chicks & dudes having spontaneous (drunken/drugged) sex with someone, throwing caution to the wind, and voila! there's a baby - a tiny helpless human YOU BROUGHT into the world. I'd say more times than not the mother is left to care for the baby alone (unless the guy is a real man and steps up and, at the very least, helps with the baby's needs). If he doesn't want to be a real dad or part of the child's life, helping with the physical needs of the child is the LEAST he is responsible for. Same goes for the mother - BE A MOTHER. A baby is not a game or a way to keep scare or prove your manhood or womanhood. GROW UP, PEOPLE.

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