Im begging for any advice for my son
by Help us Please
I am currently trying to get custody of my soon to be 6 this month,year old son.He has a lot of mental issues caused by his mother.For instance,he is not potty trained for fear of her hitting him or screaming at him,and this has caused him to hold it for an entire week before he see's me so he can go to the bathroom without getting beaten or scream at.
It's so bad I have been videoing him and in one weekend he went a total of 96 times,yes 96 times.And I was told I would be in contempt of court if I took him to see a doctor for help.His mother claims he is potty trained and the Guardian ad litem in the case believes this,even though he has seen my videos,I guess he thinks this is normal behavior for a 5 year old boy.My son struggles so hard to try to go to the bathroom and he cries and says things like "Daddy can you fix it daddy,please daddy can you make the poop juice stop".
That tears my heart out,because his mother is flooding him with Miralax to force him to go and now he can't control it any longer,which will lead to a lifetime of torment from other children,I am terrified of this.My sons mom also told the Guardian that he was potty trained and I have atleast a hundred videos showing he isn't and yet the Guardian does nothing even though she lied directly to him,but if it were me,he would hold me in contempt.
My son is still in daycare because his mother says he was not ready for school when the reality of it was she has not gotten him potty trained.It gets worse,on the days he knows I'm coming to get him at daycare,he cries from the moment he's dropped off until the moment I pick him up.Now I am off on Thursday and Friday,but the Guardian ad Litem says I must take him to the daycare from 8:30 am until 5:45 pm on both days because he needs to develop his social skills for school,my son had been going to this daycare for 3 plus years,he is more than prepared for school and if he is not,then what sort of miracle can they preform in 3 months to get him ready.Don't you think he would have great social skills after 3 years ? Well he does and when I asked the Guardian about,telling him he had great skills already,he would not answer me.
Oh,did I mention my sons mother does not have to take him to daycare on her day off on Wednesday,but I do and if I don't that I will be held in contempt of court.And I don't even have summers with my son,because the same guardian told me at my first hearing that I was getting the best deal I could get when I got my son from Thursday to Sunday and failed to even mention rule 21 I think it is and I was stripped of my summer time with my son.
He thinks its best for my child to sit in a daycare from 8:30 am to 5:45 pm rather than to spend time with his father,what sense does that make? I have never been in trouble in my life,I pay 225 a week in child support,I love my son more than anything in the world,so why am I being treated so unfairly?My son cries and tells me "Daddy I'm so sorry,I'm so sorry daddy" when I take him back to his mother,my heart breaks daily.My son says things like "I wish I could freeze mommy into ice then smash her","Daddy we need to make a robot wasp and it can sting mommy,then we can put her in a cage and I can stay with you forever","Daddy I wish I was 52 feet tall so I could squish mommy".All these things tell me he is terrified of her because she is so violent and mean to him.With all the video evidence I have does anyone know why this Guardian is turning a blind eye and refuses to help me at all ? Can anyone out PLEASE tell me what I can do about this Guardian ad Litem,who can I complain to about him ? I am BEGGING anyone for some sort of advice before my poor little boy is scared for life.My email address is firstname.lastname@example.org.