Judges That Make Men Angry


(New York )

About 13 years ago my wife and I broke up due to her having a lot of mental health issues. The issues came from her father, a man that raped his child for many years. He then left the family and was never seen again.


I found this man and warned people he worked around to not let him near children. He had them all conned, they told me to mind my own business he was a very nice man. Well, lets say they told me never to call again and that he works well with the children in the church. So when I went through problems of her trying to kill me one night, the courts told me I was lying. I told them she tried to kill herself and guess what, they sent me to see the head doctor telling him I was going to kill myself.

They turned it around on me. So when I went for child support the courts did 25% of my wages. I was working three jobs and they took it from all three which was fine but, when I asked the hearing examiner why he was hitting all three jobs, he stated that he could. I said to him, well, I can't afford to live this way. His wise ass remarks was to get another job. In fact, I don't care if you get five jobs I will hit them all. I stated to him that I would like to spend some time with my children and have a little money to do things with them, and he stated I don't care about that. The court made me feel like I raped her for all those years.

All I did was marry a person that was not whole, due to her father. I went as far as not signing the papers for 9 years so she could get help. But the court of Ulster county made me feel everything was my fault, I would like to thank them for that. Also, when you call for information from this court, they always give you the wrong information. As of today my youngest son is 21 years old and I had no problem paying for child support, but I hated the way the courts made me feel.

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A Good Dad
by: Disabled Mom

I feel so badly for this man that broke up with his deeply damaged wife. While it's most unfortunate they couldn't work out her pain, it's also understandable. This good man did all he possibly could to warn people of a sick man, kudos to him! Courts, police, etc., are all so used to dealing with the scum of the earth that they don't know how to switch gears to deal with a good person. Too many parents aren't paying. Very few judges, etc have the perspicacity to deal appropriately. Too many are corrupt these days and it won't change in "these last days".

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CRAZY PEOPLE
by: MELISSA

WELL, IT SOUNDS TO ME SHE LEARNED FROM THE BEST, HER FATHER. SHE LEARNED HOW TO CON, I KNOW THAT YOU LOVED HER AND MIGHT STILL DO BUT WHAT HAPPEN AFTER YOU GOT DIVORCED? DID SHE REMARRY OR DOES SHE HAVE CONTACT WITH HER FATHER? PEOPLE LIKE THIS GIVE PEOPLE THAT WORK HARD A BAD NAME. I WISH I KNEW WHAT TO TELL YOU BUT I DON'T. HOW DO YOUR CHILDREN FEEL ABOUT HER?

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