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Left in the dark

by Kevin
(orlando,Fl)

I was with this young lady for 5 years. We had a daughter together, (so I thought) they were living with me, I paid all the bills, she didn't work, she had everything she could have ever wanted. Then she popped up pregnant telling me this baby was also mine. I had my suspicions due to we were arguing all the time, she didn't want to hear that if she had a job then things would be so much better.

One day I came home to an empty house, just a letter stating she didn't want to be with me. Yes I was devastated for a while but I got over it. I moved on with my life and found someone new. All the while I was still taking care of my daughter. Six years went by, and one day I got pulled over by the police whom hauled me in for driving with suspended license. I had no idea, then when I got to court they told me I had a writ for child support. WTH, come to find out I was on child support the whole time. I asked her about this at child support court, she just laughed and told me I should have given her more and I wouldn't have never had to find out.

I looked more into this and she had put me on child support when she found out she was pregnant with my daughter. She had even tried to stick me with the baby she had just had but his father put himself on child support. This girl had nerve to tell me my daughter wasn't mine and she will continue to receive child support from until she feels like telling the state to discontinue it. I tried to get a DNA test and was denied. I am still going through this situation. It is bad, she see my girlfriend and I and laugh about how we refuse to get married for fear the state will take her income. I can't get any answers from the judge. If any one has suggestions please let me.

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Jun 11, 2009
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New Approach
by: G. Young

I'm a former Private Investigator and the wife of a paternity fraud victim... First, get a mail-ordered DNA test (cheap around $65 for non-admissable to court type if you just want personal confirmation or heafty around $275 if you want the kind that you can use in court) then make nice with mom long enough to get a visit with the child. Swab the cheek and wait for your written evidence.

Second, RECORD her comments about the child not being yours. Get her mad over the phone, put the phone on speaker (if you don't have a built in digital) and use a recorder. It's not illegal to record your own conversatons within your own house and the tape is admissable in court.

Third, hire an investigator before hiring an attorney. Find out who else knew what she did and have their full name and current contact info available for summons when you're ready to take the mom to court for fraud. Try to find the most religous based person close to the mom as they have the tendency not to lie on the stand. You gather as much info as possible before hiring the attorney because attorneys will hire investigators to obtain background on cases and charge you double the fee.

We've been there - Good Luck - and please read my posting TWINS. I'm experimenting in volumn posts concerning paternity fraud as gathering massive victims could lead to a CLASS ACTION suit that could get the laws changed in this country. Thnx

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Jun 11, 2009
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I'm a former Private Investigator and the wife of a paternity fraud victim... First, get a mail-ordered DNA test (cheap around $65 for non-admissable to court type if you just want personal confirmation or heafty around $275 if you want the kind that you can use in court) then make nice with mom long enough to get a visit with the child. Swab the cheek and wait for your written evidence. Second, RECORD her comments about the child not being yours. Get her mad over the phone, put the phone on speaker (if you don't have a built in digital) and use a recorder. It's not illegal to record your own conversatons within your own house and the tape is admissable in court. Third, hire an investigator before hiring an attorney. Find out who else knew what she did and have their full name and current contact info available for summons when you're ready to take the mom to court for fraud. Try to find the most religous based person close to the mom as they have the tendency not to lie on the stand. You gather as much info as possible before hiring the attorney because attorneys will hire investigators to obtain background on cases and charge you double the fee. We've been there - Good Luck - and please read my posting TWINS. I'm experimenting in volumn posts concerning paternity fraud as gathering massive victims could lead to a CLASS ACTION suit that could get the laws changed in this country. Thnx

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Mar 31, 2009
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It happens all the time
by: Anonymous

Unfortunately these types of things happen all the time. Once you're on child support you're stuck forever.The state can care less about these men and the children it's all about making money for them at anybody expense.

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