I understand EXACTLY where you are coming from...my son hasn't seen his bio-mom in over 4-1/2 yrs...his choice as much as hers...she is in arears over $50,000.00 and til today, I have not received one red cent from her and the courts haven't done a thing to her either! You just hang in there and be there for your daughter...she will learn the hard truth on her own...believe me...and you will be there to lift her up.