my 11 yr old daughter does not know her father. he was abusive and not willing to co parent. Controlling me and trying to make sure I suffered was the goal. He even told me "Bitch, i am gonna make you suffer". Well i have to admit at first I suffered economically. But i went to college and worked full time. if it weren't for my family i wouldnt have been able to do it. his family wanted no part because they thought they would have to contribute finacially. funny how that works. Anyways here I am now. college educated and making good money. her father is still the same loser he was 12 years ago. no job, no life, pretending an lying to everyone about how great he is and how much money he has when he really has not a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of. a "freeloader" mooching off his parents and unsuspecting women and friends. he has never paid willingly or regularly only when they threaten him with jail. spends all his time on myspace feeding his narcisism by competing for "friends". Last time I looked he had over 1000. LOL wow now thats some serious status. if you google his name plus myspace you will find hundreds of his perverted messages posted on all these young girls myspace pages. what a pathetic loser. He now has another child out of wed lock (thank god I never married him either)which he doesn't pay support for. My daughter does not even seem to care that he is not around. We have replaced him with a much better model. One who cares and is a real dad. He will still be in the same place 20 years fom now. OLD , lonely, irrelevant. still being pursued for child support. he will never be able to own anything, have a credit report with no arrearage on it, or get a tax refund or a job without wage assignment or have a bank account or a license or go on a vacation outside the US until he pays what he owes. He will always be looking over his shoulder. i will see to it, I have the last laugh.
