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Mother Sick with cancer and taking care of 3 children

by Sis
(Portland, OR )

Scarlet is a 45 year old mother of three fighting cancer. Scott the father of the children & Soon to be exhusband is an attorney and property developer in Portland, OR.

Scarlet and the kids have not had any money for groceries for the last 14 months. Scott seems to feel that paying the property taxes & power amounts to support.

Scott filed for divorce 3 months after Scarlet was diagnosed with cancer.

Scott also, thinks that every other weekend means picking up the kids for 2-3 hours on 1 day of the weekend counts as his visitation. Scott never feeds his kids when its his time for visitation but rather picks them up goes to the movies and delivers them back to Scarlet unfed and hungry. When asked if he intends to take them for the weekend, Scott always has other things that are more important. Sometimes visitation amounts to Scott going to the home where the children lives and uses the computers to do work while his laundry is in the machine in the basement. He calls his laundry and Computer time visitation. Scarlet has the kids basically 24-7 while Scott is free to do and go where he pleases.

Scarlet had some money but is not able to work and taking care of the kids is a full time job. Why is it that Scott doesn't have to purchase food or give her a break.....She never gets a break.

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Nov 12, 2011
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expect nothing from a narcissist
by: GRATEFUL

IM TERMINALLY ILL AND MY EX HAS NEVER COME TO ME AND ASKED ME HOW I FEEL. MY EX SKIPS WEEKEND DAYS WITH OUR DAUGHTER AND THAN HAS 600 THINGS TO SAY THAT IM DOING WRONG. IM GRATEFUL THAT I GET TO BE WITH MY DAUGHTER IN THIS SITUATION. I SAY TO NOT EXPECT ANYTHING BECAUSE HE SOUNDS THE SAME AS MY EX. ITS EASIER IF YOU JUST APPRECIATE HIS MONEY AND SEEDS THAT MADE THOSE BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN THAT I KNOW KEEP YOU TRYING HARDER EVERYDAY. YOU HAVE CANCER, PROBABLY A PORT AND LOTS OF SYMPTOMS. THOSE CHILDREN HELP YOU FORGET THE HORROR OF ILLNESS AND REMIND YOU THAT YOU ARE A MOTHER WITH 3 KIDS AND SOMETIMES ITS GOOD TO DISTRACT YOURSELF FROM THE ILL WOMAN YOU ARE IN FRONT OF THE MIRROR. TIP IF I MAY...TRY THIS BOOK CALLED 'MAKING MIRACLES IN 40 DAYS' AUTHOR IS MELODIE BEATTIE.
GOD BLESS

Aug 09, 2011
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so sad
by: Anonymous

i just feel so bad about this, for real. the pain this lady is enduring, Just remember you are not the cause of this man's choice, which is just repulsive, we should not be vengeful, but how can one not wish this man horror, for his actions.

Jan 27, 2010
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Scott the Attorney
by: Anonymous

Scott is sowing some seeds....watch what he will reap.I wish for you a recovery from your cancer...stay strong and may god bless you.

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