NEEDS TO BE OVERHAULED

by Good Dad
(brooklyn)

THIS IS PLACE HAS NO CONSIDERATION WHATSOVER FOR GOOD FATHERS PERIOD , THEN YOU WONDER WHY THEY JUST GIVE UP AND LEAVE , OR JUST QUIT THEIR JOBS,QUIT SEEING THEIR CHILDREN ETC ETC...EVERYTIME I GO THERE ALL I SEE IS GOOD TO GREAT DADS TOSSED TO THE WOLVES-THEY REALLY DONT CARE , THE CHILDREN ARE NOT ALLOWED TO VOICE THIER OPINIONS OR TO ATTEND...WHY NOT WHY SHOULDNT THEY ? i GUARANTEE YOU THE GOOD FATHERS WONT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT.
THEN THE AGE 21? I AS A GOOD FATHER WOULD LIKE TO SEE MY KIDS GET THIER MONEY IN THIER HANDS AND NOT THAT OF A PARENT WHOM CONSISTENTLY SHOWS THAT SHE SPENDS IT ON HER AND NOT HER CHILDREN ! I BELIEVE 18 IS A VERY FORMIDABLE AGE AND MEDICAL WHILE IN SCHOOL AS WELL. MORE OFTEN THAN NOT THE SUPPORT CUSTODY UNIT WILL SCREW UP THE PAPERWORK OR JUST MAKE AN ERROR HERE AND THERE AND ITS ALWAYS YOUR FAULT NOT THIERS, FROM FREEZING YOUR BANK ACCOUNT ACCIDENTLY TO REFERING YOU TO CREDIT AGENCIES, AND AS PER VISITATION HOW ABOUT THIS YOU GO PICK UP YOUR KIDS WHOM LIVE OUT OF STATE AND YOU DROP 2 GRAND IN AIRFARE ,CAR ETC TO PICKEM UP FOR SUMMER SO THEY ARE WITH YOU ALL SUMMER YET YOU HAVE TO CONTINUE TO SEND HER THE MONIES ??? TWO MONTHS YOU HAVE THE KIDS SO ISNT THAT LIKE A PENALTY FOR WANTING TO PICK UP YOUR KIDS AND SHARE QUAILTY TIME WITH THEM ? THEY DO NOT HOLD UP THE MOTHER TO ANY ACCOUNTABILITY....YOU WONDER IF THEY ARE OF THE BELIEF THAT ALL FAILED RELATIONSHIPS ARE THE FATHERS FAULT ? I WISH THE GOVERNOR OR A MAYOR OR SOMEONE WITH HUTZPAH WOULD STAND UP FOR US GOOD FATHERS , ITS A SHAME THAT THEY DONT SEE THE LONG TERM DAMAGE THEY CREATE...BELIEVE ME THERE IS MUCH MORE AND ALL IS NEGATIVE...I PERSONALLY CAN'T BLAME MANY DADS THAT HAVE QUIT AND DISSAPPEARED FROM THEIR CHILDRENS LIVES BECAUSE OF MANY IF NOT ALL OF THE CURRENT ARCHAIC LAWS THAT ARE CURRENTLY IN PLACE...HECK IVE BEEN EVEN TOLD IN SECRECY FROM JUDGES HOW f@##$D UP THE DADS RIGHTS ARE AS WELL AS THE LAWS. SO WHY NEW YORK ? OF ALL PLACES NEW YORK ? WHY BE SO BACKWARDS...PLEASE FEEL FREE TO LET ALL YOUR PUBLIC OFFICAILS KNOW THAT THESE LAWS NEED TO BE REVAMPED FOR THE GOOD OF THE CHILDREN AT LEAST IF NOT FOR THE GOOD DADS..SORRY TO TELL YOU BUT NOT ALL THE DADS ARE THE CULPRITS... PS I'M SO GLAD I WAS NEVER SUCCESFUL IN MARRYING THIER MOTHER LORD KNOWS I TRIED...EVEN THOUGH EVERYONE TOLD ME I WAS CRAZY FOR TRYING TO MARRY HER...I WOULD HAVE PROBABLY TAKEN MY LIFE , BEEN IN JAIL FOREVER OR LEFT THE COUNTRY...