Never have seen my twins

by Bummed in
(Wisconsin)

My 7 year old twin boy's mother called me hostile while she was filing for support. I'm the furthest anyone can get from hostile. The hostile classification caused the state child support attorney to tell me I'm not allowed contact with the twins or their mother without even a chance to defend myself. For over seven years I've been paying support on time without any complaints, but now I'm tired of it. They live in Montana and I live in Wisconsin so visitation wouldn't be easy, but it could be done, it just isn't allowed. The mother makes a lot of money (as a nurse who owns a consulting firm), much more than I do, and if she wants to keep the boys all to herself I believe she should also be paying for their upbringing all by herself.

It's a good possibility she's remarried and my boys have even been adopted.

Is it possible to terminate my 'non-existent' parental rights and stop paying support?

Things would be much different if we lived in the same city, the same state even. With all the support I pay and other bills I can't afford to hire an attorney or two to figure this out for me. One attorney I had a consultation with wanted $5000.00 up front.

Thanks for listening.