New Laws for Liars
by Lady G
(Dallas, TX)
My husband has taken care of both of his children by to seperate women. He bought them both their first car, designer cloths and taken them on trips. Its horrible because for 16years, he has been paying the mothers directly. He even increased his payments on his own by $200. I have to admitt that the first mother did sign an affidafit stating he had payed but AZ, system I guess is behind and they always send threatening letters. But prior to that the first mother used child support to manipulate the hell out of him, untill her husband said enough.
Now the second mother has been getting paid and she lied to my husband and said she takes it to the agency directly, she just like him to deposit the money in thier sons account are mail it to her because the process is quicker. But guess what he gets a letter in the mail stating he owes her $19,000.
They both have jealous "x-wives" hearts and have used the child support thing to thier advantage. I think the courts need to change the laws and make them fair. When you have documentation they need to charge these lying, bitter, self absorbed women with purjury.
I took the time to write this and hopefully it will help someone, Men if you were married to someone and they use child support in any matter against you are your child, go through the courts, establish your visitation rights " fight for whats right" make your demands. We just had our/their son for the first time for Christmas and he's in college, she did not want that to happen.
Don't argue with them just go to court, don't put your mate into handling your buisness because the courts think we are angry and dont want you to pay. Show that you love your child by using the law just like they do.
Never get twisted into thinking your doing your child a favor by paying the mother directly " it does not work" always trust your mate they see things that you don't.
Don't sneak and do things for the children thinking your making the mother happy....go through the courts, anything thats asked outside the norm send it through the courts!!! It will make you and your families life a lot easier.