New Orleand dad fighting for custody in VA ,,,,Stop being the nice guy.....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!............

by Dennis Robinson
(New orleans)

Let me start by saying my situation is all my fault. I want other dads to benefit from my misfortunes. With that being said my son is almost 13 years old I've been fighting this for 12 years and Im done. My story begins with a bad realationship.

My sons mother went to see a fertility specialist witout me knowing when all the planets were lined up she invited me over and like magic she had me for 18 years. I recieved the news "we" were pregnant. I knew my life had just changed forever. My son was born months later . For the last 12 years I have walked on eggshells around her trying to not rock the boat. This has gotten me nowhere.

As I sit here writing this I have decided to take the gloves off. I love my son more than life and I have finally realized that life isnt going to exist until I draw a line in the sand. Parents cannot exist emotionally when money and rights are taken from them,and the child dosent benefit from it. That is what lawyers are for.I would literally have to write a book to tell the story and I may just do that . Here is 12 years of being the nice guy , The best thing to do is as the situation changes go back to court immediately.

Dont put it off make a note of everything that happens every conversation no matter how insignificiant . When you are in a court room standing infront of a judge he only wants to hear what you can prove . Your emotions mean nothing when it comes to the law . React only on logic , Do everything with the law in mind. Remember just because she is the mom dosent mean she automatically wins. I just went to court without a lawyer and the judge threw it out because she hadnt proved anything.

Im out lost wages , airfare , to the tune of $2300.00 , but she dosent have full custody which is what she was tryting to get so she can in turn raise my child support. Now her next move is to get an attorney and take me back to court . she will start over again and agian and again. Im drawing a line in the sand today.