Nicholas J. Gengozian - Denver CO

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Nicholas J. Gengozian - Denver CO - Carpenter/Flooring

by Nicholas J. Gengozian - Carpenter/Flooring
(Denver CO)

Im a 26 year old from Denver CO and have been paying child support for the last 5 years totaling roughly around 40k. I had met my daughter's mother at the Traditions apartments when I moved in 04. I lived across the hall from her and it didnt take long before we started to see each other briefly. Maybe 4 or 5 date and it was pretty much over, so realisticly, we knew nothing about each other accept we like to drink and have a good time. 16 months later, Im served with a summons to partake in a DNA test to see if Im the father of the little girl.

I was 1 out of 2 people that tested which doesn't really look good on her part, but still the mother is favored through the support divison. She is awarded 647.00 monthly and Im stuck with it with no defence. Through out those years, I continue to pay and she continues to modify every 6 months, jacking the price to a unrealistic high of 853.00 a month.

Im a 24 year old at the time and paying unreasonable prices for her to survive and suck off of me for the remainder of that year for a little child that I had no idea about until she was 9 months old. Now, at 25, I have hired an attorny and reduced the price to a reasonable amount. But I now see how crooked the child support division really is.

The record keeping and the people running their systems obviously didnt get through the 6th grade successfully. I have been parenting my girlfriends daughter for the last six years of her life, and keep in mind I have been in contact with my daughters mother only to be denied my visitaion with her, and frankly, I would trust either one of my children to run the show through the county and division of child support before anyone of those illiterate, special people that think they actually have a real job.

Real, honest jobs dont consist of screwing people that never stood a chance. I now am 26 and have lost the motivation to try to work as hard and as fast as I can to make that payment. Ive recieved a job for minimum wage at a local skate/snowboard shop. Wow, she now thought that she had the world, and I hope it crumbbles beneth her. Debt is one thing I have accepted through out these years, and if she could take one thing from all of this, I hope she asks for forgivness.

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Aug 20, 2010
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DUMB
by: Anonymous

You knew your baby 3weeks after she was born and you saw her then and said "yep she looks just like me", it took the courts 6mos to hunt you down for a maternity test, and the mom did everything to get you involved with your daughters life. Don't play a pitty party. You made your decision not to be apart of her life, so what that you have to pay child support, when you miss a payment, it's up to the mother to come up with the money to pay for things. Shit isn't cheap!
And she's worth every dime spent on her. Get off your high horse and be a man and pay what is owed!

Jul 22, 2010
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Here's how it REALLY is hon....
by: REALIST

No it isn't right at all that she didn't tell you about the baby of course. And she sounds like a real nice lady (sarcastic). But why should the child suffer? It's not about either of you 2. That kid didn't ask to be conceived so keep that in mind! I know there are good dads out there but listen, a judge can smell a rat a mile away so these "the judge says I'm a dead-beat" is correct: They can sniff you out. Has anyone stopped and thought about what in the world it COSTS to raise kids? I tell you what, let's all put every single item it takes to raise kids (down to the toothbrush and bubble bath) on paper and let's divide it in 2. Even better, try feeding and clothing your teenage boy and putting him on your car insurance! And what about college? That?s after the age of 18 and you aren?t required to help at all with that! Maybe your ?money hungry baby mama? is saving for college and after the age of 18 expenses (what 18 year old do YOU know that is truly able to efficiently support themselves)? 25% net ain't squat. You pay on what you make and if your kids aren't worth a quarter of your take-home then you are a loser because you want them to have less than what you have for yourself. Fellas, we ain't going on a cruise on your stinking $500 a month for 2 kids, trust me!!!! And BTW if you don't pay your child support, who in the @#$@#$ do you think is feeding your kid during your arears! So they have to not eat or have necessities until you get caught up? Keep a freaking decent job as if they WERE living with you and you had to keep them going DUH! Trust me, you?d do what you had to (wait tables, work on cars, etc) if you lost your job and had mouths in your home to feed. This is NO DIFFERENT! They aren't a VISA bill folks, it?s not like paying for a membership you aren?t using. They are alive and you put them here too so do our part for them and stop whining that you ?are being taken to the cleaners?. Bologna! 25% of my take home would leave me with way more than I have for myself, trust me. Trust me, let them get into high school and she?ll be FORCING you to take your weekends! Just try being a single mom of 2 for one freaking week and you?ll see where the money goes- to THEM. Bottom line... Wrap it up if you don't want to support your children you have and if they're here, do your part for each child equally, no matter who the "baby mama is"! Oh and another thing, DON'T HAVE MORE KIDS THAN YOU CAN FEED.

Apr 12, 2010
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you are so right
by: Anonymous

The childsupport system in this country is corrupt. In every state. I dont know what to tell you except.Keep everything on a cash basis. Dont have any assets in your name . No 401k , boats , motercycles , checking accounts. Just live on cash and get a good attorney. Good luck . I have been their and done that.

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